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Ashley D'Aubert Denechaud Capra

1970 - 2020

Ashley D'Aubert Denechaud Capra obituary, 1970-2020, Oakland, CA

BORN

1970

DIED

2020

FUNERAL HOME

Lake Lawn Metairie Funeral Home & Cemeteries

5100 Pontchartrain Blvd.

New Orleans, Louisiana

Ashley Capra Obituary

Ashley D'Aubert Denechaud Capra died peacefully on September 21, 2020 at her home in Oakland, California surrounded by her loving family, after a courageous two year battle with ovarian cancer. She was 50 years old. Ashley is survived by her beloved husband of 18 years, Daniel Michael Capra, her cherished son, Aidan Michael Capra, her mother, Patricia Crouere Denechaud, her grandmother, Mildred D'Aubert Crouere. her sister, Julie Denechaud Gahagan, her brother-in-law, William Wiley Gahagan, Jr., her three nephews, Charles, Wills and Patrick, and her numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. She was preceded in death by her late father, Charles lsidore Denechaud, III. Ashley was a proud alumna of the Academy of the Sacred Heart, where she graduated with the Class of 1988. She deemed her time at the Academy as some of the best years of her life, forging friendships there that would last a lifetime. She attended Loyola University. During her debut year, Ashley participated in several formal presentations and served as a maid in the Court of Rex and was Queen of Prophets of Persia. In all aspects of her life, Ashley lived up to her moniker "Wonder Woman." As Executive Vice President of Client Service at Paula Le Duc Fine Catering and Events, where she worked for over twenty-five years, she managed some of the most prestigious and complex events in Northern California, including the America's Cup, countless galas for the San Francisco Ballet, San Francisco Opera and San Francisco Symphony, the Black 6 White Ball, the Screen Actors Guild Awards, events for Tiffany & Co., events for President Bill Clinton, Vice President Al Gore, President George W. Bush, President Barack Obama, HRH Prince Charles and events for Lucasfilm. A highly-respected leader in the San Francisco Bay Area hospitality industry, Ashley served as former President of the Northern California International Special Events Society and was a member of many industry organizations including the International Caterers Association, ILEA Northern California, Meeting Professionals International, National Association for Catering and Events, Professional Convention Management Association and Wedding International Professionals Association. "The incomparable Ashley was a star among stars and will be missed deeply" said Paula Le Duc. "She led our industry with heart, excellence, generosity, boundless energy and incredible passion." As a ninth generation New Orleanian, Ashley was passionate about her family, friends, her PLD career, fine cuisine, Mardi Gras and her New Orleans Saints. But mostly, she loved people. She was a mentor, manager and champion to hundreds of event professionals throughout the years, leading by example and guiding with a generous spirit. Her remarkable network of friends in New Orleans and California is a testament to her power to connect, nurture and care for others. Ashley will be remembered for her radiant smile, her infectious laughter, her quick wit, her keen intelligence, and for the innumerable lives she touched personally and professionally. The family is grateful to Alofa Smothers and Virginia Havea for their tender care and compassion. A private Mass will be held in Pleasant Hill, California on Wednesday, September 30, 2020. A memorial visitation will be held Saturday, October 3, 2020, from 9:30 a.m. until 11:30 a.m. at Holy Name of Jesus Church in New Orleans. A private Mass will follow at noon, to conclude with a private inurnment at Metairie Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Ashley Denechaud Capra Memorial Fund at the Academy of the Sacred Heart in New Orleans, 4521 St. Charles Avenue, New Orleans, Louisiana 70115, or the charity of your choice. The family invites you to share your thoughts, fond memories, and condolences online at www.lakelawnmetairie.com.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Sep. 26 to Oct. 3, 2020.

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Paula Caldwell and Daniel St-Onge

September 21, 2021

A year has gone by .... always to be remembered.

Lisette Silva & Hadrian Rivera

September 20, 2021

It's unbelievable that a year has gone by. Ashley's light still shines so strong. We love you, Ash!

Jennifer Johnson Molina

September 19, 2021

Oh, Ashley, how we miss you and your big, beautiful laugh!

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Marian Wallis

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Paula St Onge

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Jeremy Marks

October 2, 2020

Lots of love and prayers to Ashley and her family during this time. I didn't know Ashley well, but got to hear about her a bit when I was Aidan's teacher in high school. He reflected so thoughtfully and lovingly about her faith journey and her struggle with cancer. Blessings to all of you in the journey ahead.

Lisette Silva, Hadrian, Santos & Paolo Rivera

October 2, 2020

Ashley - your smile shines as bright as ever among the stars now. We feel lucky to have known you and will miss you.

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Randolph Wrighton

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Alofa Smothers

October 1, 2020

We love you so much Ashley. You will always be in our hearts. #TeamAsh

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Alofa Vaioleti

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Jennifer Johnson Molina

September 30, 2020

Reading and hearing about Ashley's journey over the past two years has brought me to uncontrollable sobbing several times. Hers is a spirit so strong and memorable. It is hard to think of her without seeing her smile and hearing her laugh in my mind's eye. I just could not fathom the carefree joy of those images with the tragedy of losing her among us here on Earth, and every time I read her Caring Bridge posts, her love for Daniel and Aidan would just burn through the virtual pages. Her wit, authenticity, honest vulnerability and courage had me laughing and crying simultaneously, and always, always, always wishing that I could just wrap my arms around her and hug her tight. Rest in peace, my dear Ashley. Your absence here will be such a loss for our world, but I know that you will be second lining with us in Heaven, my friend. You could never miss a party. So much love and gratitude for you.

Judy Lynne Anderson

September 30, 2020

I am so very sorry to hear of this very sad news. Ashley was a lovely person and so very talented. May God give you all strength and comfort at this difficult time.
Judy L. Anderson
New Orleans, La

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Jennifer Schroeder-jelich

September 28, 2020

Her smile and charisma to work and have a good time while doing it was contagious. She will
Be dearly missed.

Kaelin Martin

September 28, 2020

I didn’t know Ashley, but what I do know is the enormous impact she had on those she loved and who loved her. My aunts, Marguerite and Amy, have told me countless stories about Wonder Woman herself, and from those stories I see the beautiful beam of light that Ashley was. I am so sorry for her loss. Sending lots of love to Ashley’s family and friends.

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Memorial Events
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Sep

30

Funeral Mass

Pleasant Hill, CA 70124

Oct

3

Visitation

9:30 a.m. - 11:30 a.m.

Holy Name of Jesus Church

New Orleans, LA 70124

Oct

3

Funeral Mass

12:00 p.m.

Holy Name of Jesus Church

New Orleans, LA 70124

Oct

3

Interment

Metairie Cemetery

LA 70124

Funeral services provided by:

Lake Lawn Metairie Funeral Home & Cemeteries

5100 Pontchartrain Blvd., New Orleans, LA 70124

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