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Mary-Louise Smith Obituary

SMITH, MARY-LOUISE (BEMIS) Mary-Louise (Bemis) Smith, age 89, of Orange entered into rest on March 10, 2014, in her home with her loving family by her side. She was the devoted wife of the late Robert B. Smith. She was born in Boston, MA on June 25, 1924, daughter of the late Willard G. and Minnie Maebelle (Brigham) Bemis. She was a veteran serving during World War II as a pharmacist’s aide in the US Navy. Mary-Lou and her husband owned and operated the Gardenway Nurseries in Milford for many years before their retirement. She was a member and past President of the Orange Garden Club, as well as the Federated Garden Club of CT, and among her many roles she obtained the level of Master Judge. She is the beloved mother of Jacqueline E. Wilcox (the late Clark R.) of Branford, Gregory W. Smith (Nancy) of West Haven, Jeffrey A. Smith (Carolyn) of Cleveland, GA, Candice Caldwell (Jeff) of Orange, Merry-Gail Asprelli (Steve) of Orange, loving grandmother of 10 grandchildren and 15 great-grandchildren. She was predeceased by a brother, Frank Bemis, and a sister, Lt. Colonel Elizabeth B. Bemis, USAF Retired. Her service and burial with full military honors in the State Veteran Cemetery will be private, per Mary-Lou’s wishes. The Edward F. Adzima Funeral Home, 253 Elizabeth St., Derby, are entrusted with the arrangements. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Garden Club of Orange, c/o MaryEllen Bespuda, 831 Derby-Milford Rd., Orange, CT 06477.

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Published by The New Haven Register from Mar. 12 to Mar. 13, 2014.

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David D'Ancicco

June 24, 2024

You were my mom´s best friend. I will never forget swimming in your pool or the wonderful New Year´s Day´s celebrations sitting in front of the big fireplace in your kitchen. Rest in peace.

Ginny Reinhard

June 10, 2014

Oh my Mary Lou has passed away. One of my Mom's closest friends in garden club of year's past. They judged many shows together and was a good friend to me as well. I could always count on her for gardening tips.....Many will miss her smile.

March 16, 2014

I'll miss you "Mom", we had a lot of good times around the card table, and at parties at your housse. RIP. Love, Diand

March 14, 2014

Love you Gram, thank you for all the great memories!

Robert Lillis-U.S.N.

March 13, 2014

Thank you for your service to our country.

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