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Joan Schaefer Obituary

SCHAEFER, JOAN Joan Zito Schaefer, 76, of Savin Park, West Haven passed away suddenly on Aug. 4, 2013 at the St. Raphael's Campus of Yale New Haven Hospital. She was the beloved wife of Joseph Schaefer. Mrs. Schaefer was born in New Haven July 12, 1937, daughter of the late Michael and Rocolena Renda Zito. She was a 1954 graduate of Hillhouse High School where she was co-captain of the cheerleader squad. She was a dedicated registered nurse, working at the Hospital of St. Raphael for more than 30 years and was the recipient of the Nightingale Award. She enjoyed her annual vacations in Rhode Island with her family. She was a past president of the First Friday Crusade at the former St. John the Evangelist Church. Besides her husband, she is survived by two sons, Michael V. Montanaro Sr. and fiance, Stacey of North Haven and Matthew (Patrizia) Schaefer of Wallingford; a daughter, Carol Zuppardi of Guilford; a brother, Vincent (Elizabeth) Zito of Milford and five grandchildren, Michael V. Montanaro Jr., Francesca M. Zuppardi, Christian J. and Aidan L. Schaefer and Maria DiLieto Gagliardi. She was predeceased by her son-in-law, Robert A. Zuppardi and her infant son, Robert Montanaro. Friends may call at The Celentano Funeral Home, 424 Elm St. (cor. Dwight), New Haven Wednesday from 4 to 8 pm and are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial in St. John Vianney Church, Capt. Thomas Blvd., West Haven Thursday morning at 11:00. Interment will be private. To leave condolence messages, please visit www.celentanofuneralhome.com.

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Published by The New Haven Register from Aug. 5 to Aug. 6, 2013.

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August 15, 2013

Joe, Our deepest sympathy go out to you and your family in the loss of your beloved wife, Joan. She was such a lovely, friendly person. We only met at the 5:30 mass at St Agnes but Martha went to school with Joan. They were sorority sisters together. It was always so nice to chat with both of you. I know the loss you are feeling because I lost my husband two years ago. Joan is in a better place and now you have a special angel in heaven. Pray to God and He will get you through this difficult time. Only time can heal our hearts; not completely but we have to accept what God has laid out for us. Take care and our prayers are with you.Martha and Ed Iuteri and Joanne Nesdale

Frank Carafano

August 9, 2013

(as dictated to Michelle)
Joanie, I'm so sorry to hear about your death. God bless you and keep you in heaven with your mom and dad and all the other saints. Thank you for everything you've done for me; you were wonderful and I loved you dearly.

Michelle Carafano

August 9, 2013

Dear Carol, Joe, & family,
My Uncle Frank called to tell me this, but I couldn't quite believe it until seeing this article. I think of Joanie as warm and vital, and now I will think of her as rejoicing in her real life, her eternal life, at home with her loving Father.
My prayers for you to find peace amidst loss.

joann bagnoli

August 9, 2013

so sorry joe she a great woman . haven't seen you in so long sorry i miss it in the paper .so my prays to you and your family .

Ray DellaMura

August 8, 2013

Joe and family: My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

August 7, 2013

Dear Joe, Carol, Michael, Matthew, Vinny and families, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know we are thinking of you all. Joan and my mom were very close growing up and shared many fond memories. I'll always remember 'Joanie' as a kind, loving Aunt with a wonderful, friendly smile.
With our deepest sympathy, Aunt Beebe & Brenda Fedrizzi Korn

Leah Sharpe

August 7, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of the family. May joyful memories always burn bright for you.

August 7, 2013

To the Schaefer family: Joan was one of my colleague @ HSR 20yrs ago. Joan always maintained a smile and a positive attitude it was a plesure to work and have known her. My condolences to the family. Joan Bryant-Jordan

Lori Alfonso Jasiorkowski

August 6, 2013

Mr. Schaefer and family, my sincere condolences to all of you on the recent passing of Mrs. Schaefer. You are in my prayers.

Al and Marietta Alfonso

August 6, 2013

Joe, our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Betty O'Shea

August 6, 2013

Joe and family, You have my deepest sympathy. I am so sorry that I did not know joan was in the hospital, as I am still working here. My prayers are with you all.

Robert Wahl

August 6, 2013

Wishing all the family stength for today and hope for tomorrow when the comfort of your memories become greater than the sorrow of your loss. Our prayers are with you.
Rob Wahl & Elaine Adams

Lisa Sharog

August 6, 2013

Dear Joe and family ,
mom and I are deeply saddened to hear of the sudden loss of our dear neighbor, Joan. She was a wonderful lady, and she had a wonderful smile!! She always had a caring, kind word to say.
She always took the time to inquire about how I was progressing, after knee surgery , a few years back...( that was the 'dedicated nurse' in her!) her presence around Savin Park will be deeply missed... Seeing her give a friendly wave, when she was outside...
You are all in our thoughts and prayers, and may our Lord Jesus give you all comfort and peace... Joan ? Is with him, now. God bless you all.

August 6, 2013

You have my deepest sympathy for the loss of your dear wife. I pray that God will strengthen and comfort your family through this difficult time. (Isaiah 61:1, 2)

Bonnie McGarry

August 5, 2013

Joe, Carol, Michael, Matthew and Vinny and families - Joan was a wonderful center of our family, always so happy and a delight to talk with, and I will miss our world class chats...On behalf of my mom, we send our deepest sympathy to you at this time. With much love, Bonnie

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