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James Policano Obituary
James Matthew, was born on April 12, 1966, in Paterson, NJ.
He passed away suddenly at his home in Jersey City, NJ at the age of 47 on Thursday April 10, 2014. James lived and worked in the tri-state area his entire life and had a passion for food, culture, and travel. James was a parishioner of St. Anne R.C. Church in Fair Lawn, NJ. After graduating from French Culinary institute, he worked in the food industry for the rest of his life. He has held positions at the Highlawn Pavilion, Black Hound Bakery, Tom Cat Bakery, FreshDirect and D'Artagan. He was beloved by his friends and coworkers and was renowned for his taste and knowledge of food which earned him the nickname "The Palate" for his ability to recognize and describe flavors.
Beloved partner of Chris Shieh. Loving and devoted son of Kathleen (Riordan) Policano and the late James. Cherished brother of John and wife Veronica, Marianne and husband Dino and Kathleen Also survived by loving aunts, uncles and cousins. Caring uncle of Christian Cacciaguerra, Aldino, Mikey, and Ava Guadagnino, and Justine, James, Johnny, and Jordana Policano.
James will be remembered for his grace and thoughtfulness. He would always rise to the highest standards when thinking of others, be it through gifts, cards, messages or even cakes; he made the lives of those around him better just by being there. He was a wonderful listener and loyal friend. He will be deeply missed.
A funeral mass is planned for Monday, April 14, 2014 10:30 am at St. Anne's R.C. Church, 15-05 St Anne Street, Fair Lawn, NJ. Entombment will follow at Maryrest Cemetery in Mahwah, NJ. The family will receive relatives and friends Sunday 2-7 PM at the Vander Plaat-Caggiano Funeral Home Inc., 13-31 Saddle River Road, Fair Lawn, NJ (201) 797-3500.
In lieu of flowers, donations in James's name may be made to Christian's Strength, P.O. Box 98, Flanders, NJ 07836. For additional information please visit
www.vpfairlawn.com
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Memories and Condolences
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Gerry Cabanillas
April 21, 2014
It was nice talking to you 3/4 a week thru business.you had a friend in Puerto Rico.my sympathies to your family and partner...
Howard C
April 15, 2014
Thank you for your years of friendship. You're an amazing friend and I'm fortunate to have known you. My deepest condolences to your family.
Alice H
April 14, 2014
There are no words anyone can say to such a wonderful & Loving family to help ease their sorrow. We are so sorry for your loss. The Riordan / Policano Families were always so very special. Hearts are broken, lots of Prayers are being said. With love - Alice (May) Judge Harvey & Family
Josie
April 13, 2014
It has been a very long time since I've seen you. I remember you sitting in the family room and talking, and listening and joking with me and PJ long after Johnny had left or gone to bed. I remember most your smile and how contagious it was and how genuine your hugs were. The world will miss out on a great man with a loving heart and for that I am sad. Rest in God's hands now. God bless you and your family.
April 12, 2014
to the Riordan family, it's been a very very long time since we have seen/spoken to you but we both know John and Kathy. Our sincere condolences go out to both of you and your family.
Bob Pearson and Margie (Brickley) Pearson
Roseld Laguatan
April 12, 2014
James, thank you for being so wonderful. You will truly be missed. The memories I have of you will continue to inspire me. Thank you for being my cheerleader, my window to the world of fine cuisine and most of all a great friend.
Chantal Barralis
April 11, 2014
My dear friend James,
I have known you for only 8 months but I can truly say you made an impact on my life. I will miss seeing your sweet face everyday at work. You were a wonderful man with a golden heart. Rest in peace. Love you lots
Mitchell Marini
April 11, 2014
God Bless you my friend.
Chris Grace
April 11, 2014
James, you are my best friend and my companion. You are the world to me and I will always love you. I want to hear your voice and see your smile again. I love you.
Sang Lee
April 11, 2014
My sweet James. The best friend I ever had and I will miss you dearly. Rest in peace and see you in Heaven one day. Try not to eat all the lovely sweets before I get there. :) Love you forever.
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