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1946
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Thomas Fenton Obituary
May 14, 1946 ~ July 17, 2022
Thomas Aloysius Fenton (EHPD, DET., Ret.) 76, of East Haven passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his loving family on July 17, 2022 after fighting a long battle with cancer. He was born May 14, 1946 in New Haven to Thomas and Veronica (Castignetti) Fenton. Thomas is survived by his loving and devoted wife of 55 years, Sharon (Smith) Fenton and children; Thomas Fenton of Denver, Michael Fenton of New Haven, beloved daughters, Daniela Balzano-Taylor of Guilford, Ashley Anfiteatro of New Haven and Veronica Rojas of Denver along with three grandchildren he adored, Sawyer Fenton, Luna McCulloch and Solomon Fenton. He is preceded in death by his parents and sister, Margaret Fenton.
Tom, graduated from the police academy in 1972 and joined the EHPD. He then ultimately attained the rank of Detective in 1994. He later retired in 2000 from the East Haven Police Department after exemplary service to the town of East Haven.
Most importantly, Tom loved his family. From the moment he woke up to the time he closed his eyes, his family came first.
Also, he cherished his service to the town of East Haven as a police officer and later as a detective.
Finally, Tom lived for a good meal, best shared with his family and friends.
Tom will be forever missed, but will always live on in our hearts and minds.
Family will receive friends on Friday, July 22, 2022 from 4 p.m. until the time of service and US Navy Honors at 6:30 p.m. in the Clancy-Palumbo Funeral Home (Clancy Funeral Home), 43 Kirkham Ave., East Haven. Burial will be private. Donations may be made to the East Haven Animal Shelter, 183 Commerce Street, East Haven, CT 06512 in memory of Thomas Fenton.
www.Clancy-PalumboFuneralHome.com
203-467-2789
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Troy Raccuia
July 13, 2023
Tom, you're in my thoughts on a daily basis. Being friends and partners in the DD was an adventure that made me a better officer and person. Many of my smiles over the past year have been because of you. Rest in Peace my friend.
Mike Castellano P-060 (Ret)
July 22, 2022
Godspeed, Brother.
Troy Raccuia
July 21, 2022
There are no words to truly describe the sense of loss. Six years as your partner in the DD turned law enforcement into a real adventure. You taught me to be accountable for my words and actions and to always follow through. You showed me how much of a bloodhound you were and on our first day together, you taught me a very valuable lesson; never let you drive!!! More importantly, we formed a bond and friendship that I will always cherish. Rest In Peace my friend.
The Peterson family
July 21, 2022
Saddened to hear of Tom's passing, he was a true friend. He was well liked by our family I worked with Tom at EHPD and on road jobs,always had fun. Always comed his mustache, rest in peace.
Ret.EHPD Sgt Peterson and family
Harry Conte
July 20, 2022
My condolences to Sharon and the family. Worked with Tom on the E.H.P.D. May he Rest in Peace.
Tom always had a very positive attitude and was a dedicated officer.
Dave and Margo DeFelice
July 19, 2022
Sharon and family... we are so saddened to hear of Tom´s passing. Love and prayers to all of you. May he Rest In Peace.
Lisa Scaramella
July 19, 2022
My condolences and hugs to you Sharon and to Tom's Family. I am deeply saddened to hear that Det. Tom has passed away. It was a pleasure to work with him in patrol and later when he became a detective. Tom was a true gentleman. Rest in Peace Tom.
Ret. Ofc. Scaramella EHPD
Paul Liquori
July 19, 2022
Sharon and family, you are in our thoughts and prayers at this time. Tom was a true gentlemen to be around, and always led by example. Great memories of him and you.
Dave Overson
July 19, 2022
I was shock to hear of Tom´s passing. I worked with Tom as an Auxiliary police officer for East Haven. Tom was kind and understanding. He was dedicated to his profession. Rest In Peace Tom
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22
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