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James Joseph Ruby

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MANCHESTER -- James Joseph Ruby, 82, died at Community Medical Center in Toms River on Saturday, June 5, 2010. James was born in Jersey City and lived there until moving to Sparta in 1978. He was a World War II Navy veteran. After the war he worked as a policeman for the Port Authority, leaving after 23 years in 1977. In 1978 he moved to Sparta and joined the Sussex County Correctional Facility in Newton, retiring in 1996.

James was predeceased by his beloved son, Richard. He is survived by his beloved wife, Gloria (Branna) Ruby; his devoted children, Gail Lupo and her husband, Chuck, Patricia Gordon and her husband, Charlie, Barbara Murray and her husband, David, Gloria McDevitt and her husband, John, and John Ruby and his wife, Laura; his daughter-in-law, Maria Ruby; his grandchildren, Colette, Kristyn, Meredith, Dana, Jessica, Connor, Gabrial, Micayla, Isabella and Amanda; his great-grandchildren, Cayley, Cira, Lucy and Audrey; and his brother, Edward J. O'Connell.

Friends may call Wednesday, June 9, from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at the Goble Funeral Home, 22 Main St., Sparta. A Funeral Mass will be held at 10:30 a.m. Thursday, June 10, at Our Lady of the Lake Church, Sparta. Interment will follow at Sparta Cemetery.

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Published by The New Jersey Herald on Jun. 8, 2010.

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Jim Egan

June 13, 2010

I worked with "Mr. Ruby" for many years at the county jail. He was always a gentleman to me and a professional officer to the inmates. We went to the Academy together but I learned more about how to be an officer from him than from any school. He was my Sunday morning partner for more than a decade and I missed him greatly after he retired. I always shall.

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Robert Caggiano

June 10, 2010

My sincere sympathy to the Ruby family.
We used to live in Sparta, on #9 Under Rock Road, across the street from your home. We moved in 1979 so you probably do not remember us. Jim was working for the Port Authority Police Dept. as I remember.

I was honored to play Taps at the cemetery for Jim today. I hope in some small way to have added some dignity and respect to this morning's service.

May God bless you all.
Robert Caggiano

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