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Wesley Wheaton Obituary

WHEATON, WESLEY C. Wesley C. Wheaton, 70, of Milford passed away suddenly on Jan. 9, 2010 in Milford Hospital after being stricken at his home. He was the beloved husband of Josephine Garufi Wheaton. Mr. Wheaton was born in Bridgeport June 26, 1940, son of the late Roswell J. and Beverly Colman Wheaton. He was a graduate of Milford High School and Leicester Jr. College, now Becker College in Massachusetts. He was an insurance salesman for Metropolitan Life and owned and operated the Tremont Motel in West Haven for several years. He has been in the jewelry business for 37 years, at the former Liberty Jewelers in Orange and currently, as a personal jeweler and as a jewelry wholesaler in the Bowery Diamond District in New York City. He enjoyed fine food and wine, sharing both with family and friends; golfing; and feeding the wild animals around his property. He was a season ticket holder of the New York Giants since 1975. Besides his wife, he is survived by one son, Wesley D. (Eileen Gorman) Wheaton Jr. of Milford; two daughters, Wendy Wheaton of West Haven and Tara Seneco of Milford; one brother, David B. Wheaton of Milford; 5 grandchildren, Nicholas Wheaton of Milford, Tiffany Wheaton of Ansonia, Stephanie (Mark) Bonaminio and Alexander Seneco, both of North Haven and Seana Wheaton of Milford; 2 great grandchildren, Layla Wheaton of Milford and Tianna Wheaton of Ansonia; his brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, Rose and Frank Pepe, Angela and John Borak and Jean Garufi; several nieces and nephews and a legion of friends. He was predeceased by a sister, Marjery J. Whittaker. Friends may call at The Celentano Funeral Home, 424 Elm St. (cor. Dwight) New Haven Thursday from 3 to 8 PM and are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial in Holy Infant Church, 460 Racebrook Road, Orange Friday at 11:00 AM. Entombment in St. Lawrence Garden Mausoleum. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Primary Care Center at Yale New Haven Hospital, 789 Howard Ave., New Haven, CT 06504; West Haven Animal Shelter, 7 Collis St., West Haven, CT 06516; The Burn Center at Bridgeport Hospital, 267 Grant St., Bridgeport, CT. 06610; or Tribute Program, St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, P.O. Box 50, Memphis, TN. 38101. www.celentanofuneralhome.com

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Published by New Haven Register from Jan. 10 to Jan. 11, 2011.

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Eileen Gorman

January 4, 2025

Mr. W as I called you I cannot believe that it has been 10 years since you passed away. I know I wish we had more time to get to know each other, You were a great friend to so many as well a great husband, father, grandfather, uncle and brother but most of all you are with those that past before you and reunited with the love ones you lost .were a great man and I m blessed to have touch my life. Be proud of your legacy and know we all miss you. Love and miss you.

Karen Pepe

January 10, 2020

I can't believe it's been ten years since Wes passed away. I still remember him and his sweet and charming way like it was yesterday. I share a tear with you, Josephine, for our wonderful husbands. Karen Pepe

Emily beaupre

August 16, 2011

It was not until yesterday I heard of Wes passing. My deepest sympathy to the family. I had alot of wonderful memories over Josephine and Wes's home over many holidays. He was a kind soul. I am very sad to hear of his passing. Emily Beaupre

June 22, 2011

It was not until this year that I heard of Wes passing away: he was a wonderful person, kind and caring. Please accept my sorrow as part of yours. Sue

Pat Fiorentino

January 27, 2011

Josephine and Family,
My heart goes out to you for the loss of your husband/father. I did not know him, but do know Josephine, and from what I hear, he was truly a Blessing to every one he touched. Wishing you peace and courage.

D.J. & Kara Nadeau

January 23, 2011

Our deepest sympathy goes out to the Wheaton family. Wes was a good man. Rest in peace.

January 18, 2011

Dear Wheaton Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. God bless.


With Warmest regards,
Nancy Wilson

Darcey

January 17, 2011

May beautiful memories of Wes surround his family & friends always. He was one the kindest & caring people you've ever met. He will truly be missed.

Jena Bonazzoli-Barretta

January 17, 2011

Wes Wheaton an extraordinary man that visited me at the garden center almost daily in the spring and summer. I will tragically miss those visits with him. I pray for Josephine, Wendy, Tara and his other children and family that you will find peace in remembering being a part of his indistinguishable life. I hope you now will walk freely, Wes in your lovely gardens and mine too..you will be so missed. Love GiGi Bonazzoli-Barretta

January 16, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with the Wheaton family. Wes
was a very caring and special person. May he rest in peace
with the angels.
Laura Camilini DeLisio
(Mesa, AZ)

Sonia & Joey Grippo

January 14, 2011

My deepest sympathy goes to the Wheaton family. Wes was a man with no other word to his name but amazing. If anyone was to look up the word amazing in the dictionary, my great friend Wes Wheaton would be listed under the synnonyms. He was the person that was always there for you, no matter what day or what time it was, he is a friend that any person in this world would wish for. He always looked out for me and my family. With his great smile and sense of humor he made even the dullest days, one of enjoyment and laughter. He was a true gentleman and he will be missed greatly by my son and I. Im heartbroken but I know he is in a better place now, looking down on all of us. His name will be known by everyone, lets never forget the great man this earth was blessed with, Wesley C. Wheaton.

January 14, 2011

Dear Wheaton Family, I was so saddened to hear of Wes passing. I will always remember his smile and kindness. He will truly be missed. My deepest sympathy, to all the Wheaton Family. Meg Francini, Lakewood Ranch Florida

Tracey

January 13, 2011

My deepest sympathy goes out to you. I will miss his smile and his way of making you feel special. My children ask everytime we pass your street to go and visit the nice man with the "cool room". He will be missed.

Tom Kelly

January 13, 2011

A true gentleman. His kindness humor and expertise. Will be missed by my whole family. Our heartfelt condolences to all of his family for your loss.

Tony, JoAnn, Lauren Malinowski

January 13, 2011

Josephine,Tara,Wes,Wendy & Family, Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you at this most difficult time. Wes had such an infectious laugh and was such an honorable, kind and generous man that loved life, his family and friends. We miss him terribly but great memories will remain with us all. We are honored and feel very fortunate to have had him as a true friend. Our deepest sympathies on the loss of this great man!

Bill,Laure and Derek Meyers

January 13, 2011

Josephine and Family,Our deepest sympathies on the loss of Wes.My mind is filled with such wonderful memories together and that helps us all get through this difficult time.We have been truly fortunate to know such a great man that we can call our friend.Please let me know if there is anything we can do.

Cheryl Ryan-Volo

January 13, 2011

Dear Josephine and Family,
Wes had one of the kindest hearts of anyone i ever knew. He was a good friend and always had a warm smile and the most wonderful welcoming hugs.. my engagement and wedding rings came from Wes almost 20 years ago..so thoughtful and so loved..my boys would love for Wes to show them the baby ducks in the pond behind the house, or make popcorn or play pinball..warm memories and much sadness. my thoughts and payers are with you and you family Josephine..
Love,
Cheryl Ryan (Volo) and Family

Liz Mead

January 13, 2011

Dear Josephine and Family,
I only knew Wes a short while, but it didn't take long to know what an amazing man he was. He touched so many lives with his big hearted kindness and zest for life. We've all been blessed to have known him. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.

Joy Deegan

January 13, 2011

Our deepest sympathies to the entire Wheaton family. I have fond memories of going to Wes' jewelry store in Orange when I worked down the street in Milford, I was always greeted with a smile. My husband got my engagement ring & we got our wedding rings from Wes so each time we look at our hands we can remember him fondly!
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
love, Joy & Mike Deegan & children (sister/inlaw of Lauren/Billy Wheaton) Meriden,CT

January 13, 2011

Dear Josephine and Family.
Wess was a gift to this world .His memory and kindness will always be remembered. My prayers and love are with you at the sad time.
One hour at a time,be gentle with yourself. He will always be around you.
Love
Mary Neschke

Carolyn Grant

January 12, 2011

To the family of Wesley c. Wheaton
I knew Wesley from Jr.and High School. He was a great guy then and only heard greater things since. How wonderful to have a husband and father so special. In todays world that's rare, you all are very blessed. May his life be reflected in yours and his memory never forgotten. May the Lord bless you all and give you the strength you need to be the fine family Wesley would expect you to be.
Carolyn Woodford Grant

Eileen Gorman

January 12, 2011

Jospehine, Wesley Jr, Tara & Wendy

The world has lost a great man who loved & lived his life in the fullest. Jospehine you were the star in his eyes and you kept him shining everyday. You filled his life with the most love one man can ask for.
Wesley, Tara & Wendy you all were blessed with a father who loved each of you in his own special way. There will never be a day he is not with each you or looking over you. He is your guardian angel now who will always live on through you and your children.
Seana lost her PaPa Wes however she was lucky to have him for the time she did. She & I will remember him as one of the biggest icon in our lives.
We love you all and want you to know that know matter where life takes us you had the greatest husband and father anyone can ask for.
With Love & Sympathy, Eileen & Seana

keith Davenport

January 12, 2011

The Wheaton Family,
Wes was a great man. A great friend an insperation to all who new him. He will be missed dearly. May god bless you all in your time of sorrow. yours truely, Keith ,Margie Davenport and Family

Bill Sewell

January 12, 2011

Josephine and Family,

Wes was a great guy. He will be missed and remembered well.

My deepest sympathies. God bless you, Wes and your entire family.

Elaine and Tom Reitmeyer

January 12, 2011

Dear Wes, I feel your loss, I feel your pain, I feel the void in your heart that only Dad could fill, It's going to be a long journey but just remember I'm right here for you as is the love and support of your friends and family. God Bless you and give you the strength "To accept the thingsc we ccannot change"

Melissa & Bill Giovanni

January 12, 2011

Josephine and Family,

We are so incredibly sad to hear about Wes's passing. He was an amazing, giving, loving, caring and extremely generous person, who brought light and laughter to so many. He was a man that put others first and found joy in making people happy.

We pray that you will each find peace during this hard time by remembering his love and the good times that you all shared. We will miss Wes terribly and will cherish him, always.

Our deepest sympathies and much love.

Ron Diane Michelle Sam & Casper Murray

January 12, 2011

To Our Dear Friend Wes and family, We are so sorry about the passing of your Father and know how much you loved him. Today is a day to remember his kind, gentle and giant size spirit, to be happy for the memories you have and not sad for what you have lost. He is at peace and we send peace to you and your family too.Luv You Bud!!

Holly Wheaton Guertin

January 12, 2011

Josephine and Family,
I can not find the words to fully express what I would like to say. I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. You are in my thoughts and prayers always. Wes will always have a special place in my heart. He will be truly missed by all. Lots of love Jessica,Kevin and Lindsey

January 12, 2011

Josephine, My heart goes out to you and your family. I still see his smile every time I saw him. He will be greatly missed and I am sure he is with his Buddy Guy right now.

Linda, John, Caitlin, Bunegru

January 12, 2011

Deepest sympathy to the family of Wesley Wheaton. He was a lovely person and I remember him fondly from highschool, class of 1959. May God Bless his soul. Lorraine Wilson (Saja)

Carole Funk

January 12, 2011

Dear Josephine and the children;
I just received this news this morning and cannot find the right words. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Wes has always been a part of my life, as well as my family's. He has always been a wonderful support in my life and I have had many opportunities to laugh with him.
Carole Funk

Robert Blakeslee

January 12, 2011

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

January 11, 2011

to Wes' family - We were touched by his kind heart and boundless generousity. He will be missed and remembered with much admiration and affection.
- Judy Primavera & Fred Hulley
Jamie A. Hulley Arts Foundation

David and Patricia Raffauf

January 11, 2011

Josephine, Wes, Tara and Wendy~
We can assure you that Guy had a great meal on the stove and a fine bottle of Red waiting for Wes. We will certainly miss his smile, contagious laugh and ever giving compassion. Please find peace in knowing that it was a life well lived by Wes and we will forever be grateful for being blessed with the honor of his friendship.
Much Love,
David and Patricia Raffauf

Jack Ciocca

January 11, 2011

Dear Josephine, My heartfelt sympathy for the passing of your husband & friend, Wes. Words escape me, but words are all we have at a time like this.
"Goodbyes are not forever.
Goodbyes are not the end.
They simply mean I'll miss you
Until we meet again!"
~Author Unknown

In Friendship,

Bill & Jean LaRovera

January 11, 2011

Josephine, Our deepest sympathies go out to you and the family..He was a Dear friend to all of our family..he will be missed

Vicki DeCristofaro

January 11, 2011

Josephine and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss, we loved Wes so much, What a great man..
His Spirit lives in you and your children.

Cindy Supan

January 11, 2011

Dear Josephine,

My deepest of sympathy to you and your family for your great loss. Wes was a wonderful man who was loved by all who knew him. He will be truly missed.

With sympathy,
Cindy Supan

Cathy Nolan

January 11, 2011

Wes will certainly be missed by all who knew him. His smile would light up a room :) I will pray for Wes and his family. God Bless

January 11, 2011

Dear Josephine,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, we are so sorry for your great loss. Wes had a kind and generous soul, a warm and loving heart and a zest for life! We loved him like a brother and will cherish his friendship always. He will truly be missed.
In love and friendship,
Joe & Jeanne Coscia

April Burrows

January 11, 2011

Wes,
We were all so sorry to hear about your dad he was a wonderful and kind man. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Love April, Monica and Tiffany

Susan Fowler

January 11, 2011

Wes,

So sorry to hear about your father. You have my deepest sympathy during this difficult time.

Joanne Farrace

January 11, 2011

Josephine--my heart goes out to you for your terrible loss. Wes was one of the kindest people I have ever known. He was always there for everyone. I know your deep faith and hugh circle of friends will keep you going. My prayers are with you and your family. Love, Joanne Farrace

Jerry and Kathy Renzoni

January 11, 2011

Josephine
Wes will be missed by all he has touched through out his years. Our hearts go out to you and your family and hope our prayers will comfort you.

Karen & Joe Pepe

January 11, 2011

Dear Josephine,
We will always cherish the memories of what a kind and generous person Wes was, and the many good times we shared together. Our loving thoughts and prayers are with you...

Billy & Lauren Wheaton

January 11, 2011

Josephine,

Our hearts and thoughts go out to you and the family. Wes was very special and treated everyone he met with honor and kindness. We will all miss him immensely and send you our deepest condolences. We will always remember his loving and happy way which touched us all.

Rose Pascale

January 11, 2011

Josephine,
Im sorry to hear about Wes. I was just looking through some photos I have on Saturday, and cannot believe he is gone. I hope you are well, and I wish I could get down there for the services, but I think I will be snowed in. Wes was a good man, and you were very lucky to have him while you did. I will always remember his smile and hugs when I was a little girl. Take care and I will see you as soon as I can get down.

Rose (Rosie) Pascale and family
Winn, Maine

Judy McGovern

January 11, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Tina Atilho

January 11, 2011

Wes, Sorry for the loss of your Dad. May he rest in peace.

January 11, 2011

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Michele Cardiello

January 11, 2011

Wendy,

Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. We are so very sorry for your loss...if you need anything please call.

Love & Friendship
Michele & Bob

Matthew and Tricia Schwartz

January 11, 2011

There are no words to describe the man. He was the kindest,most loving individual we know. He was always upbeat with his infectious laugh, and pushed others to be their best,but never judged them.He was a part of our lives we will treasure forever.

Bonnie Signore

January 11, 2011

Dear Josephine,
Words can't begin to express my most heartfelt sympathy...Wes was truly one of a kind. Once he touched your life, it was forever changed. My love and thoughts are with you and your family at this most difficult time and always.....

Missy Wheaton Godley

January 10, 2011

Josephine,
This is very difficult to write... so hard to believe. Our deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. Wes had a heart of gold and will be greatly and so sadly missed by every life he has touched. You are in our thoughts and prayers and in our hearts...

Sandy Beedle

January 10, 2011

So sorry for your Loss...

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