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Amanda Inbau Arthur passed away peacefully on the morning of November 11th, 2015 at the age of 42 surrounded by her family and friends. She is survived by her devoted husband of 12 years Steven Arthur and her beloved son Taylor Arthur. She is also survived by her parents Don and Patsy Inbau; brother Ted Inbau; sister Lorin Inbau. She also leaves behind nieces, nephews, cousins and other family members and friends. She is preceded in death by her paternal grandparents Edward and Helen Inbau and her maternal grandparents Melvin and Rosemary Mauras. Amanda was born and raised in Metairie, LA. She attended St. Ann Elementary School and Mount Carmel Academy. She attended the University of New Orleans and was later accepted into Louisiana State University School of Nursing where she obtained a Bachelor of Science Degree in Nursing. She was a licensed registered nurse and was employed at Oschner Hospital for over 20 years in both the Labor Delivery Department and the Day of Surgery Center. She was an active parishioner of St. Angela Merici Church in Metairie. She was the Vice President of the Louisiana Association of PeriAnesthesia Nurses and was named as one of the "Great 100 Nurses of Louisiana" in 2013. Amanda was a very giving person and was adored and loved by her friends and family for her glowing personality and kind, generous heart. She touched many lives through her lifetime and will be missed by so many. Relatives and friends are invited to attend an evening visitation on Sunday, November 15, 2015 at Lake Lawn Metairie Funeral Home from 5:00 to 8:00 p.m. A Funeral Mass will be held on Monday, November 16, 2015 at St. Angela Merici Catholic Church in Metairie, LA at 12:00 noon. Visitation will begin at 9:30 a.m. until service time. Interment will follow in Lake Lawn Park Mausoleum. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Children's Hospital, Development Department. Address 200 Henry Clay Avenue New Orleans 70118. 504-896-9375. To sign and view the family guestbook, please visit www.lakelawnmetairie.com

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Published by The New Orleans Advocate from Nov. 13 to Nov. 15, 2015.

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Danielle Hufft

December 7, 2015

On April 24th, 2015 I was about to get rolled in to surgery to have my port inserted when a short curled hair brunette nurse popped her head in. That is the day I met Amanda Inbau Arthur. She heard that I was in pre ops and that I was scared following my recent diagnosis. Ironically enough Amanda and I both had Triple Negative Breast cancer. She calmed my mom and I down, advised my mom of things to expect in the months ahead and scribbled down her phone number to call her after surgery. We have talked almost everyday since. She answered my calls and texts at all hours of the night. She was the first person I called as I was wheeled in to the emergency room (twice) during treatment and when I accidently ingested my dog's seizure medicine in the middle of the night. We did not laugh that night but boy did we laugh about it once I got the all clear that the dog medicine would not harm me. Unfortunately Amanda had a recurrence only a few months after we met, and I only hope I was able to support her as she did for me. Reast in peace my girl now that you are comfortable and relieved of pain. Love - Danielle Hufft

Katie Kelly

December 2, 2015

Amanda came into my life when I needed her the most. I was at Ochsner for surgery, getting my chemo port put in. I was scared and sobbing, until Amanda walked into my room. I was immediately comforted by her positive attitude and smile. We kept in touch after that surgery, but I find myself wishing for more. I will never forget you and the impact you had on my cancer journey as long as I live, Amanda. I am truly blessed to have known you.

Regina Roussel

December 2, 2015

Amanda was ,by far, DOSC's Ultimate Party Planner!!! She was always so well prepared and thoughtful when coordinating, planning, and hosting most of our get togethers. I wish I would have taken some lessons!!!!! She helped me out in so many ways during a rough patch of my life, even as far as letting me come "shop" through Taylor's hand me downs!!!! I called her "my goober" because she always had to do everything by the book, she always followed the rules, and she LOVED the Annual Nursing Skills Fair. I will never forget her and feel so lucky to have been able to call her my friend!!!

Claire Glas

December 2, 2015

Amanda was a wonderful friend. I miss her dearly. We always had fun at our dinners every month! Our dinner group will never be the same.

Raychelle Fernandez

November 20, 2015

Incredible soul. Our hearts are with you and your family. Knowing she rest now with Jesus.

November 19, 2015

So sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort in the prayers and thoughts for Amanda. My heart goes out to Patsy, her family,
son-in-law and grandchild.
Barbara Gemelli Marzloff

Jennifer Amato

November 19, 2015

Mr. Don and Miss Patsy, I'm heartbroken and still in disbelief over losing Amanda. I feel privileged that I had her as a friend since childhood. She was a warm, loving, positive, and supportive friend. I will so miss our visits we had when I traveled back to New Orleans. We could always pick up right where we left off. I will forever cherish those times I had with her.

Megan Cohen

November 19, 2015

I worked with Amanda and she was such a kind person. I will miss her beautiful face and sweet smile.

Margaret Paul Raziano

November 19, 2015

Pasty and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that in time you all will find comfort and will always cherish the time you had with Amanda. She will always be your angel in heaven.

November 19, 2015

It's with a heavy heart that I tell you how sorry I am to hear the news of Amanda's passing.
Our rosary group of mostly all St Ann moms will keep you and your family in our prayers. Please know how sorry we are. Suzette Weydert

Patty Couvillion

November 19, 2015

I remember calling Amanda one time all excited to try this new shade of lipstick I saw in the catalog. I gave her the name and number, she kept saying that she didn't see it. Come to find out, I had the wrong catalog. I was looking at Avon instead of Mary Kay. We laughed until we cried and she never let me forget about it. Love that girl!!

PAMELA PRATS

November 19, 2015

Don, Patsy, Lorin and Teddy:

Words escape me to adequately express my sympathies. I am grateful for having known Amanda. She was the first to baby sit Michael :-). We loved living across the street from your family. Neither distance nor time has diminished my love for you guys and for Amanda. I cherish my memories of a beautiful, loving and kind Amanda and the Inbau family.

You're in my thoughts and prayers every day, all of my love to you and your families.

Pam Prats

Sandy Myer

November 19, 2015

Don & Patsy, Sorry to hear about Amanda. You & your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Denise LeBlanc-Bock

November 18, 2015

I was in Amanda's class at Mount Carmel. She was very kindhearted, but fun, too. She was smart and always sweet to everyone. What a wonderful person. I was so sad to hear this news! My prayers for her husband, son, and family.

Bob Morel

November 18, 2015

Don and Patsy, I'm so sorry for your loss. Sharon and I only knew Amanda as a beautiful baby who played in her crib while we played games in your kitchen. It looks like she grew up to be a fantastic person. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.
Bob and Sharon Morel

Jerry Graham

November 18, 2015

Ted, you and your family are in my families prayers. We are so sorry for your loss

November 18, 2015

Amanda walked the runway at the Pink Gala with such beauty and grace! No one would have known what she was going through. Love you & will always remember you.
Donna Clement

Liz Gaudet

November 18, 2015

My memories of Amanda are all happy, fun, and memorable times. Our game nights after the boys' baseball games, the happy hours at the club, the parties for school, and our texts over school and the boys - Amanda filled my life with happiness and joy. She had a contagious smile and was always helping others, offering to do things for others or was giving advice. What a remarkable lady! She left a mark that is inspiring. Love you, my friend. You are already missed so, so much.

Gregory Gilberti

November 18, 2015

We will miss you "Mandy"! Thank you for being the best babysitter and friend to me and my family through the years. You will never be forgotten.

Natasha Forest

November 17, 2015

So many memories with you...
Trip to Vegas, dinner and the Saenger, crawfish boils, steak and veggies, etc. I always felt at ease talking to you about anything. You always heard me and never judged me. We are forever here for T and Steven. They are family!!!

November 17, 2015

We have loved Amanda from the day she was born. Then she became such an amazing young woman We are so proud of her. It won't be easy to go on without her but as Taylor said "We must go on with the game". Godfather and Aunt Sybil

Pat and Tony Maltese

November 17, 2015

Mandy was just 3 years old when we moved across the street from her. Over the years we watched her grow into a beautiful young woman. She had the sweetest personality and the most radiant smile. I will always remember the liove she gave and the love she left behind. Her family will always remain in our prayers.

Stacey Au

November 17, 2015

I sure am going to miss talking about how our kids will one day get married. I will also miss looking at all of Amanda's pics on her cell phone from whatever fun event she went to over the weekend. Work will never be the same, but I know we will keep her memory alive. Prayers to all of Amanda's family and friends that we find strength and peace in the days ahead.

Dana Riley

November 17, 2015

I knew Amanda from our St Ann days although I was a few years older. Our paths would cross over the years through mutual friends and I always enjoyed catching up with her. She was always so sweet and fun to talk to. She has obviously made a lasting impact on many people's lives based on the outpouring of love for her. My prayers go out to Steven, Taylor and the rest of her family. I am hoping you find peace and strength in this sad time. May she rest in peace.

Michelle "Mimi" Stieffel

November 17, 2015

There are no words to fully describe the joy Amanda brought to so many. Her beautiful radiant smile, kind words (no matter how long passed between talks), bubbly excitement, shared passions, and everything else that we loved so much about her will be missed. We are truly blessed God chose Amanda to be his newest angel to guide and protect her family. I am forever thankful to call her my friend...family at work...part of Amanda's "Ain't dere no more" group that she kept in touch with and kept together. Until we meet again.... We love you, Mimi, Frank & Kerby

Lauren Crisler Oufnac

November 17, 2015

I was always jealous of Lorin having such an awesome big sister in Mandy! I know she will always watch over all of you, but her kind heart and ability to touch everyone she met will never be forgotten. She truly did make this world a better place!

November 17, 2015

One of my favorite memories of Amanda was seeing her and Patsy at the Helen Brett Jewelry Show. She was a glowing, beautiful young pregnant lady. I loved watching her smiling face whenever she talked about her baby, and she couldn't wait to start her nursery. Her smile will always be remembered. My prayers have
been sent for months, and will continue to be sent to the Inbau and Arthur families. Sincerely, Mary Ann Luth

Larry Hutson

November 17, 2015

Our Prayers are with Steven, Taylor and the extended Authur/Inbau Family. Thankful that we were able to spend some time with her and the family in Metarie over the Labor Day weekend...Her time here is gone but greater glory awaited and now she's there...Rest Eternal in Peace...

Margie & Larry Hutson, Suwanee GA

Tara Aguilar

November 17, 2015

You will always be the "glue" that holds our class together. We love you!

Jessica & John Windham

November 17, 2015

We are always thinking and praying for yall to have strength during this difficult time! Amanda is now not suffering and watching over all of you daily! Never forgotten and always in our hearts. We love yall!

Jennifer Buback

November 16, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with you guys. She will be truly missed

November 16, 2015

Don, Patsy & Ted,
I was so sorry to hear about the passing of Amanda. My prayers and thoughts are with you all during this sad time.
Sincerely, Linda Meany Vicknair

Sean Esker

November 16, 2015

It had been a while since our paths had crossed, but I will always remember Amanda for her smile, her kind spirit, and her generosity. May memories comfort Mr. Don and Ms. Patsy, Ted and Lorin, and Steven and Taylor, and I hope that soon those memories bring a smile to your faces before they bring tears to your eyes. I remember her as such a happy person, and I know she would only want to leave happiness for those she loved.

Erica Adams

November 16, 2015

So very sorry to hear about the loss of Amanda. Thinking about all of you and you're in our prayers.

Brajuan Madison

November 16, 2015

Heaven has gained an angel.. You will be miss. May God wrap his arms around Taylor and strengthen him in this difficult time!
-Brajuan and Angel (SAM classmate)

Beth Juge

November 16, 2015

So sorry for your loss. Amanda will live forever in our hearts and our Memories. God Bless

THE 2ND FL. ENDO DEPT.

November 16, 2015

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

November 16, 2015

Don and Patsy,

So sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jim Elmore

Les Klotz

November 15, 2015

Don and Patsy; Pat and I were deeply saddened to learn of Amanda's passing. Please know that your thoughts and prayers are with you and the family in this time of loss.
Les and Pat Klotz

November 15, 2015

A beautiful soul taken too early. Our thoughts and prayers with you all during this difficult time. Jill Fitzpatrick

Jason Orillion

November 15, 2015

I am still very much in shock and sad by Amanda's passing. She was always so sweet to me and calm my nerves when I had stuff done at Oschner. I'm sad i lost touch with her and Steven through the years. God bless her and her family she will truly be missed.

November 15, 2015

To the members of Arthur and Inbau families my deepest sympathy in this grief moments. Amanda will be in my heart, my thoughts and prayers.
CARMEN AZOFEIFA

Kelly Janzen

November 15, 2015

I have such good memories of Amanda through Karin in high school. I'm so sorry for your loss. Peace and strength to you all.

Amanda with Karin, Rachel & Kelly at a party

Rachel Roffall

November 15, 2015

Amanda at Karin's wedding

Rachel Roffall

November 15, 2015

Randy Sherlock

November 15, 2015

Amanda was the best! So sorry for your loss. She will be greatly missed.

Amanda and Karin before Karin's bachelorette party

Rachel Roffall

November 15, 2015

Rachel Roffall

November 15, 2015

I'm so sorry to hear about Amanda. I met Amanda through my good friend, Karin Tortorich Lookingbill, back in high school. Her picture is just how I remember her - always smiling and happy. I can still hear her sweet voice and laugh.

Deborah Oster

November 15, 2015

My deepest sympathy to you all on the passing of your beautiful Mandy. She touched many lives and will forever be in everyone's heart. God bless you all.

J F

November 15, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Fritz Esker

November 14, 2015

Words always sound trite at times like these, but I know that I (and everyone else in the Esker family) is deeply saddened by the Inbau families loss and wish to express our condolences. I hadn't seen Amanda since childhood, but I remember her as kind and friendly and it sounds like she remained that way through the rest of her life.

November 14, 2015

Very very sad to hear. I had the pleasure of attending LSU Nursing with Amanda. She was always professional and kind to everyone. She was taken far to soon indeed. God bless you Amanda. You will be sorely missed.

Tanya Bryant

November 14, 2015

What a beautiful person inside & out! Amanda always had a smile on her face and brought happiness to every one she helped. She will be missed. May she rest in peace!

Reyna Caraccioli

November 14, 2015

I will miss u dearly Amanda !

Myra Addy

November 14, 2015

Amanda was an amazing nurse and coworker and it was a gift to have known you! You fought like a warrior and your spirit will live on! Rest in peace sweet girl!

Nancy Mueller

November 14, 2015

So sorry for your loss. Amanda was such a wonderful person and nurse .

Kackie Elliott

November 14, 2015

My niece/Goddaughter so loved and words cannot truly express my love. Prayers continue for entire family.

Jeanie Favret

November 14, 2015

Patsy, Lorin and family,
So sorry for your los of your daughter and sister. She's now at lease with the Lord. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Cary Joseph Rowbatham

November 14, 2015

I really enjoyed working in the next dept. over from her in the main surg. dept, & amb. surg. ctr. U were so brave to face all of that u went through with the great personality that u always showed us. Love Ya / Miss Ya !
CJR , R.N.

Cary Joseph Rowbat

November 14, 2015

I really enjoyed working in the next dept. over from her in the main surg. dept, & amb. surg. ctr. U were so brave to face all of that u went through with the great personality that u always showed us. Love Ya / Miss Ya !
CJR , R.N.

Renee Brayden

November 14, 2015

Amanda gave both my girls their first bath in the labor & delivery unit. She was a wonderful nurse.

Cynthia O'Brien

November 14, 2015

My deepest sympathy for Steven, Taylor and family! Amanda and I met because of our battle with breast cancer. She was so supportive as she was dealing with her own. I will treasure her support always.

Lois Orillion

November 14, 2015

I am so sorry to hear of Amanda's passing. I did not know her but my son Jason told me about her when he would go to Ochsner. My prayers are with your family.

Lois Orillion

November 14, 2015

My dear niece/Godchild; I cannot truly express my sadness and sorrow.

Dawn Murden

November 14, 2015

I haven't seen Amanda in quite a while, since Taylor was a baby, but we remained in touch through the years. We were Pampered Chef buddies. She was such a beautiful and vivacious woman with a kind heart. Gone way too soon.

November 14, 2015

She was a very caring and wonderful friend she loved her family dearly my prayers are for her family

Ann Lockhart

November 14, 2015

Amanda is a special nurse. She visited my son and husband prior to their surgeries. She talked to all of us and helped us feel comforted and safe. Amanda had a special gift in caring for others. My thoughts and prayers for Lorin and her family.

Eva Jacob Barkoff

November 14, 2015

Whenever Amanda was at the home of my stepson and his wife, Scott and Jenny Weber Gibson, she was always, always had a smile on her face and was so very sweet and warm to me. I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of Amanda's family.

Melissa Piedra

November 14, 2015

I'm very sorry for your loss, Steven and family.

Ginny Thompson

November 14, 2015

I want to extend my sincerest sympathy to Steven, Taylor and family. Amanda was beautiful in so many ways. She is an angel and now will be doing God's work. God love you all

Pat Artigue Gebbia

November 14, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.

Gayle Matherne

November 14, 2015

So sorry for your loss. Amanda was a beautiful person. She was a close friend of my daughter, Stacey. Amanda will be missed by many.

Stephanie Williamson

November 14, 2015

Amanda was a wonderful friend over all the years. She was a very kind, compassionate, and caring person. Amanda was beautiful inside and out. She was an angel who was a great nurse. I have been blessed to have had Amanda in my life. She will be missed by all who knew her. With deepest sympathy.

Stephanie Williamson

November 14, 2015

Amanda has been such a wonderful friend over all the years. She was a kind, compassionate, and very caring person. Amanda was beautiful inside and out. She was an angel who made a great nurse. I have been blessed to have had Amanda in my life. She will be greatly missed by all. With deepest sympathy

Britt Tonnessen

November 14, 2015

I have not seen Amanda for many years. She was an amazing nurse and I was privileged to have worked with her at Ochsner. She was so sharp and funny. My condolences to all who loved her. She is remembered.

Gabrielle, Tim, and Taylor Watkins

November 14, 2015

Prayers go out to you, Steven, Taylor, and the rest of your family. You were an amazing person and I feel blessed to have known you!
Love, (the other Taylor momma)

Mary Ann and Andy Luth

November 14, 2015

Patsy, Don, and family. My heart feels so heavy for your entire family. I think you have not only an angel, but a Saint in heaven
The tributes to her on Facebook speak volumes of her life. I am so very sorry, sending prayers to your family. A beautiful young woman you can all be proud of.

ashley vail

November 14, 2015

So sorry for your loss. My prayers are with your family

Sandy Sumich

November 14, 2015

Patsy and Don, words are inadequate to express how we feel about your loss. Amanda was an absolutely beautiful young woman. We have fond memories of her from our Brother Martin football days. May God give you the strength you need in this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.

Sandy and Leni Sumich

November 14, 2015

Though it's been a long time since we have been in touch, I will never forget the wonderful Inbau family. I grieve with you. Doris Rappold

Margie Inbau Hutson

November 14, 2015

Amanda was such a vibrant and beautiful girl and became a wonderful woman and mother. Our hearts are broken and we are grieving this tremendous loss with you. We are comforted by the belief that she is with Jesus our Saviour, and is now resting in Heaven.

All our love,

Margie, Larry, Sophie, Ted and Aunt Sue

Susan Kreider Eckholdt

November 14, 2015

Please accept my sincere condolences. I had the opportunity to teach sweet Amanda at St. Ann. She was a very special person, and I will always remember her beautiful smile. Please know that I will keep her and the family in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you all with the guidance and strength needed at these most difficult times.

Rhea McCarthy

November 13, 2015

Dearest Amanda,,,, you will be missed .... Until we meet again let gods angels take you to your heavenly home ... And help them watch over your loving family and friends...

Tiffany Stutzenbecker

November 13, 2015

I will miss your gorgeous eyes, your contagious smile and our talks while watching our boys play ball. I'm so glad our paths crossed again and we got to hang out in our little triangle of St. Angela, Lakeside Country Club and Lakeshore Playground. You will be missed more than you will ever know. You are our special angel up there. It's still surreal to me. Love you and continued prayers for your family. Until we meet again, my friend.

Alison Courtenay

November 13, 2015

So sorry for your loss. Will be praying for your family during this most difficult time

Patty Couvillion

November 13, 2015

My prayers are with you, Stephen, Taylor, and Amanda's entire family. I know she is in a better place and is now at peace. The loss will never be understood, we can only trust that God needed her more than we did. Wow, how beautiful and uniquely rare of a human being that Angel is. Heaven sure got a good one. Love to you all and much love to you, Amanda.

Sharie Corona Collier

November 13, 2015

I have so many memories of our friendship and the time we spent together as kids. Time and distance may have separated us, but we remained true friends. We spoke and laughed like not a day had passed... I'm thankful to have had a friend so dear and genuine. I'll miss you...

Eric Pitts

November 13, 2015

This is so unreal. Amanda you are one in a million for sure. I admire you in so many ways. Until we meet again...

Cindy Folse Colvin

November 13, 2015

So sorry to hear of your loss. I remember her as always having a smile on her face and bringing joy to others. My prayers are with you.

November 13, 2015

Sweet angel, hope you were smiling down upon your Ochsner family as we sent loving thoughts to heaven. Your generous and kind spirit will continue to inspire us each day. May the Lord comfort your family. Will always wear my Swatch and think of you :)

Janet B

Karin Monvoisin

November 13, 2015

Though it's been a few years since we've seen each other, your beautiful smile and bubbly personality are still fondly remembered. You gave it your all and then some. God must have needed you more in Heaven than here on earth. You represented our profession well, touching so many lives in the time He shared you with us. God bless you, Amanda. You will never be forgotten.

November 13, 2015

Sending my condolences to the family. May God give you strength and peace during this difficult time. (Psalm 29:11)

Marilyn Spadora

November 13, 2015

Patsy and family, please accept my heartfelt condolences. Mandy was a beautiful person inside and out. Taken so young, but God has lots of work for her to do in Heaven. You now have an Angel there to carry your prayers to Jesus. My prayers are with your family.

Monique Sullivan

November 13, 2015

So very sad and far too soon. You touched so many. I hope you knew that. May your kind and gentle memory always be a source of peace and comfort to those you left behind.

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