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NEIL LONGOBARDI Obituary

LONGOBARDI, NEIL J. Neil J. Longobardi, 81, of South Dennis, MA, passed away June 13, 2014. He was born to Mary and Liberato Longobardi of New Haven, CT on January 19, 1933. Neil attended schools in New Haven, upon graduation from high school in 1951 he enlisted in the United States Air Force where he served 4 years during the Korean Conflict in 1951-1955 then honorably discharged as Staff Sargent. He graduated from the University of New Haven in 1965 after 9 years of night school while also working and raising a family. Neil raised his family in Cheshire, CT where he worked for many years as a controller of Ball and Socket Inc. and president of Longobardi Consulting Services. In 1998 relocated to South Dennis, MA where he enjoyed his retirement years. After retiring to Cape Cod he worked as a real estate agent for Kinlin Grover in Yarmouthport MA. Neil was a devoted husband, father, and grandfather. His enjoyment was spending time with his wife/best friend, and his family. He enjoyed many sports, golfing, dancing and music. He was always very involved in the community and was very much loved and respected by all who knew him. While residing in CT he was a member of the Cheshire Chamber of Commerce, St. Thomas Becket Parish Council, Eucharistic Minister and Parish Accountant. After relocating to Cape Cod he was an active member of Dennis Harwich Lions Club and Cape Cod Men’s Club. Neil is survived by his loving wife of 57 years, Lois (Greene) Longobardi, his sister Concetta Romano and brother-in-law Luciano Romano of North Haven, CT, his son Stephen Longobardi and wife Agrippina of Hyannis, MA, four daughters Kathleen Longobardi of South Dennis, MA, Diane Roemmele and husband Richard of Cheshire, CT, Judith Gannon of Yarmouthport, MA, and Karen Lane of Yarmouthport, MA. He is also survived by seven grandchildren and one great grandchild, and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brother, Gennaro Longobardi and sister-in-law, Carol Longobardi. Friends may call from 4-7 pm today, Monday, June 16, 2014 at Doane, Beal & Ames Funeral Home, 729 Route 134 in South Dennis. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11 am on Tuesday, June 17, 2014 at St. Pius X Church, 5 Barbara Street, South Yarmouth, MA 02664. Burial will follow in Massachusetts National Cemetery in Bourne. The family would like to thank the staff at Epoch of Harwich and Hope Hospice of Cape Cod for their compassionate care. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Horizons Inc., PO Box 323, South Windham, CT 06266 Or Habilitation Assistance Corporation, 43 Long Pond Drive, South Yarmouth, MA 02664.

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Published by The New Haven Register from Jun. 19 to Jun. 20, 2014.

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June 30, 2014

Lois and family, Mike and I were so sorry to hear about Neil. I will always remember him coming to my mom and dad's house on Wednesdays when he was going to UNH at night. Those were always very entertaining dinners! He was a great guy and very funny! You have a beautiful family( the photos posted were beautiful).You will certainly be support for one another. Cousin Mary Ann & Mike

Connie & Luciano Romano

June 21, 2014

Lois & Family, As the days pass and you try to return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by our love and support. (My brother Neil will always be in my heart.) Our LOVE to all of you, Connie and Luciano

Dan and Emma Kirby

June 20, 2014

Dear Lois

Emma and I are very sorry to hear of Neil's passing. We think of you often and will keep you in our prayers.

Joe Parise

June 20, 2014

Lois, Evelyn and I will always remember Neil and what a great person he was.
Our deepest sympathy to you and the family.
Joe and Evelyn Parise

The Staff of Doane Beal & Ames Funeral Home

June 19, 2014

We wish to extend our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.

Anna Lavin

June 17, 2014

My sympathy to the entire Longobardi clan. I love you all dearly. Neil was a second Dad to me and I loved him very much. His laugh will live on in my memories and the example he set framed my life more than you might realize. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

June 17, 2014

Know of our prayers on the death of Neil. We will continue to pray for all of you. Take care.
Carole and Ed Stackpole

Marita Niquette

June 17, 2014

We are very sorry to hear of Mr. Longobardi's passing. Take comfort in all the memories you have.
Love-Marita and Michael Niquette

Kelley Whalen

June 16, 2014

Hugs to all the Longobardis at this time. Mr. Longobardi had a good, long life surrounded by a great family! Remember all the great times you had with him and cherish them. God bless Mr. Longobardi.

June 15, 2014

Sending my love and support to you all !Sorry we can not be there. Uncle Neil you are loved and missed. Love Tricia, Alan and Jason

June 15, 2014

My love and sympathy to all of you at this time. Lois thinking of you. Neil was a great and loved uncle..so sorry we can not be there. Our love to all of you. Beth Walters in Littleton CO..

Pam Zelazny

June 15, 2014

My condolences to the Longabardi family. Remembering all of you and Mr. Longobardi today and always. ~Pam Whalen Zelazny

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