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Janet Montagna Sparapani

1948 - 2024

Janet Montagna Sparapani obituary, 1948-2024, New Haven, CT

BORN

1948

DIED

2024

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Maresca & Sons Funeral Home

592 Chapel Street

New Haven, Connecticut

Janet Sparapani Obituary

Janet Montagna Sparapani
Janet Montagna Sparapani, a wife, mother, and grandmother who co-founded the East Haven flower business Creative Flowers, died Friday morning at her home in New Haven, after a six-month fight with cancer. She was 75.
She was born Janet Louise Montagna in New Haven on November 3, 1948, the day President Harry Truman famously held up a newspaper with the erroneous headline "Dewey Defeats Truman." Her parents, Louis and Anna Montagna, who had supported Truman, had considered naming their daughter Trumania until her 16-year-old sister, Carmel, talked them out of it.
Janet was the youngest of four children, growing up in New Haven and then Hamden, where she attended St. Rita School. In the early 1960s, while she was a high school student at St. Mary's High School in New Haven, the Montagnas moved to Sorrento Avenue in East Haven.
At St. Mary's, Janet's aptitude for numbers caught the attention of Sister Mary Francis Lynch, the school's bursar, who took her under her wing. At 16, Janet got a job in the bookkeeping department at the New Haven Register, where her father was the manager of paper distribution. It was there she met her husband, Reny Sparapani, a copywriter in the advertising department. They started dating after Janet's high school graduation in 1966 and were married in 1972.
Reny traded his desk job for self-employment-crafting wooden and wrought-iron home decorations-and together, he and Janet grew and transformed the business, starting with silk flowers for weddings and later transitioning to fresh-flower arrangements. As Janet developed into a skilled florist, she also managed the finances, ensuring the company's success and expansion.
The couple opened a small shop on East Haven's Main Street in 1980, then moved to a larger space in the center of town, where they stayed for 23 years.
A mother of three, Janet was known for her devotion and loyalty to family and friends, her accommodating nature, and her deep sense of fairness. Her daughter, Robyn Saracco, recalled how she would strive to make sure Christmas presents were equal: "She would take presents away if she felt someone had too many."
Such qualities were matched only by her dedication to work. She became adept at juggling multiple jobs throughout her lifetime, applying her finance skills at numerous places, including Bob Thomas Ford and Executive Office Supply, while also helping Reny in the flower business. In 1998, she joined Town Fair Tire, gaining free Fridays to arrange flowers for weddings, funerals, and dining room tables. She remained at Town Fair for 26 years.
After becoming a grandmother, Janet dedicated her Fridays to watching her grandchildren. Outside of work, she loved vacationing in Aruba with her husband and cousin, Patti; cheering on the UConn Huskies, especially the women's team; and trying her luck at the slot machines. In 2022, she traveled to Amalfi, Italy, the birthplace of her grandparents. She wrote to her son, Jason, that the trip was "a lifelong dream come true."
Janet is survived by her husband; her brother, Louis Montagna, Jr.; her children and their spouses, Jason and Carolyn Sparapani, Marianne and Al Rusgrove, and Robyn and Joe Saracco; her grandchildren, Jackson, Emma, Addilyn, and Oscar; and many nieces, nephews, and friends. She was predeceased by her parents, her sister Carmel Perrelli, and her brother Frank Montagna.
In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to the St. Baldrick's Foundation to support childhood cancer research.
Friends and family may call at MARESCA & SONS FUNERAL HOME, 592 Chapel St., Tuesday from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. and are invited to go DIRECTLY to St. Bernadette Church, 380 Townsend Ave., in St. Pio of Pietrelcina Parish for a Mass of Christian Burial on Wednesday at 11 a.m. Interment in All Saints Cemetery. Offer condolences at marescafuneralhome.com

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Published by The New Haven Register on Sep. 21, 2024.

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Bob and Lorraine Wasik

October 9, 2024

For our dear friend Janet ~
A chance meeting thirty years ago in Aruba brought a kind, generous and special woman into our lives. The result was a wonderful friendship. You will always be remembered by two people who loved you dearly.
Bob and Lorraine Wasik

Elaine Crisco

October 1, 2024

Reny , our sincere condolences to you and your family.

Bob and Elaine Crisco
Crisco´s Ceramics

George Pertesis

September 23, 2024

Reny, Helen and I offer our deepest condolences to you and your Family on Janet's passing. It was just last week we were remembering when we met you both at Home restaurant a few years ago and we sat and ate and talked about kids, grand-kids, and the state of the world....Life stuff. We pray that the wonderful memories you have of this terrific lady will help you through the difficult times.

George and Helen Pertesis
Bonita Springs, Fla.

Margaret devita (Richie deceased)

September 22, 2024

Reny, sending condolences to you and your children. We saw Janet many times when she would visit her sister Carmel. You and Janet were a
Great team

Andrea Delvecchio

September 22, 2024

Reny, Jason, Marianne & Robyn
Our deepest condolences on the passing of Janet. She was a beautiful soul, kind and giving. We have many good memories of our families over the years with friendship and laughter. She will certainly be missed. She was especially kind and giving to all of us during the passing of Angie her delicious soups soothe our souls during that time. Sophie especially enjoyed working alongside her at the carnival.
We pray that she and Angie watch over us from heaven.

With our love, blessings, and sympathy

Fred, Andrea, Dianne, Lucy and Sophie.

The Del Vecchio Family

September 22, 2024

Reny, Jason , Marianne & Robyn

Our deepest condolences on the passing of Janet. She was a beautiful soul, kind and giving. We have many memories of our families over the years filled with laughter and friendship. She was especially loving and caring toward all of us when Angie passed. Her delicious soups soothed our hearts. Sophie loved working along side her at the carnival as well.
We pray she and Angie are watching over all of us from heaven.
All our love, blessings and sympathy.
Fred, Andrea, Dianne, Lucy and Sophie.

Sondra Sparapani

September 21, 2024

Holidays were always fun at Janet and Rene's house on Townsend Ave., in New Haven. The food and family was always fun, filling and memorable. I remember that my mother would help Rene and Janet with flowers and arranging for weddings. Those are now fond memories.

I remember that Janet always had a smile on her face and was always so approachable. She was a great wife, mother, grandmother and aunt to me. Sadly, her departture was too soon and she will be unmeasurably missed. She has earned her wings. She now watches over all of us in eternity.

Janet, you are missed.

Janice Stegina Bohan

September 21, 2024

Reny, my sincere condolences to you and your family at this very sad time.

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