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Stephen Hete Obituary

FRANKLIN -- Stephen Hete Sr., 74, died Wednesday, Sept. 11, 2013, at Newton Medical Center following a long illness.

Mr. Hete, son of the late Frank and Gladys (Haas) Hete Jr., was born in Franklin Sept. 7, 1939. He lived in Hamburg and then in Vernon for more than 40 years before moving to Franklin five years ago.

Mr. Hete was an account technician at Picatinny Arsenal for 36 years, retiring in 1996. He served with the U.S. Air Force during the Vietnam Era and was a member of the Ground Observers Corps in Ogdensburg. Mr. Hete played clarinet in the Hamburg High School Band and had an appreciation for music, from country to classical. He was an avid reader and enjoyed crossword puzzles.

Mr. Hete is survived by his wife, Barbara (Vance) Hete; sons, Stephen Hete Jr. and his wife, Deborah, of Milford, Pa., and Brian Lee Hete and his wife, Keshia, of Montague; grandchildren, Renee Elizabeth Hete and Christian Thomas Hete; brother, Frank Hete III of Andover; and sisters, Claire Rowe of Dandridge, Tenn., and Lillian Vance of Dodgeville, N.Y.

Funeral services will be held Monday, Sept. 16, at 11 a.m. at F. John Ramsey Funeral Home, 1 Main St., Franklin. Interment will follow at North Hardyston Cemetery. Friends may call at the funeral home on Sunday, Sept. 15, from 1 to 5 p.m.

Memorial donations may be made to Wallkill Valley First Aid Squad, P.O. Box 274, Franklin, NJ 07416. For online condolences and directions, please see www.fjohnramseyfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The New Jersey Herald on Sep. 13, 2013.

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Harry and Linda Predmore

September 15, 2013

Dear Barbara and family,
We wish to express our sympathy to you and yours, during your time of sorrow,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

September 15, 2013

Hi Barbara and Family, You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. In Christ, Charlie and Ruthann Goarcke

Darlene (Predmore) Bennett

September 15, 2013

Lillian and family. So sorry for the lose of your brother. Have been thinking of you lately and didn't know where you were. God works in mysterious ways. Prayers to you and your family.
Darlene (Predmore) Bennett

September 14, 2013

You have my deepest sympathy for the loss of your husband. May God, with time, relieve your sorrow. (1 Thessalonians 4:13)

September 14, 2013

Barbara, so sorry to hear this. Much love to you and the kids. God bless and comfort you. Edey

Christine Cappuccia

September 13, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

September 13, 2013

Barbara and family,
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your husband and father. May the happy memories and love give you and your family comfort. You are in our thoughts and prayers

Wayne and Molly Tillsion
Ogdensburg

brenda kimble klotz

September 13, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Emma Pruiksma

September 13, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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