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Pamela Vitelli Obituary

Pamela R. Vitelli
Pamela R. Vitelli, 65, of Hamden passed away peacefully on Tuesday, July 15, 2025, at her home with her family by her side. Pamela was born in New Haven on November 21, 1959, and was the daughter of the late Harry and Elizabeth Disturco Vitelli. Pamela received a bachelor's degree from the University of New Haven and an Electronic Certificate at the CT School of Electronics. She worked as an Electronics Technician at AT&T for thirty-six years until her retirement. Pamela was a Union Officer and local president for CUTW and a CWA steward for many years. She enjoyed reading, collecting ornamental frogs and exclusive kitchenware. Sister of Sandra Martin, Debra Sullo Cheryl Sargeant and the late Harry Vitelli, Jr. Beloved aunt of Michele Martin, John Sullo, Jr, and Laureen Dunning. Loving great-aunt of Ronald Hatta, Jr., Sarah Hatta and A.J. Dunning, Jr., and was the beloved Godmother to Daniel Ryan. Also survived by many cousins and her best friend since high school, Maureen LaPointe.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend a graveside service on Monday morning, July 28th, at 11:00 a.m. in East Lawn Cemetery, 58 River Street, East Haven. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Animal Haven, 89 Mill Road, North Haven, CT 06473 The Havens Family North Haven Funeral Home 36 Washington Avenue, North Haven has been entrusted with the arrangements. www.northhavenfuneral.com

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Published by The New Haven Register on Jul. 25, 2025.

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