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Theresa & Rob Passander
August 27, 2025
Hi Dad
Can"t believe its been ten years , you are greatly missed but never forgotten. I pray that you will continue to watch over us and help us through tough times. When I see butterflies around I know you are near by ,all we can say is you are missed and God Bless .Please continue to watch over your family and especially Mom.
Love you to the moon and back
Theresa & Rob
Theresa Passander
September 16, 2024
Hi Dad how time flies we miss you and your guidance , miss our talks and praying together . Life has been challenging but I know your watching over all of us , Love and Miss you keep us in your prayers and keep a watchful eye on us
Love always Theresa and Rob
Rob & Theresa Passander
September 16, 2023
Hi Dad
Not a day goes by that we dont think of you and ask for your help , When in church they pray for family members that have passed, we also ask remember us in your prayers . Miss you and miss saying prayers together hopefully you are watching over us and keep us safe and in your prayers . I know you are at peace and free from all pain thats the only saving grace
Love always and as you use to say evertime before hanging up God Bless
Rob and Theresa Passander
September 16, 2022
Hi Dad
We´re a day late things have been hectic but we still think of you everyday Happy Birthday we love you and miss you family isn´t the same
Rob and Theresa
Jeffrey Passander Jr
June 20, 2021
Happy Father's day Grampa. You did it today. First bass of the year under the bridge. The place where I caught all those undersized fish and I brought them home because I never seen a fish with black horizontal stripes and you and I went immediately back to the river to let them go. I'll never forget that. It was about thirty inches caught with a white swim shad. Surprised me because there's usually not that many hanging around there anymore. So thanks, as I know you were there to help me land it on medium tackle and no braided line. I just wish you were here so I could have shown you. But, you were there. And for that, I thank you. I love you and still miss you and think of you.
Theresa & Rob Passander
September 16, 2020
Hi Dad
What can we say but we miss you everyday my Mom still thinks of you and wonders why but that famous line comes out and says we cant change what the almighty wants your job was done here and done well , the rest of us still need work I guess. Rob and I just wanted you to know that you are deeply missed as you held this family together, along with us missing the phone calls and the visits you hold a very special place in our hearts and the hearts of many that you have touched
Love and God Bless your favorite line
Theresa and Rob
Theresa Passander
June 22, 2020
Hi Dad
Wrote to you on Sunday and never was printed so Iam trying again. It goes without saying how much you are missed and how you kept family together with all that is going on I believe we need you to look down on all and give a blessing that will help all. God I believe is very annoyed at all of us and hes trying to show us that we all need him in our lives, none of us are perfect he is the only one , so he is the only one to judge, no one else. Iam asking you to try and guide us all to understand and pray for all of us to get through these tough times
Love and God Bless
Theresa & Rob
Theresa & Rob Passander
June 22, 2020
Happy Fathers Day
We miss you terribly you held this family together with your wisdom and knowledge which is badly needed in these times. The world has become a crazy place and people are not what we should be God is mad at us all and how we are acting , and I just hope everyday you are looking down on us still and haven't forgotten how much we need your thoughts and prayers and love
Miss you more than you can imagine
Love and God Bless
Theresa & Rob
Jeffrey Passander
June 21, 2020
Happy Father's Day Grampa. I love you still to this day.
Junior
February 28, 2020
Dear Grampa, I just wanted to say that I'm doing okay. I'm still terribly upset about losing you. You made my childhood magical and I'll never forget you. I miss you so much. Your hugs, advice, and your friendship. I'm taking care of Grama and helping her out. She misses you too. We all do. I had been there a couple days ago and I felt her love for you. The way she took care of you instills in me the love she had for you, and I'm paying it forward to her. I'll never forget how you both helped raise me. Grama is all I have left and I'm going to help her with whatever she needs. Mia is almost 5. I love her very much as you did me. Now I truly know how much you loved me. Take care Grampa. I still truly love you and miss you.
Theresa & Rob Passander
September 17, 2019
Dear Dad
Another anniversary is coming up and it hasn't gotten any better your missed so much , you kept the family together you understood what the family meant ,and we so miss that especially our talks and saying the novenas and prayers with you. Rob and I don't go a day without thinking of you, whether the memories are good or not so good , but you are sadly missed and remembered everyday in our thoughts and prayers . Things have changed since you have left us and I just hope you are watching over all of us and praying for all of us. The family is not the same without you, you had a great personality and were loved by so many especially Rob and me you are greatly missed and thought of everyday.You are in a better place now and we are grateful for that , but in our own selfish way wish you were still here with us .
love and God Bless
Miss you
Jeffrey Passander Jr
September 20, 2017
To my deeply missed and loved grandfather who I've missed terribly for the past two years. Still can't believe you're gone. May you rest in peace and in the Lord's love and graceful presence as I know you're there. I love you Grampa. Take care.
Jeffrey Passander Jr
September 20, 2017
Grampa it's been a little over two years since you left us and I just want to say that you're not forgotten. The days go by but your memory is still intact. It's like yesterday that I last spent time with you. I'll never forget the day that Grama and Dad asked me to watch over you since Grama had to leave. I sat in that chair next to you and kept fighting back tears because I felt so bad for you. My hero was sick and hooked up to oxygen and I couldn't do anything to change that. I remember telling Billy Mikita Jr when we were kids how much you inspired me and how I felt like growing up like you. Also told him you'd live to be 100. But enough of this...I still feel sad you're gone and two years flew by but the pain is still slow moving. Uncle Tracy came up from Florida to put siding up and a window on the side of the house where dad you and I put up the plastic. I swear you were there. I kept thinking junior work as hard as you would if Grampa was here. I was putting up siding cutting cedar and helping when needed. I said in Grampa's honor do this and do it right. Well I nailed it. I learned a lot and wish you were there physically but you were in spirit. Your great grand-daughter is beautiful and getting bigger. She'd drive you crazy. I can see you now if you were here. Telling her she's beautiful as I mentioned already but it's worth repeating trust me. Grampa we're so close and I love her very very much. Mia is my life like my daughter. Our relationship reminds me of the one we once shared when I was little. Those are memories I'll cherish forever. Except when I tossed your tools over Mr. Conte's fence. You didn't do anything just was upset. It's like her like you and I were back then. Nothing could tear us apart now and forever more. In closing I would like to say thank you for the memories and for being my grandfather and friend. I'll never forget you and will miss and love you until the end of eternity..I love you Grampa. You were the best thing that happened to my childhood...
Theresa Passander
June 19, 2017
Dear Dad
Happy Fathers days didn't realize the memory book was still open , we both had our thoughts about you yesterday when we would call and have those talks about new and old times miss them dearly , we know you are watching over us and sending your love. Miss and love you and as always God Bless
Theresa & Rob
Junior
June 18, 2017
Happy Father's Day Grampa. I was at the river on June 4th around 8 at night. I wish you were here to see those beautiful fish I caught. They were all striped bass and of course I didn't have a tape measure. But I know they were close to the legal limit. Hit hard and fought to the end. I wish I could've shown you them. I threw them back. I no longer keep fish anymore because I caught fish before and didn't eat them, just for show. I let them live. But I released them in your honor. Well I have to go now, with Dad and Grama. So take care Grampa...I love you...
Junior
December 31, 2016
Happy New Year Grampa.
Rest in Peace.
Junior
December 31, 2016
Happy New Year Grampa. I love you. Not a day goes by that I don't miss you.
Theresa Passander
December 26, 2016
Hey Dad
The Holiday is over not the same with so many gone, things have changed and not for the better in these times, wish you were still here you had a special place in your heart for Christmas and family, like my Dad you two were so much a like . We love and miss both of you and a day doesn't go by that we don't think of you
Love Theresa and Rob
Junior
December 25, 2016
Merry Christmas Grampa. I love you. You're not forgotten and had a place at our table today. Grama is spending the night at our house. She's not alone.
Junior
October 3, 2016
Hey Grampa. Have a few minutes to write. Just a reminder that you're not at all forgotten. Every day you're thought of. Every day it's hard to some degree. You'll always be with me and for that I'm grateful. Take care and have a good day.
Junior
September 20, 2016
Well today is one year since you've left us. I attended your morning mass today and it was difficult. The entire time there were tears in my eyes. This is going to be a tough day today. But with your help we'll all get through it. Grama is good. I'm going to help her with something today. Then it's off to work for a few hours until I have to go to school. I'm graduating soon. I stuck it out Grampa as I told you I would that day at the diner. I miss you Grampa and love you even more. It's tough without you. Nothing is the same anymore. You were and are everything to this family. I'm in pain most days and some days it's hard to hold back the tears. I can't find relief at times. Your great granddaughter is getting bigger. She's beautiful and you would be proud of her. She was afforded with the honor to have met you even for a short while. Well I'm going to the house to help Grama now and wanted to take a few minutes to write you to tell you I haven't forgotten you nor will I ever. You take care of yourself and have a good day. I love you Grampa.
Theresa Passander
September 4, 2016
Hey Dad
Just wanted to wish you a happy birthday we were thinking of you yesterday and remembering all the times on the phone that we talked about the past
Miss you terribly not a day goes by that your not thought of
Love and God bless
Theresa & Rob
Junior
September 3, 2016
Happy 83rd Grampa.
I love you!!!
Junior
September 3, 2016
Happy Birthday Grampa. I had a very rough time yesterday due to your not being here. The pain was unbearable and it still seems to be too much to handle. I know you're in a better place now but we all should've been celebrating yesterday. Hearing your laughter and seeing your smile and feeling your warm embrace as we all said Happy Birthday. I miss you terribly and not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I would give anything to hug you one more time and to spend five minutes with you. You will always be number one to me and I know you love me still so that gets me through the tough times. I will always feel privileged to have had you as my grandfather. Thanks for all those wonderful years we had. And thanks for being my everything as you were. I couldn't have asked for a better man than you. I'm extremely lucky to have had you and to spend 30+ years together. You're a beautiful man and I mean that sincerely. I love you very much and look forward to seeing you at the Golden Gate of Heaven one day. God willing.
Junior
August 14, 2016
I love you Grampa. Rest in Peace, without pain, and in the arms of the Lord. We all know you're there. He's always had a special place reserved for you.
Junior
August 14, 2016
Hey Grampa, it's Junior. I really don't know what you're doing up there regarding me fishing but it's working. You're truly missed. I know you're not in pain anymore, please understand, but I wish you were here. It's not the same. Just yesterday, as it seems, You and I went out to eat because I had told you I was going back to school and this Thursday I sign my graduation papers at school. I'm close to graduating. My last day is September 26th. So save the date!! I know you'll be there, you won't want to miss it. How many times I had you with me and you'd say that you wish I went back to school. And now I'm close to the last day. It flew by trust me. Gram is fine. Garden is a little out of whack because the master gardener is gone. But it'll be back in shape. I'm going to throw down more Preen and that's that. The squirells still come around but Gram won't let me do what you did. She's going up to Hudson to get a cortisone shot for her knee. We all miss you. Well I guess that's it for now. I just wanted to say thank you for today and EVERY fish I caught/catch this season. I know you have a hand in it. I love you Grampa. We'll talk again soon.
Jeffrey Passander
July 23, 2016
Rest In Peace!!
Jeffrey Passander Jr
July 23, 2016
Just sitting here at the river and thinking of you. The fish aren't biting so I decided to say hello. It hasn't been easy these past few days. I'm still struggling with your passing. There are times when nothing works. No relief from the pain. I'm still in shock. Times I go to Gramas it's like I'm still looking for you. The other day is when it got worse because Grama misses you. I can see it and hear it. And to have to see that, it's tough. I'm still going to church. We had a mass for you and on that day I had brought the gifts down to the altar. I can only imagine how happy you were. I truly do miss you. It's not the same without you. Holidays have become extremely tough. Although you will always have a place at the table, I still am not comforted. I would give anything to have you back if even for a second. One more hug. Grampa I love you very much. I miss you as much. I still can't believe what's happened. You're always on my mind. Thank you sincerely for all you've done for me as well as been to me. Again, you're more than my grandfather. Even to this day I'm still grateful to have had you. Nothing will ever take that from me. Not even death. You're truly missed and still loved beyond what words can describe. I love you. You take care of yourself. With extreme love and forever yours, Junior.
June 27, 2016
May you continue to rest in peace Grampa. I love you.
Junior
Theresa Passander
June 20, 2016
Hi Dad
Tried to do this yesterday but it wouldn't allow me to get in to write but just wanted to let you know that we were thinking of you yesterday and know that you will never be forgotten.
Love and God Bless
Theresa and Rob
Junior
June 19, 2016
Happy Father's Day Grampa. I love you and still miss you terribly. May you have a Happy Father's Day where you are. Rest In Peace!!
Junior
May 16, 2016
Good morning Grampa. Just taking a few minutes to say that I still miss you terribly and I'm still trying to get over this but not a day goes by that my eyes don't tear up because I've lost you and will never be able to hear your laugh, go fishing with you and all the other luxuries I was afforded with for 30+ years. There are days that I can't find the strength to do anything because the pain is just too much. But I know you're in a better place and without pain or cancer. You were a hell of a fighter and fought hard until the end. Shortly after you passed, I came down with what I thought was pneumonia and could hardly breathe. I was on the floor calling the hospital as that was the only way I was able to breathe and all I could think of was getting somewhere to get checked out. But, as you've known the tough guy image in this family that still goes on to this day, I never went, just let it run it's course. Grampa for two days I was extremely miserable and unable to move. On the third day I was better and all of a sudden it hit me. I said to myself Junior, your grandfather fought cancer for 17 years and here you are complaining about a chest cold? Get over it already. However, your passing can't be bypassed with that simple saying. If it could there's something wrong there. Anyway, Grama and I have to do a few things today and I figured I'd write you while I was waiting for her. I love you Grampa and I always will. I miss you just as much and will never forget you as long as I'm alive. I'm going to be graduating soon from electrical school and I know you'll be there in Spirit. In closing, I love you and miss you very much. God Bless you Grampa, you're a beautiful man and I was lucky to have you for 30+ years.
Theresa Passander
April 11, 2016
Hi Dad
Have been thinking about you more than usual these last two weeks have had a bout with kidney stones and remember talking with you about the pain and aggravation you went thru , please look down on me and help me with the strength that you had . It has been a tough journey and know if you are here with me it will make it a lot easier , you would always pray for everyone else even after all you were going thru you would pray so hard for some people that you knew it came from the deepest part of your heart,there's not a day that goes by that you are not thought of please keep us in your prayers and as always
Love you and God Bless
Theresa
Junior
April 10, 2016
To my grandfather, best friend, mentor and all you will always be to me. I love you so much!! I miss you!! You were and always will be everything to me!! Love, Junior.
Junior
April 10, 2016
Hey Grampa, I was at a friend's house tonight for a fire and the thought I have now is on the memories of us sitting around a fire at the campground the night after we went fishing and the smell of the smoke on my clothes. I miss you so much. Life is not the same without you I can't imagine my life without the pain of losing you. But I'm going to press on with the comfort of having you for 30 years. I love you very much and I will always be your grandson. I'm going to graduate soon from electrical school and know you will be with me that day. I knew when you were going to leave us that it would be painful but I had no idea that it would hurt this much. I miss you terribly and love you more. I will always be your grandson and you will always be my grandfather. Love, Junior.
Junior
April 8, 2016
P.S. I have been taking care of Grama like I promised you I would. Don't worry about that. You have my unconditional guarantee that I will take care of her as she did you. Again I love you and not a day that goes by that I don't think of you. You're the most thought of person in my life nowadays and can't seem to find relief at times. But I know that is because I loved you very much. This is a wound that seems it'll never heal. It'll take a lifetime but that's because we were very close. I would give my life just to hug you again and hear,"I love you too my boy." Tell Father Ron I said hello and I love him too. To two of the most beautiful people I've had the pleasure of knowing: I love you!!!
Junior
April 8, 2016
I love you Grampa!!
Junior
April 8, 2016
Grampa, just want to take a few minutes to say I love you and miss you. Please comfort me in this time of extreme pain and let me know you're here with me. I love you!!
Junior
March 27, 2016
Happy Easter Grampa. I love you.
Theresa Passander
March 24, 2016
Hi Dad
Easter will be here in a few days I know we are suppose to be greatful at this time of year but it is so hard when so much has gone wrong. Give us all the strength to get through it as you will be sadly missed , not only during this blessed season but everydayI hope that you are looking upon us everyday and watching out for us
We love and miss you
God bless dad
Theresa and Rob
Jeffrey Passander
March 22, 2016
Grampa may God continue to be with you and rest in peace. I love you!!
Jeffrey Passander
March 22, 2016
Grampa it's a little past the 6th month anniversary of the day you left us. May you continue to rest in peace. You're still loved and missed.
Jeffrey "Junior" Passander
March 3, 2016
May you rest in peace. I love you.
Jeffrey "Junior" Passander
March 3, 2016
Just wanted to take a few minutes to tell you that I haven't forgotten about you and that I still love you. I miss you terribly and at times, it feels like I can't move on. However there's always that little nudge if you will to allow me to move on. That's you I am sure. I love you Grampa forever. I'm always yours. I'll see you someday. Until then, I will continue to take care of Gram and do what you would want me to.
Jeffrey "Junior" Passander
February 6, 2016
To my loving grandfather. You are terribly missed. I love you very much and I will always be yours. You still mean so much to me. I love you!!
Jeffrey "Junior" Passander
February 6, 2016
Hey Grampa it's Junior. I just wanted to take a few minutes to tell you how much you mean to me still. I miss you very much I wish you were still here with us but I cannot be selfish as I know you are not in any pain anymore and that's enough for me. But you mean so much to me still and I have a huge void in my life without you. Please know that I'm always yours no matter what. Death can't interfere with that the bond we've had will never be broken. I love you very much and there are days I can't take it anymore but you give me the strength to move on and take on the day as you'd want. Just know that there will never be anyone above you in my life you're my everything. I love you Grampa now and forever more. Your grandson..
Jeffrey "Junior" Passander
January 31, 2016
Rest In Peace Grampa. I love you!!!
Jeffrey "Junior" Passander
January 31, 2016
Hey Grampa, I just want to say that you still mean a lot to me. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I still miss you terribly and would give anything to spend 30 seconds with you again. Thank you for every memory I have of us. I will always love you....You will always be my grandfather even in eternity. Things get tough and I think of quitting sometimes but I can hear you telling me to press on. The other day I was asked to wire outside lights at a house in Easton. After the installation and checking that it worked, it did, I said to myself I wish you were here. While I was cleaning up the stripped wire and folding up the ladder I said what am I talking about you were there. Telling me to stay calm and that I can do it. I'm extremely lucky to have had you as my grandfather. Just know that I will always love you Grampa. I miss you more than words can say and look forward to that special day when we will meet again. Til then, I'm going to be here for Gram and the family don't you worry. In closing, thanks for everything and for the opportunity to have you as my grandfather. You will always be missed. Love, Junior
P.S. Put some paint on that brush!! You know what I mean!!!
Theresa Passander
January 22, 2016
Hi Dad
Sitting here thinking how we would be calling you now and joking with you to get your snow shovel ready , and I can just hear you letting out a laugh
Your missed everyday more than words can explain , it's just not the same with you gone I hope you are watching down on all of us especially Mom . Keep us in your prayers as you always told us
We love and miss you
Theresa and Rob
Jeffrey "Junior" Passander
December 25, 2015
Merry Christmas Grampa. May you continue to be with us this holiday season. We all know you are. And thank you, you know what I'm talking about. I love you Grampa always will. You have a place at our tables this day and any day.
Theresa Passander
December 24, 2015
Dad
Merry Christmas
We miss you more than words can explain, it doesn't seem like Christmas with you gone there's not a day that goes by that you are not in our thoughts and prayers.
We love you dad and God bless
Theresa and Robbie
December 24, 2015
Merry Christmas Jeffrey. I pray that GOD will give you comfort and that your heart may find peace in knowing that your grandfather's love will be with you always.
Jeffrey Passander
December 23, 2015
I light this candle in honor of my grandfather who will always be more than that to me.
Jeffrey "Junior" Passander
November 26, 2015
Happy Thanksgiving Grampa.
Jeffrey "Junior" Passander
November 21, 2015
I light this candle so you will know you're not forgotten and that I still love you dearly. May you comfort me in this time of need.
Jeffrey "Junior" Passander
November 21, 2015
Grampa, it's been two painful months since you've left us. It's a daily struggle at times but I know you're in a better place so that helps a little. Just letting you know that I have not forgotten you nor will I. May God bless you and keep you. May you rest in peace. I love you!!
Junior
November 11, 2015
May you comfort us in our time of need. We miss you terribly. And we love you more. You're still with me I know this, but what I wouldn't give for one more hug. I love you Grampa.
Jeffrey "Junior" Passander
October 29, 2015
Grampa I still miss you and love you. May you give me comfort this day as I'm still grieving the loss of you. My grandfather and death won't change this. Till we meet again.... I look forward to your warm embrace in Heaven one day.
Jeffrey "Junior" Passander
October 22, 2015
Grampa, it's been a little over a month since you left us. Just know that we still love you and miss you terribly. You will always be an inspiration to me. To us. Deeply missed, loved, but never forgotten. I love you so much.
Jeffrey "Junior" Passander
October 16, 2015
We still love and miss you.
Jeffrey "Junior" Passander
October 4, 2015
Grampa, not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I love you and miss you terribly.
The Passander Family
September 30, 2015
Thank you all for your condolences posted here. Means a lot to this family during this time.
Jeffrey "Junior" Passander
September 29, 2015
Grampa I still miss you and love you dearly. I know you're with me right now as I write this. So know your grandson is still with you and I love you. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I love you more than words can say please keep watching over me. That's the only way I can get comfort. I love you my grandfather friend mentor and everything else you are to me. I miss you so much and love you more.
Danielle Conway
September 29, 2015
To the Passander family, I am so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. I meet Paul at church while doing the Passion plays when I was 10. I remember when I first saw him I thought he was the real Jesus. He was the most kind and gentle person I had ever met. For years he would come and say hi to me after mass. He was truly a special person who touched many hearts including mine. I will never forget him.
Brenda Gibbs
September 24, 2015
Very Sorry for your loss.
Sincerely, Brenda (Brenda BYRD) Gibbs (also the DRAKE FAMILY)
Nichole Milia
September 24, 2015
Once in a while you meet a pure soul that touches your life. I was lucky enough to know Paul Passander for about a decade. Paul, your warmth and openness helped usher me into the Church. Always with a smile, a hug, and an encouraging word. You joked and laughed and made everyone at ease. I love that you changed my name to something more Italian sounding, just because. It always made me smile. When my world fell apart and I questioned my faith, my church, my friends, and myself, you gave me four words that helped more than you'll ever know. You hugged me and whispered in my ear "you're still my angel". That complete acceptance is a perfect example of the kind of man you are. I am blessed to have learned from you, taught with you, sang with you. You are missed. You are loved. Thank you for the gift of your friendship. I'm sorry I couldn't attend your service today. Know that my heart and soul are with you. May you rest in the peace and love of our Lord Jesus Christ forever. Until we meet again...
Marion Lawler
September 24, 2015
You and Kahlal Gibran will live forever in the stars for eternity
Father Napolitano
September 24, 2015
My condolences to the family. Paul will be remembered at my weekend Masses. He was a devoted member of Holy Rosary.
Maria
September 23, 2015
Paul,
May you find peace and strength through your pain. You are a special man.
Ria
Rob & Theresa Passander
September 23, 2015
Dad
You will be greatly missed we will have the memories of the jobs you helped us with and showed us all your tricks of the trade, we had great times and great memories of those days.
We will miss you more than words can say even though there was distance between us you held a special place in our hearts and always will . We both loved the conversations of all the things we had done in the past as both growing up and as a adult .
It was a great feeling to have someone to call Dad again you truly held a special place in my heart thank you for excepting me into your family and making me part of your life.
Dad we wont remember you by the stars , because they will fade away.
We wont remember you by a poem because that will be forgotten one day.
We will both keep you in our hearts so that you are with us everyday.
The Angles are always near to those who are grieving to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hands of God.
We love you Dad and will miss you and as we ended our conversations all the time love you and God Bless
Jennifer Horelick
September 23, 2015
Paul you were a great man. Always waving and helping me and my sister as we grew up across the street from you. Such a soft-spoken, gentle man. The heavens are blessed to have gained a new angel and we are left with the memories no one can take from us
Ted & Stacy Anglace
September 23, 2015
Our deepest sympathy to the Passander family
Irene Campbell
September 22, 2015
I will always remember you Paul for your warm and endearing ways. Whenever I think of you it is with great fondness, I will truly miss you.
Jeffrey Passander
September 22, 2015
Grampa there's not enough space to write how much you meant to me. From childhood to adulthood you were everything to me. I remember going to the campground in New York and walking around on those dirt roads you would say do you see those stars Junior? Well you were always one to me. You'd take me fishing and we'd go through the woods and you'd try to get a walking stick then realize that I wouldn't need one and in the woods it went. I remember when you took me to work with you in that blue truck. You'd tell me don't touch the radio because Joe Maffeo will find out. One occasion we were in the police station parking lot and I picked up the radio and without hitting the button I pretended I was you talking to Ronnie D and Mike Schryver. Then you took me for a ride in the front loader. Countless fishing trips and conversations about God and Church. I remember the times we had went to Church here and in New York. You've taught me countless things including how to paint and line a pole things I still do today. I am not going to be selfish by saying why aren't you here I know you are in a better place without pain. That's enough for me. To be able to have memories of our time together to reflect on is what's getting me through this. I'll be grieving for a long time but knowing you're my grandfather even in death and I'm forever yours will keep me strong. I miss your smile laugh and warm embrace. Even though I don't have these luxuries anymore I had them. Thank you for being my grandfather. I thank God that on earth I had fabulous time with an amazing man as you were. I'm in school because of your urging to do something with myself. So look for P.A.P. Electrical when I'm on my own it's named in your honor. In closing, I want to say how much I love you and miss you as well. May God bless you and keep you. I'm forever yours. Til we meet again...Junior
Michelle Passander
September 22, 2015
Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.
-Buddha
Rose Carotenuto
September 22, 2015
Paul, you were a great friend. I love you, and may God have mercy on you and on all of us.
Jeffrey Passander
September 22, 2015
My cherished grandfather may you rest in peace.
Joseph Cassetti
September 22, 2015
Paul, When I was alone you came to comfort me. When I pilgrim to Rome, know that I will say your name as I pass through the doors of each Basilica. I love you and will miss you.
Michelle Passander
September 22, 2015
Paul-
I love you you and will miss you dearly.
Michelle
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