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Nancy Schpero Obituary
Nancy Sue Schpero, of Orange, CT, passed away peacefully on June 21, 2021 in the company of her family after an extraordinarily brave fight with cancer. She was the beloved wife of Warren Chapman and daughter to Edith Schpero and the late Morton Schpero. Nancy was the loving mother of David (Megan) Chapman, Paul Chapman, Martha Chapman, and James Chapman. She was a proud Mimi (grandmother) to Maya Chapman and Luke Chapman.
Nancy is survived by 4 siblings: Dr. Mark (Lynne) Schpero, Dr. Jeffrey (Molly) Schpero, Davida (Steven) Pepe, and Amy (Michael) Greenberg, along with many cherished nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her sister Ann (Burton) Kaplan.
Born in Derby, Connecticut on June 10, 1953, Nancy graduated from Amity Regional High School and then attended George Washington University earning a BA and MA in Early Childhood Education. After raising her family she spent many years as an instructional aide at Race Brook School in Orange.
Nancy's husband and children meant the world to her but her generosity and kindness transcended her family to friends, acquaintances, even people she just had met. Always putting everyone before herself, Nancy was passionate about helping people in any way she could, especially during their times of need. She was always on the move, whether it was running with friends, taking care of household errands, babysitting for many children or mentoring BBYO teenagers. She loved seeing her grandchildren who absolutely adored her and loved the trips to the National Zoo in Washington D.C. every time she visited. All the while she captured just about every moment with her ever-present camera. She will be missed by countless individuals as she touched so many people in so many different ways and was always the brightest light.
Funeral Services at Congregation Or Shalom, 205 Old Grassy Hill Rd., Orange, Friday morning at 10:00 o'clock. Private Interment will follow. The family will begin receiving guests at 9:00 a.m. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in her name to The Orange Foundation, P.O. Box 729, Orange, CT 06477-0729, BBYO Connecticut Valley, 350 Amity Road, Woodbridge, CT 06525 or Lung Cancer Research Foundation at lungcancerresearchfoundation.org. Funeral Arrangements in care of Robert E. Shure Funeral Home, New Haven. www.shurefuneralhome.com.
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Susan Pappas
June 17, 2025
Miss you Nancy. Wish you were here. Missing our conversation. Say hi to my Billy. Love you.
Sue Pappas
June 17, 2024
I Will never forget Nancy. She will be always mentioned in my daily prayers along with my husband and others close to my heart that have passed. I Enjoyed our many talks and miss them. A Beautiful Person.
Linda magram
June 19, 2023
We honor the memory of wonderful Nancy and send our love to family and friends. Linda, Michael, Cal and Neila
Sarah
June 19, 2023
So sorry to see and read all the heartbreaking messages regarding our deauthorize
Joan Albert Davis
June 18, 2023
I can't believe that this loving and adorable Nancy is gone. We share the same birthday and I have always felt a strong attachment to her. I enjoyed our talks, her gentle ways and her incredible intuition and insight. A great Mom and person to know.
Amy Magram
June 17, 2023
Remembering Nancy with love and sharing my love with all her family !
Joan Davis
July 6, 2021
Nancy was an energetic, compassionate woman who always made me feel like a million bucks!!! She could make me smile with her sense of humor or story told and made me feel like I was the sole object of her attention when we talked. She understood so much about people. She will be very much missed.
Phyllis Ciemniecki
July 2, 2021
I was so saddened by the news of Nancy's passing. She was the most lively and energetic person I've ever known. So full of life; it's hard to believe that even cancer could take her. She made such a positive impact on me with her kindness and giving.
Nancy had a passion for life, her children and cooking. My memories of her back when I met her in the early 90's was either of her running her kids to their activities, training for a race and/or having something cooking on the stove. Always offering to send food home with you. Nancy was always in motion.
I cherish the memories and feel lucky to have known her.
My deepest condolences to Warren, David, Paul, Martha and James along with the rest of her family.
Love,
Phyllis
Heidi Webb
June 28, 2021
Edith, Mark, Jeffrey, Davida, Amy and all your family:
I have such wonderful memories of the summer Nancy lived with us while working at Curry- she had a vivacious energy and exuded love and caring wherever she went. There was a lightness about her that made everything more fun ... I can still hear her laughter in my mind. I was so sad to hear of her death and I am so very sorry. Her memory will be a blessing to all fortunate enough to have known her. Love, Cousins Heidi, Andy, Adam, Berkley and Chessy
Sheila and Howard Mark
June 27, 2021
We, as first cousins of the grandparents and parents, were so sorry we could not have been present during this difficult period. The Schpero family has played an important role in the lives of the Mark family going back to the 1920s ., and will live on forever in our hearts and minds. May her memories be for a blessing...
Meryl Menon
June 26, 2021
To Warren, David, Paul, Martha, James, Davida, and all the Chapman/Schpero family. I was deeply saddened by the news. As a teacher at Peck Place School I got to know several members of the family and always enjoyed talking with Nancy. I appreciated particularly that she kept in contact with me by sending a holiday care every year since David was in my fourth grade class. With deep sympathy to all of you, Meryl Menon
ozzie neustaedter(ben ezra)
June 26, 2021
My deepest condolences to both the Schpero and Chapman families.
I was sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved sister.
may her memory be a blessing to you and your family.
Davida I don't know if you remember me or not , I remember your family and you from Beth Israel Syn. in Derby.
You and I went to hebrew/sunday school together.
Gary, Elaine and Family
June 25, 2021
Dear Warren, David, Paul, Martha and James, We will always cherish all of our family times together, especially the many Christmases spent here at our home when all the kids were young. Lara, Holly and Brian loved Aunt Nancy. They knew as soon as she arrived, the fun would begin. They loved baking cookies and making gingerbread houses together. Nancy made sure there were plenty of decorations to choose from ...candy, frosting and sprinkles everywhere... for days. Four adults and 7 kids in one house was a little crazy at times with wall to wall cousins in sleeping bags in the living room, but we all loved every moment and never wanted the fun end.
The service today was a beautiful tribute to Nancy. She was a beautiful soul and had a kind and giving heart. But we knew that from the first time we met her so many years ago.
We will miss her. You are all in our thoughts, prayers and hearts. We love you.
Gary, Elaine, Lara, Holly and Brian
Tracy Magram and Paul Romano
June 25, 2021
We send our deepest sympathies on the loss of Nancy. We remember her as a shining light and enjoyed her vivacious, warm, bubbly and welcoming presence at Schpero events, especially at the beach house. We admired her athletic abilities and loved hearing about all the the races she competed in. Edith, Warren, David, Paul, Martha, James and family , we hold you all in our hearts and thoughts. Rest In Peace Nancy. We will hold your memory close to our hearts always.
Carole
June 25, 2021
I was so sad to hear the news of Nancy's passing. I always new Nancy was one of a kind. Today's service truly showed how much she touched everyone with her beautiful smile and acts of kindness. She was so proud of her family and would do anything for everyone. She will truly be missed. May she rest in peace.
Sandi Pascarella
June 25, 2021
My deepest condolences to both the Schpero and Chapman families. Nancy was such a helpful, gregarious woman! A great photographer and kind human. I am so very sorry that she´s gone and am thinking of you all.
Sincerely,
Sandi Pascarella
Sandie Hill
June 25, 2021
So sorry for a your loss. Nancy was a warm and caring person who never met a stranger. Heaven must have needed an angel. Rest in Peace.
Lara Chamberlin (Chapman)
June 25, 2021
Dear Warren, David, Paul, Martha, James and family. I will always remember Aunt Nancy as the energetic, quick talking, bubbly, happy, person wrapped up in a small body that she was. She was always thinking about others. She never missed a birthday, I ways got a card. Even when Abi was born she sent things for her. I will cherish the little keepsakes she got her.
The Vaz family (who live across the street from us) express their condolences. Fabia and her daughter, Jen shared fond memories of Nancy randomly going over and asking Fabia if she wanted to go get something to eat, and asking Jen out for a run when staying at our house. They are simply neighbors of family, but she took the time to get to know them. Because they mean something to us, they meant something to her. That was Aunt Nancy.
I will miss her deeply. I love you all very much.
Love, Lara
Denise Hanusch
June 25, 2021
I am deeply saddened to hear of Nancy´s passing. It is a great loss to your family and I will hold all of you in my prayers. You are an amazing family and I extend our deepest condolences!
Melissa, Natalie and Grace Carrington
June 25, 2021
To Nancy´s beloved family,
I am heartbroken to hear of Nancy´s passing and am deeply sorry for your loss. Our family was so blessed to meet Nancy.at Racebrook School 12 years ago and then get lucky to have her again a couple of years later. She was sweet, caring and a dynamo of energy. Perfect as a 1st grade aide to welcome, nurture and set the standard high for 6 years of superior elementary education. A foundation was set for a path of success and we will always be grateful. I was fortunate to work beside Nancy on many occasions as a parent volunteer. We got much accomplished and smiled and laughed while doing so. We kept in touch over the ladt 12 years and she would always update me on her children and grandchildren. We exchanged holiday cards when we got to it - lol. She loved her family fiercly. Always smiling and always kind we were so blessed to have had Nancy welcome both of my girls to RBS in 1st grade. Rest in eternal peace Nancy, you will be missed.
Neil and Sally Rosen-Webb
June 25, 2021
We adored Nancy and have the fondest memories of her- at work at Gert´s summer camp for
dyslexics at Curry, visiting with us in London, messing about in boats in Waltham and much more . Nancy´s smile, warmth and kindness live on. With especial love to Edith and to all our dear cousins in Connecticut.
Brooke Ocampo
June 24, 2021
I am devestated to hear about Nancy's passing. She was my "work mom" and very special friend. I could never thank her enough for all she has done for me. Her laugh and friendship is something I will always hold close to my heart. My deepest sympathy to her family, who she was always so proud of.
The Marini Family
June 24, 2021
Our heartfelt sympathy with love and prayers to Warren & the entire family.
Amy Magram and Scott Dorris
June 24, 2021
To Warren, David, Paul, Martha, James, Edith, Mark, Jeff, Davida, Amy and all the Schpero family.
Scott and I were heartbroken to learn of Nancy´s passing. We first met Nancy in the early 1980s and remember her fondly from family get- togethers through the decades.
Nancy was so vivacious and energetic. Such a big personality ! We particularly remember her warmth and infectious laugh.
Scott and I send our deepest condolences and love to all of you on the loss of your beloved Nancy.
You are in our prayers.
Amy and Scott
Linda Magram and Michael Watson
June 24, 2021
Dear Edith and family,
We are so sad to hear of Nancy´s death. It was always a pleasure to see her down in Milford-full of such energy, bubbly enthusiasm, and good cheer. Our deepest sympathy to you all on this heartbreaking loss-and to Warren, David, Paul, Martha, James, we send our condolences and prayers. May her memory be a blessing. With love, Linda Magram and Michael Watson
Candace Jung
June 24, 2021
To all of the family,
Nancy had a way of lighting up the room with her smile, that laugh and her overall warmth. The Schpero clan is my second family and although I´d go years without visiting CT, I´d see Nancy and it would feel so great. Nancy had a huge heart and such a loving and fun spirit And she was so incredibly proud of her children and their many accomplishments. My heart goes out to all of you during this terrible time. May Nancy Rest In Peace and be without pain.
Love and prayers to you all,
Candy
Tom & Cindy Richardson
June 24, 2021
Dear Davida and family,
We are very sorry to hear of the passing of your sister Nancy.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
Sincerely,
Tom and Cindy
Peter Feaman
June 24, 2021
Nancy was my first date in 1969. I remember picking her up at her parents house in my mother's blue Oldsmobile Cutlass convertible.
I am deeply saddened by this loss.
Cathy Catapano
June 24, 2021
My deepest sympathy for your loss. My heart goes out to you Warren and your beautiful family. Nancy was such a special and giving person. Everyone that met her, loved her. May you take comfort in her loving memory and the friends and family that surround you during this difficult time.
May the pain you feel now be nothing compared to the joy found within the memories of Nancy.
I was blessed to have been able to work so closely with Nancy at Peck Place School when our children were young. I will always remember my dear friend
May she rest in peace.
Susan Keating
June 24, 2021
To Nancy´s family-
Nancy talked about all of you with so much love, affection and pride! I feel like I know so much about each of her children. Nancy was always so full of life and energy, helpfulness and generosity. She will be sorely missed. Please know you are in my prayers. May she Rest In Peace.
Susan Pappas
June 24, 2021
I will cherish The many favorite memories of Nancy. We used to text a lot. Sharing many stories about life as we knew it when we were our kids age. I showed her how to delete the texts that sounded like we were crazy. We laughed a lot when Nancy was with us. She was caring person that never stopped. She was so full of energy. My grandson Jack, only age three now was one of Nancy´s little one that she watched. He loved her. And he told her many times. "I love you Nene" I will pray for Nancy and Family. Martha is the only one I knew but I have seen many photos of everyone. Loved her so much.
Tiffany Arsenault
June 23, 2021
My heart is shattered to hear this news. Thank you so much for all the years of your love & friendship to myself & our family. I´ll never forget the fun times at your house. You were always so much fun & a never ending giver! May you rest in eternal peace a day thank you for all the love & light you brought to this world
Pamela Galatioto
June 23, 2021
To Nancy´s family,
Thinking of you with loving prayers. Nancy had a heart of gold. She was the kindness, most generous person. She loved the children she worked with and would do anything to help others. Her laughter and kindness made us all better people. I am thankful for her friendship and help at Racebrook School.
Jen Seltzer
June 23, 2021
My deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved Nancy. From the moment I met Nancy she embraced me and made me feel part of the family. She was so loving and warm towards our daughter. She always gave us good tips and ideas and was always so supportive of us. May her memory be for a blessing.
Erin Garney
June 23, 2021
Words can not express how grateful I am to have known Nancy and had her in my life. Her laugh and generous heart was truly special. Nancy made me feel like family and I am forever grateful for our time together. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Terry Schwartz
June 23, 2021
So many wonderful memories of Nancy. Especially through music school with our boys and Paugy and Amity tennis. Nancy will always be in our happy memories.
Barbara Mauriello Angelo
June 23, 2021
To Warren, Children and entire Schpero family please accept my deepest sympathy on the passing of Nancy. Always smiling and friendly in the many times my husband and I were in her company during our years in Orange. May your strong family ties give you strength at this sad and difficult time.
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