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Richard Banbury Obituary

Richard Banbury
Richard Fernley Banbury, born August 20, 1938, in Hartford, CT and long-time resident of the Lake Terramuggus community in Marlborough, CT passed away on December 2, 2021. He was the son of Richard Hope Banbury and Geraldine Foley Banbury, of Hartford, CT. He leaves his wife of 27 years, Nicolette Banbury, six adult children whom he lovingly raised, and twelve engaging and wonderful grandchildren - son Michael Banbury and his wife Jillian, grandchildren Jackson and Colby; son Anthony Banbury and his wife Wendy, grandchildren Sara, Eliza, James, and Sawyer; daughter Andrea Banbury and her husband Alex Cox, grandchildren Quincy and Emilia; daughter Jennifer Banbury and her husband Adam Davidson, grandson Asher; daughter Samantha Shusterman and her husband Carl Nilsson, grandchildren Rosalie and Richard; and son Thomas Shusterman and wife Amy, grandson Nathan.
Richard graduated from Yale University in 1960, with a B.A. in Economics. He went on to Yale Law School and graduated in 1963. He was Chair of the Jerome Frank Legal Aid Society in 1963, and a Guggenheim Fellow at Yale Law School in 1976-1977. Richard served as a Law Clerk to Associate Justice John P. Cotter, of the Connecticut Supreme Court, and later, as State's Attorney and then Chief Assistant Attorney for Hartford County, for a total of eight years. In 1978, he joined the firm of Rome McGuigan, P.C. and its predecessors, working principally as a Civil Litigator, often in defense of professional liability cases, as an arbitrator, and defense counsel for the Mohegan Tribe of Indians and the Mohegan Tribal Gaming Authority, defending claims in the Mohegan Gaming Disputes Court and Appellate Court. He served for over twenty-five years on the Connecticut Bar Examining Committee, and thirty years, as the Executive Director and Counsel to the Council on Probate Judicial Conduct in Connecticut.
Aside from the professional accomplishments, Richard was a kind and compassionate man who strived to be respectful in all his relationships. He loved family life, his colleagues at Rome McGuiggan, friends, the Yale Community, the study of law, all sports, swimming in Lake Terramuggus, tennis, writing, reading, mentoring, and teaching. There was a special love and kinship he shared with his Yale Classmates, and he authored their 1960 class notes for 18 years, until he no longer could because of declining health. Yale football was a passion of his, and he looked forward all year to the fall season and reading about pre-season skirmishes at the Yale Bowl with his college roommate Bob Walsh! He would occasionally write opinion articles that the Hartford Courant published and was an active participant on numerous Marlborough town committees and the Democratic Party, throughout his life. Services will be held privately by the family. All are welcome to share memories and/or condolences online at www.mulryanfh.com. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to either The Richmond Memorial Library Association, at 15 School Drive, Marlborough, CT 06447, or to the Yale Class of 1960 in Memory of Richard Banbury, attention: Yale Alumni Association, P.O. Box 209010, New Haven, CT 06520-9010.

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Published by The New Haven Register on Dec. 4, 2021.

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Joe Schneiderman

October 1, 2022

Not long after I graduated from Law School, Richard Banbury took me to lunch with Proloy Das to discuss appellate advocacy and appellate practice. Richard continued to support and encourage my early career and accomplishments and God knows it was support and encouragement I really needed. I regret that I fell out of touch with him. But, I always cherish that when he visited my home for an event, he said to me, "Joe, I'd much rather be talking about tomorrow's Connecticut Supreme Court case with you [than the event.]" (Paraphrased.) What an honor for a recent law graduate! My sincerest condolences to his friends, families and loved ones.
Thank you, Richard.

Joseph Scutnik

December 16, 2021

Dear Nicolette our deepest symothies in the passing of Richard ! God Bless may he rest in peace !

Rob Kyff

December 12, 2021

Dear Nicolette, Mike, Tony, Jen, Andrea, Samantha, Thomas and family, I was so sorry to learn of Richard's passing. I remember him well as a loving and supportive father to Mike, Tony, Jen and Andrea during their Kingswood Oxford days, and, in more recent years, he and I corresponded regularly regarding my language column in the Hartford Courant. He was a thoughtful, brilliant and deep thinker, and a terrific writer who loved words as much as I do. I know that he helped to shape all of your lives as well as those of many others like me. We all share your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Evelyn Godbout

December 8, 2021

Nikki, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

John Grasso, on behalf of the Marlborough Democratic Town Committee

December 7, 2021

We have lost a good and gracious man. Richard was a mainstay in town Democratic politics for decades, always active, always creative, always positive. In recent years his illness curtailed his community involvement, yet those of us who had worked with him and had so enjoyed his company continued to feel both his presence, and his absence. We have missed him, and news of his death heightens that emotion. We and the Town of Marlborough mourn the passing of this true friend.

Ned Hickey

December 6, 2021

I practiced law with Richard for some years and he was a gracious mentor as I began my legal career. Richard invited me to consider moving to Marlborough which my wife and I did in 1991. Soon as I moved into town, Richard asked me to serve a Democratic vacancy on the Board of Finance and I did so - it lasted about 10 years and other Boards followed. Richard served on Marlborough Boards as well for decades. Richard was a brilliant lawyer and dedicated public servant to the Town of Marlborough and the State of Connecticut. He was also one of the kindest and most gracious friends anyone could want. Rest in peace, my friend. To his wife, Nikki, and all the Banbury family, I extend my heartfelt condolences.

Alberta Balda

December 4, 2021

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