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John Donnelly Obituary

DONNELLY, JOHN E. M.D. John E. Donnelly MD, 78, formerly of Bethany, CT died in Virginia Beach, February 20, surrounded by his wife of 53 years and his children. A retired family physician, he was a loving son, brother, husband, father, grandfather and friend. He graduated from the College of the Holy Cross and the State University of New York Downstate College of Medicine. He leaves to cherish his memory, his wife, June F. Donnelly and five children: son John E. Donnelly IV and his wife Lisa of Rye, NY, daughters, Patrice DeLeo and her husband Frank of Purchase, NY, Cathy Donahue and her husband Bill of Cheshire, CT, Ann Margaret Williams and her husband Ross of Denver, CO, June Wendler and her husband Paul of Atlanta, GA and his beloved grandchildren Steven and Michelle DeLeo, Jaime and Jack (John E. Donnelly V), Katie, Rebecca and Will Donahue, Cara and Ryan Williams, Aidan and Lily Wendler. He leaves a sister, Ann (Nan) Santine of Bartlesville, OK and was preceded in death by sister. Jane (Skippy) McGoldrick. Services will be held in Virginia Beach. Messages of condolences may be sent at www.altmeyer.com. In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial contributions be made to theUniversity of Virginia Cancer Center, PO Box 800773, Charlottesville, VA 22908.

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Published by the New Haven Register from Feb. 21 to Feb. 22, 2012.

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Bob Outtrim

February 17, 2024

John was just a kind warm guy who was always a pleasure to work with. The world needs more people like him. I say prayers in his memory.

suzanne Murphy

February 16, 2019

Handsome Jack, you remain loved and remembered.

Michelle M. Murphy, Dir. of Communications, Northwest Catholic High School

March 2, 2012

On behalf of Principal/Chief Administrator Margaret Williamson and the entire Northwest Catholic High School community, I offer my deepest sympathy on the death of Dr. Donnelly.

Because his daughter, Cathy Donnelly Donahue, is a dear friend of our school family, we share her grief at the loss of her beloved Dad.

Please know that we remembered Dr. Donnelly in schoolwide prayer and will continue to hold Cathy and the entire family close to our hearts in the days and weeks to come. We are very sorry for your loss.

Jennifer Davidson Olender

February 28, 2012

My dearest friend June and family,
Your Dad was such a good man. The proof and power of his greatness is evident in the outpouring you've received from so many whose lives he touched.
I will always remember him saying, "June Elizabeth", whenever you were in trouble, which was all too often when we were together!
Seeing everyone in your immediate family again and meeting all his Grandchildren at his funeral was such a thrill for me. How lucky he was to have such a lovely extended family! While his time here on earth doesnt seem nearly long enough, find solace knowing he lived his life to the fullest and died a happy and fulfilled man.
Your Dad will always be a part of my life's memories, as will all the Donnellys. I wish you and your family strength and courage during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

suzie Murphy

February 27, 2012

Handsome Jack, you hold a very special place in my heart. Rest in peace.

June Brennan

February 26, 2012

I will always cherish and miss a very special person...my godfather/uncle. I am so glad I was able to share/celebrate your 50th Wedding Anniversary. To my Aunt June and cousins...I'm sorry for your loss. Uncle Jack will always live on in you and his grandchildren.

February 26, 2012

Dear June and family-some of my fondest memories are of working with you and Jack at St. Rae's-especially during the night shift. I also have wonderful memories of Jack's great care of my husband, Dan. Claire Canavan Kavanagh HSR class of '59 Please accept my condolences on the loss of a great physician, friend and confidante

Debbie Woodward

February 24, 2012

On behalf of the entire Woodward family, I would like to extend our deepest condolences to the entire family. Dr. John (and Dr. June) guided all of us through so many important events in our lives with kindness and patience for many, many years. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now.

Bob Outtrim

February 22, 2012

I am so sorry to hear about Jack. What a wonderful kind man. Never a negative word about anyone. Always so interested in and complimentary to others. He will be greatly missed.

Rick Chamberlin

February 22, 2012

Jack was an amazingly nice guy. For a man of his stature, his humility, great sense of humor, and family values was exemplary. I will always have great memories of skiing with Jack and his kids. My sincere condolencs to all.

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