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for Benjamin Ribando
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Russell Brands
May 25, 2025
I had a dream about you a couple nights ago. We were at MawMaw & PawPaw´s waiting for everyone to come over. Suddenly, a limo pulled up with your dad, George & the other boy cousins all dressed in suits. We went inside & here you come right behind them. It felt so real, my boy!
You looked just like you did at my wedding. I hugged you so tight. I kissed the top of your head & I could swear that we were really there. I was so happy to see your face. I miss you buddy
manuella
October 22, 2024
Hi Ben! It´s your little sis. I am thinking about you lot today. I wish you could be here to meet your beautiful niece and see me graduate high school but I know you are watching everything from above. One day we will meet and whenever that day comes I am gonna give you the tightest hug. Love you
Manuella
July 19, 2012
Happy 20th Birthday Ben.
Thinking of you always makes me smile I miss you so much.
Love,
Aunt Kathy
Tina Inzinna Martello
July 19, 2011
Happy birthday, Ben. You are a special angel in Heaven missed by so many
Uncle Lance
July 19, 2011
Happy Birthday Ben!!!! You know every time I'm with your family, it always feels like you're around!!! It still seems like it was just yesterday when you shot me with that rubber bb gun!!! Wondering if you will try any tricks today?? May God continue to give your family courage and strength. Luv Uncle Lance.
July 19, 2011
Ben there isn't a day that goes by that you don't cross my mind I love and miss you so much. I know you are up there looking down on us and watching over us thank you. Love big russ
Julie Ribando
July 19, 2011
Happy Birthday Sunshine! We miss you more than you could ever imagine. Your memory is with us EVERY SINGLE day! Thank you Uncle Lance for this beautiful gift!
July 19, 2010
Happy Birthday Ben. We miss you so much.
Love You Forever and Ever~Mrs. Julie
Uncle Lance
July 19, 2010
Happy Birthday Ben...
May 30, 2010
Ben,
This has really been a hard week for me. My Daddy passed away Monday, May 24th. We buried him on May 26th. It made me think of you alot. It has been 5 years now that you have been in Heaven. I need you to pull a few pranks on my Daddy and tell him they are from me. You will always be the best prankster of all times especially when you add that famous giggle of yours to it. I miss you and think of you often. I will be glad when the day comes when we will all be together again. Until then give my Daddy a hug everyday from me. Then tell him to give one back to you from me.
Always in my heart, love you very much.
Ms. Connie
Uncle Lance
May 28, 2010
Ben, you are probably missed more today than any other. I saw Manuella today and she talked to your picture. One day she will be able to understand where you are. I don't know that we will ever be able to explain to her what she has really missed. PS: Sparkle tried to bite me! Now I know you are laughing.
Julie Ribando
May 20, 2010
Beautifully said, Uncle Lance.
Uncle Lance
May 19, 2010
Ben, I can only imagine what kind of trouble you would have gotten in this week!!!!! I know your family is sad that you're not here, but they are happy in their memories of you. You are alway missed , especially at a time like this when the days would belong to you! May God continue to give your family courage and strength.
Julie Ribando
May 18, 2010
I'm filled with sorrow around all the graduation activities and the 5th year anniversary of your death. Miss you everyday Sweet Angel! Love You!
December 28, 2009
Ben,
Even though another Christmas has passed it still isn't any easier or the same with out you. What brings me peace is knowing all the beauty and joy that is surrounding you in Heaven. God has brought me comfort in some strange but wonderful ways through giving me simple reminders everyday of you and the happiness you brought all of us. I love and miss you tremendously, tell everybody hello. I look forward to seeing you again. MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Love,
Mom, Mr. Craig, Russell & Little Bit
Julie Ribando
July 22, 2009
I wish you were here!
Uncle Lance
July 19, 2009
Hey Ben, Happy Birhday! I can only imagine what kind of party you would have had this weekend. You are always truly missed and deeply loved. May God continue to give your family courage and strength.
Molly Simmons
July 19, 2009
Happy 17th Birthday Ben. I sit and wonder just what you would have done on this day and how you would look. Other than a huge smile, I can just see my tall handsome young son enjoying his birthday while being surrounded by friends and family with Lance and Russell right by your side. I miss you tremendously but I know you are having a great birthday with Maw Maw Essie and Paw Paw Russell. Until I see you again enjoy your everlasting life surrounded by all of God's Glory. Happy Birthday!
Love,
Mom, Mr. Craig & Russell
Julie Ribando
May 28, 2009
I miss you so so much. Everyday something reminds me of you. Four years seems like one hundred since I've heard your voice or hugged you tight. Every time I think of you, it usually starts by remembering that awful day, but you always bring me to good and fun memories that make me smile. ALWAYS ALWAYS with me....Mrs. Julie
Kathy Sax
May 28, 2009
Four years have passed, alot has changed in that time but not how much we miss you. I love to talk about you and laugh about all the silly things you would do and say. You brought so much happiness to us just being around you. I used to love when you and Russell would come stay at my house for the weekend. Those are the memories I will keep in my heart forever. Love you and miss you, Aunt Kathy
Uncle Lance
May 28, 2009
Hey Ben, it's hard to believe that it's been four years now. I know this week will always be rough for your family. I know that their memories of you are what helps the get through it. I am with them often,and we talk of you often. But I know today is different because it's the day you left. I also know that you are always in their hearts. (mine too) I know everyone misses you, epecially today. May God continue to give your family courage and strength.
Uncle Lance
December 31, 2008
Hey Ben, another year has passed and it seems like only yesterday that your goofy self was here making everybody laugh. Time keeps passing,and yet everything seems to stay the same. Memories and rememberances of you are everywhere. Yes, I miss you, eventhough you shot me with that rubber BB gun and almost brought a tear to my eye.Remember you said "it won't hurt-much"? I'm sure your laughing about it again!!!! May God continue to give your family courage and strength.
Manuella Picarella
December 27, 2008
Ben,
I have missed you so much this past year. I went to one of Russell's pep ralley and couldn't help but wonder what silly outfit you would have worn. I prayed for your parents, Russ and Manuella so much these past days. I think no matter the time that passes this will always be the hardest for all of us but especially them. I miss you and love you.
MARLA SIMMONS
December 24, 2008
Ben,
I sit here on Christmas Eve and wonder what you are up to. I know that Christmas in Heaven must be a beautiful celebration. I think of all the times you would light up when opening your presents on Christmas morning and the excitement in your eyes. You and Russell are what brings me the most happiness and meaning to my life. I have been very sad without you and I surround myself with pictures and momentos of you. Little Bit stays in my lap most of the time, just as she is doing at this moment. I'm sure you are enjoying watching Mr. Craig and I interact with her. We love her as much as you do and she has brought us great comfort. I wish more than anything you were here with us, I miss you more than words could possibly express. Have a wonderful Christmas Ben and give everybody a big hug and kiss for us.
WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH,
MOM, MR. CRAIG, RUSSELL, BRENNAN AND TAYLOR
Julie Ribando
December 20, 2008
Thinking about you and missing you so much.
Love You-Mrs. Julie
Beverly Shultz
December 19, 2008
Happy Birthday Ben Love Ms Beverly and Mr Ernie Shultz
Regina Ribando
December 17, 2008
Hey Ben,
I know this is the first time that I have been able to write to you but I want you to know I miss you so much and think about you all the time. I know that you al ready know that this has happen but here I go.
As you know I am in Investigator at the DA’ a office and other day in court we were pickling a jury for trial and we have to introduce ourselves to the jury. So thinking nothing of it I said my name and continued working. When we broke for lunch and the jury left the court room a police officer asked me it I was Dr. Russell Ribando’s granddaughter and of course I said yes. He then asked if he could speak to me in the hall. So I follow him to the hall and when he turned to talk to me he was crying. As you know it doesn’t take much for me to cry so I start and ask whats wrong. The first thing out of his mouth was I found Ben. Well to say the least I was shocked. Me being me my reply was what do you mean. Then he explained to me how he was with JPSO recovery team. He said how they prayed so hard that when they found you, and you would be ok. He also explained that when they did find you they prayed with you and took the best care of you. It amazes me how even though you did not know this man you have touched his life in your own special way.
He told he that he thinks of you and your family often and prayers for you and your family all the time.
I was so happy to meet him and he was glad to meet one of your family members to. Every time I see him now we both just smile and I know I think of you and I sure he does to.
Ben I love you and miss you so much. Please tell everyone hello for me.
Love
Regina
marla ribando-simmons
September 29, 2008
Ben,
I am so proud of the way you touched lives with your great attitude toward others and that beautiful smile that lit up like Sunshine. I love you so much and can't wait to see you again.
LOVE, LOVE. LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!!!
Mom
Rebecca Schnadelbach
September 28, 2008
Hey Ben,
Even though we went to school together since pre-k I know we werent that close. But lately I couldnt help but think about you. In english class we were asked to write a paper about an important event or person that changed or inspired our life. I choose to write about you. You have inspired me to aspire my dreams. Whenever im down I let your sunshine cheer up my day! Some friends helped me peer edit and we all miss you and love you very much. Just thought I stop by to say hey! We love you :]
Love,
Rebecca
Uncle Lance
July 20, 2008
Hey Ben, spent the evening of your birthday with your Dad, Ms. Julie, Russell, and Manuella. They were doing very well. Of course we talked about you. But I'm sure you knew that. I can't begin to imagine how much they miss you. But I think of you often. Sometimes with a smile, and sometimes with a tear. I know that with the passing of this birhtday you would have been the terror of the streets in Hammond! May God continue to give your family courage and strenght. Love Uncle Lance
July 19, 2008
Happy Birthday Ben! We love you so much!
Marla Simmons
July 19, 2008
Happy Birthday Ben!
I know this was one of your birthdays you so look forward to because you would get to start driving. Paw Paw Bob would have found you that 1965 Mustang you wanted and I could just picture you and Lance riding around town flirting with the girls. I know in my heart that this 16th birthday is better than any birthday you could have been given by your family. I miss you tremendously and cry for you often, but I know in God's timing we will all be joined together again and that is what gives me peace in my heart. You are always on my mind, but today my thoughts will be of you celebrating this day surrounded by all of God's Glory.
WE LOVE YOU VERY, VERY MUCH!
Mom, Mr. Craig, Russell, Brennan, Taylor, your family and friends
Julie Ribando
May 28, 2008
We are constantly longing to see and hold you. We miss you everyday. Watch over us-we know you are near.
P.S. Manuella has your laugh (you know the one that is straight from the belly) and that little sparkle in her eye just like you had.
Tammy Savona
May 28, 2008
You are one of my Favorite Lil' Angels! I'm so blessed just for knowing you! Miss you much!
Kathy Sax
May 28, 2008
Hey Ben,
I just wanted to let you know I am thinking about you and wanted to tell you how much we all miss you. Three years have past and I often wonder what you would be doing, how many girlfriends you would have and what pranks you would be pulling, but I know you are doing GREAT up there in heaven. You will always be in my heart. I miss you so. Love, Aunt Kathy
Last day of school!
Marla Simmons
May 28, 2008
Ben it has been 3 years today and it still seems like yesterday when you were taken from us. I am so thankful God gave me 12 years with you. We shared so many memories together in the little time we had, but it was more than most people could wish for. I miss you tremendously and cry for you often, but when all is said and done, there is always a memory of you that can make me smile. I love you so much and look forward to seeing you again.
Mom
Marla Simmons
May 28, 2008
Ben it has been 3 years today and it still seems like yesterday when you were taken from us. I am so thankful God gave me 12 years with you. We shared so many memories together in the little time we had, but it was more than most people could wish for. I miss you tremendously and cry for you often, but when all is said and done, there is always a memory of you that can make me smile. I love you so much and look forward to seeing you again.
Mom
Uncle Lance
March 26, 2008
Hey Ben, no particular reason for this post. Just went to the BBB car was today and have been thinking about you ever since. Luv.
Connie Cutrer
November 26, 2007
This is a follow up on the test I took on 11/14/07 when the little prankster locked my keys up in my truck. I made an A on the test. He was there for me when I needed him the most. Thanks Ben. I knew you would help me through it. I also knew there would be a little joke thrown in also. Keep it up. I'll always treasure that night as well as every one of your many memories I have. I miss you and love you so much.
Mrs. Connie
Connie Cutrer
November 14, 2007
I had a very hard test to take on the book of Acts. I knew I needed an angel or two with me to help me out. I wore my grandmothers perfume and I looked in my closet for a shirt. The first one I touched was my BIG BAD BEN t-shirt from the benefit. I never wore the shirt because I didn't want anything to happen to it. I knew I had to wear the shirt that night. As I was leaving my house I looked down at Ben's smiling face. At that instance I knew something was going to happen. Ben being the little prankster he always was, I told him that I really needed his help on the test. After taking the test I was going to the vending machine to get a drink when I realized I didn't have my keys. They were locked up in the truck. I never lock my keys in the vehicle. So to let all of you know, Ben is still up to his little pranks. I looked down at my shirt and when I saw his smiling face I also heard that little famous giggle of his.
Ben I miss you very much. I will always keep your memories in my heart and I will laugh when I think of you.
Love ya,
Mrs. Connie (BIG MAMA)
Ponchatoula, LA
Manuella Picarella
July 21, 2007
Ben, we prayed for you, and your family on your birthday. There isn't one day that goes by that I don't think about you. You would have so much fun playing with my littles ones. I know you are watching over them. This year on your birthday we had a special gift that was sent to us and I think you may have helped it all surface. Thanks!! I think of you when I look into Benjamin Russell's eyes or even speak his name. Your picture looks back at our family everday in our livingroom. I miss you and love you. Kiss Paw Paw, and tell him I miss him.
Love,
Nanny, Emile, Gia, Emile III, and Benjamin Russell
Marla Simmons
July 20, 2007
Happy Birthday Ben,
Wow, what a way to celebrate your 15th birthday. I can see you dancing and singing with all God's angels and maw maw Essie, paw paw Jim and paw paw Russell laughing as they watch. You know some would say that you have missed out on so much here, but I know that all those things don't compare to the life you are living now. I can't wait to see you and have you show me around your new home. I also can't wait to dance and act silly with you like we always did. I miss you so much but I know you are in a GREAT place and you want for nothing. Till we meet again, I love you and think about you constantly.
Love Ya Lots & Lots,
Mom
Sax Family
July 19, 2007
Happy Birthday Ben,
We love and miss you so much.
Aunt Kathy, Uncle Jerry and Girls
P.S. Tell Paw Paw hi for us.
Russell Ribando
June 4, 2007
hey ben it russ just wanted to let u kno that i miss and love u sooo much
Uncle Lance
June 3, 2007
Two years have seemed to pass in a blink. You are still and always will be terribly missed by everyone. This past week was very hard for your family, but there was still some goofy stuff that happened-just as if you were here! I'm sure you were laughing! You will always live in our hearts. May God continue to give you r family courage and strenght.
Marla Ribando-Simmons
December 26, 2006
Merry Christmas Ben! My thoughts are that you and Maw Maw Essie are having a wonderful time singing praises and giving thanks to
God surrounded by all His Angels. Christmas is just not the same without you two and it's been very difficult to shop without thinking about you constantly. You always had such a love for the holiday season. Manuella and Russell gave your dad your jersey signed by Duece McAlister and the picture with you and him framed, needless to say he fell in love with it. The Big Bad Ben car wash seems to be doing good and everybody ask me about it daily, I had no idea so many people new you. Next month the 7th and 8th grade Holy Ghost classes will have the annual Ben's Basketball Battle, I'll be there to celebrate with lots of laughter and tears.
As Paw Paw Bob opened his wallet today, your picture was the first thing you could see, it took everything I had to contol my tears in the middle of the store we were in. Thank God for Little Bit who has truly been such a blessing to all of us, she is a constant reminder of the joy you brought all of us. I miss you more and more everyday and I know this year coming is going to be just as difficult as the last one. Please continue to watch over Russell and Lance, they miss you so much.
Lots of hugs, kisses & love,
Your mom
Uncle Lance
December 25, 2006
Hi Ben, it's Christmas Day and you and your family are im my thoughts more than usual. I'm sure you will find a way to let them know you are around. I will be out to visit you later today. May God continue to give your family courage and strength. Love, Uncle Lance.
Marla Ribando-Simmons
November 1, 2006
Ben,
More than a year has past and still constant reminders are everywhere as to the impressions you left on those who new you. There is not a day that goes by without some sort of conversation pertaining to you. I have several people approach me often to let me know you are visited frequently by them, their grandchildren and/or their children. I am so proud of you and the positive affect you had on many lives. My memories and photos are all I have of you at this moment and I feel very blessed to have the very best of them a mother could ask for.
I love you more and more everyday and look forward to being together again. You are my Sunshine now and forever.
I love you and Russell with all my heart,
Mom
Your Family
October 31, 2006
We miss you so much. You were always life of the party at Halloween. There isn't many moments when you are not in our thoughts-No matter what we are doing or where we're at, Your family is constantly thinking about you. I think that is your way of letting us know you are close. Your family will be remembering you in a most special way tomorrow for All Saints Day-We Love You So Much!
Uncle Lance
October 31, 2006
Hey Ben, today is one of those days when I just couldn't help thinking about you. I know halloween is one of the days where you were even more funny and more mischevious than ever. Manuella was really cute in her firefly costume, but I'm sure you already knew that. Love,
Mom
July 27, 2006
Ben,
There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about you constantly. Recently you where joined by Maw Maw Essie and I could only imagine the excitement between you two when you saw each other. I often cry and laugh when I am reminded of things you did, such as, wanting to dance in the kitchen while I am trying to cook or calling me to come play with you and your friends because you would say "it's not as much fun without you". I also, often think of your deep giggle and your big, beautiful brown eyes and how much I miss them.
I know that you are aware that we now have Little Bit living with us and she has brought so much joy to Mr. Craig and I, we just regret not having her when you were with us.
I am so looking forward to seeing you again and the eternal joy we will all share together. I know that you are enjoying all God's glory and I could just see you now singing praises with a little snap of your fingers and a little twinkle in your eyes.
We all love and miss you tremendously,
Mom, Mr. Craig, Russell, Lance & Little Bit
Brittany
July 24, 2006
We're still thinking about you cuz! I love and miss you terribly.
July 20, 2006
Wanted to let you know that we all miss you so much and it's just not the same without you.
Julie Ribando
July 19, 2006
Happy Birthday! We miss you so bad.
Love-Daddy, lil Russell, Manuella, & Ms. Julie
Tiff
July 17, 2006
ben..
i felt you today.
thanks for being there, protecting me and comforting me.
i miss you more than i could have ever imagined.
July 5, 2006
i really miss you.
May 20, 2006
"If tears could build a stairway to heaven i would walk up those stairs and see you"
a HGS friend
February 20, 2006
just wanted to say i miss you so much big bad ben...we all do! even though time has passed we still think about you everyday and we will forever MISS YOU and LOVE YOU!
**GONE FROM EARTH BUT NOT FROM OUR HEARTS**
Uncle Lance
February 14, 2006
Hey Big Bad Ben, thinking of you today. I'ts valentine's day and I know you would be chasing the girls all over. Orrrr.. Better yet, they would be chasing you! May God continue to give your family courage and strength.Love Uncle Lance. PS. Your new sister is beautiful, but I'm sure you already knew that.
Bobbie Federer
January 7, 2006
Hi, Julie and Russell
I just wanted to say congratulations on your beautiful baby girl!! Lance has a picture in his room that Julie gave him for Christmas. There is another picture in Lance's room of Ben and Lance the day that the Daily Star caught them playing on the four wheeler in the mud after the rain. Everytime I see the picture; I think of Ben and that great big smile of his. I know the holidays are hard; because I lost my step-daughter six years ago by the hands of a murderer. I still think she is away a LSU and will come in the front door any day. I can smile now when I think about her; hopefully things will also get better for all of you. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Bobbie Federer(Lance's Aunt)
Kathy
January 1, 2006
My prayers are with your family, especially during this New Year. I don't know you, but I am so sorry for your terrible loss. I saw Ben's pictures in the paper, I thought he was the most precious little boy. After reading these entries in the guestbook, I can see that he has alot of friends that love and miss him so much. I will continue to pray for your family and for all of the young people that have died in our community in the past year.
Alexis Mike Elise Mondebello
December 20, 2005
Mrs. Molly and Mr. Russell,
We are doing a Christmas play in school since we only have a half day. Today when we were about to perform our play the fire alarm went off. Then it stopped and we started the play over and it went off again. And we all started laughing because we knew it was Ben joking with us! The fire department came and they said there was no cause of it to keep going off. The funny thing is it only went off in the gym where we were and then it went off in the 8th grade building when we were there. We just know that was Big Bad Ben's way of just saying he misses us and he is still his crazy self! We hope you have a Merry Christmas and we love you!! MERRY CHRISTMAS BIG BAD BEN!!!!!!
Love Always,
Alexis Mike and Elise Mondebello
December 17, 2005
This year has been pretty hard without Ben. It's not the same not seeing him at school. We all miss him so much and his wonderful personality that only included everyone and never excluded. He was truly someone special that I know I will never ever forget. He is everyones angel now and we can all bet we will see him again! WE ALL LOVE AND MISS YOU BEN! MERRY CHIRSTMAS BIGBADBEN!
November 25, 2005
t o lil russell
I LOVE YOU and will always be here for you
November 6, 2005
molly, craig, lil russell, russell and julie,
eventhough a little time has passed i want you all to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. ben was such a great person and brought happiness to almost everyone that he meet.God bless you all with special blessings.I LOVE YOU
jane wickham
October 30, 2005
I think about Ben everytime i look at his picture that i have on my wall. i took care of Ben and Russell when they were at North oaks day care. We had many great afternoon at the park just having fun like little boys do. As they grew older we grew apart but i will never forgot the great times that we all had together. I know he is in a great place but everytime i think about little ben and his great big smile it brings tears to my eyes. But then i think of all the times we had at daycare. If i had time no matter what was going on I would take Ben Russell and someother kids to the park to play. I remember Ben always had so much energy. I wish we had stayed in touch better. Ben i love you.
Jane Wickham
Natalia Hernandez
August 22, 2005
Big Bad Ben,
I still dont believe this has happened! Everyone talks about what a wonderful person you were and I just wish I could have gotten to know you better! Even though I didnt know you that well I will always remember that big smile that i always saw passing through the halls and that enormous fro!! We all miss you so much, but I know youre in a happy place!
WE LOVE YOU BEN!
Natalia
alexis mike
August 20, 2005
I just wanted to say that on the last day of school last year Ben told one of my friends he was going to pull the fire alarm on the last day of 8th grade..Well sure enough at his wake the fire alarm went off! I know that was Ben's way of saying he's okay and he's still BiG BaD BeN. I miss him so much but I know he's okay and we will see him again.
God Bless Big Bad Ben!
Brittney DePaula
August 10, 2005
To the Family of Benjamin Ribando
I had a dream of Ben about week after his untimely death. Although I remembered him vaguely, in my dream he was so clear. I remember one summer, I went swimming with my sister Cindy DePaula, Molly, Ben and lil' Russell. It was at a house off of Hwy 51 in Natalbany. In my dream I was back there, and Ben was there too. We were both in the pool, and I looked at him and said "You know Ben everybody really misses you". He looked at me with those big eyes and he told me, "I know they do, but tell them that I am alright, I am with God now. I know that this may not be much, but I hope it helps a little. I truly believe that Ben is safe in God's arms, and he watches over everyone he loves and everyone that loves him everyday. Ben will always and forever be in everyone's hearts. I know he will forever be in mine.
To the family of this beautiful boy God Bless You All
Brittney DePaula
Alexis Mike
August 2, 2005
I'm just missing Big Bad Ben..
Heres a Poem I wrote the other day for him...
I remember you so well
Now its hard to tell
If your still here
I thought you’d always be near
When I think about you I cant
help but cry
And I sit there and wonder why
I think about that
beautiful smile
That seemed to make everything worth while
Now I can only see
you in my dreams
But I wish you were
still here with me
I know I will
see you again
Until then
I’ll be missing you
Big Bad Ben
Ryan Young
July 23, 2005
Dear Mr. Russell, Mrs. Molly, Lil Russell, Mrs. Julie & Mr. Craig,
I grew up with Ben, we were in kindergarten together. He was one of my best friends. Losing Ben in body was a tragic loss even though I know with out a doubt he is with us spiritally. I believe this not only because of what happened at his mass, but something else happened. When I went to visit Ben on his birthday, there was an ORANGE dragon fly that landed nearby. It hung around for a few minutes then flew away. I know in my heart that it was Ben's way of letting me know that he was alright. It was so AWESOME!!
This is a poem that I wrote for Ben. His time with us was short, but his love will live forever.
" A Short Time"
Our little hour,
how swift it flies,
how soon fleeting minutes die.
Leaving us a little while,
to dream our dream,
to pick the fruit,
to smell the flowers.
The gods do not give us long,
just our little hour.
How short it is.
Love to you, BIG BAD BEN!
Ryan Young
LANCE LAROCCA
July 19, 2005
Happy Birthday Ben. Everyone misses you. Love Uncle Lance.
Big Bad Ben and his big bad grin!
Julie Ribando
July 19, 2005
Happy Birthday Benjamin! I miss you so much. If you were here today, you'd have at lest 2 or 3 parties ahead of you-one at the electric shop, one at dads, and probably one at your mom's or maw maw Essie's. You'd eat enough cake for an army. You'd be surrounded by all that love you. Now, though your not here in body-you'll always be with us in spirit and we will celebrate that spirit forever.
I LOVE YOU-Ms. Julie
Uncle Willie
July 14, 2005
Just remembering Ben and that great smile.
July 5, 2005
To everyone who loves Ben Ribando: I ran across this letter that was given to a mother who lost her child. The mother expressed how much comfort it brought to her. I hope that it does the same for Ben's family and friends who love and miss him dearly.
A LETTER FROM HEAVEN
Since we parted, you have been sharing so much of me with those around you. Your memories are so fresh and real. You hold on to me so tightly in your heart . . . . where I shall always be. Your concern has always been for me and now my concern is for you.
You will never know all of the prayers that have been prayed for you, nor the tears that have been shed for your grief. This gives me comfort knowing you are not alone.
Please know that I am not alone, either. The death that hurt you the most has given me the gift of eternal life. God’s promises were fulfilled in me when I left you. God was there, waiting, just as He promised. I am surrounded by perfect love. Talk to God and let Him talk to you. Listen for Him in the voices of the people who love and care about you. Let His word reassure you that I am doing just fine.
It is comforting to know that you hold me so close while struggling to let me go. You need to know that we will always be together. Eternity is not “ out there,” eternity is now! I have simply moved a little farther ahead of you.
Remember that God never wastes anything . . . especially love. The love that we shared on earth will be even greater in Heaven! For now, you must rest assured that I am safe in God’s perfect love. I would like you to take some of the love you have for me and share it with those around you. You can never run out of love . . . the more you give away, the more you will have. Let others love you . . . you are worth loving . . . you are my loved ones!
Life is forever. My life was changed in the twinkling of an eye while yours is changing day-by-day and minute-by-minute. Though your life will never be the same, it does not mean that it cannot be filled with peace, joy and love.
Don’t be afraid of tomorrow . . . God is already there. Be patient with yourself, you will have good days and not-so-good days. You will even find yourself not thinking about me from time to time. That’s alright because all of my needs are being met. I want you to take care of you.
Hold onto the others you love, draw from them. Above all, be prepared to welcome others into your world of grief and mourning. You are being taught valuable lessons that will need to be passed along. Some will not have your strength, many will not have your faith, and most will feel they are all alone; but all will need the love and understanding only you will be able to give. Now, your pain is the only credential you need to minister to others.
When you think of me, never think of me as being alone. Think of me smiling, laughing and enjoying all that God has prepared for me.
Finally, do not focus on what you have lost, but look always at what you have. You are surrounded by people who love you and care about you. Live with them, love with them, share with them and laugh with them. Make every day a celebration of life . . . a life that will never end.
You loved me in a way that no one else could, and until we are together again . . . . . I LOVE YOU!
Alexis Mike
June 27, 2005
Dear Mrs. Molly, Mrs. Julie, Mr. Russel, and Russel,
I just wanted to let you know how sorry I am. Ben was so awesome and he had the best personality. I have been with him at HGS since kindergarten. I remember so many great things about Ben, how he made me laugh, the way he could make me smile, and his fro! I found some things from 6th grade and he wrote BIG BAD BEN all over all my notebooks. Im really going to miss Ben and all the memories. But I know hes an angel and I talk to him when I pray every night. I just want to thank you for letting me have such a great person in my life. I will never forget Ben and the way he could touch peoples lives, especially mine. My family and I are here for you whenever you need something. I'll miss Big Bad Ben.
Love always,
Alexis Mike
Carl R. Duplessis
June 25, 2005
Ben and I had some great times together. Every weekend when Ben and Russell would come to Marrero we would get somebody to bring us to my Maw Maw and Paw Paws so we could visit , but we would do a little visiting and a lot of playing . We would Play Football. Ben would always win but we would lie and say we won. We had some good memories at the camp, my house , his house , And at my paw-paw's. We would have fun for fathers day because we would have home made super slides . Us being CRAZY like we are we went to the store to get Ajax (note: it has bleach in it) your skin was pealing for a week. We didn't care what we did as long as we were all together. Ben we miss you so much , but we all know you are in heaven.
That was a good one you pulled off at the mass.
Paran, Aunt Julie, Aunt Molly ,Mr. Craig , and Little Russell III
Ya'll are in my prayers every day.
Love Ya'll
Carl R .Duplessis
Mallory Linn
June 21, 2005
big bad bens family,
I miss your son so much! i have so many funny memories of him! the class of 06 is gonna miss him so much next year!
"Meet You There"
Now you're gone,
I wonder why
You left me here,
I think about it on, and on,
and on, and on, and on, again.
I know you're never coming back,
I hope that you can hear me,
I'm waiting to hear from you..
Until i do,
You're gone away,
I'm left alone,
A part of me is gone,
And I'm not moving on,
So wait for me,
I know the day will come..
I'll meet you there,
No matter where life takes me to,
I'll meet you there,
And even if I need you here,
I'll meet you there.
I wish I could have told you,
The things I kept inside,
But now I guess its just too late.
So many things remind me of you,
I hope that you can hear me,
I miss you,
This is goodbye,
One last time..
You're gone away,
I'm left alone,
A part of me is gone,
And I'm not moving on,
So wait for me,
I know the day will come..
I'll meet you there,
No matter where life takes me to,
I'll meet you there,
And even if I need you here,
I'll meet you there,
No matter where life takes me to,
I'll meet you there,
And even if I need you here,
I'll meet you there.
I'll meet you there....
And where I go you'll be there with me,
Forever you'll be right here with me..
I'll meet you there,
No matter where life takes me to,
I'll meet you there,
And even if I need you here,
I'll meet you there,
No matter where life takes me..
I'll meet you there,
And even if I need you..
I'll meet you there...
I'll meet you there...
I'll meet you there..
Uncle Joe & Aunt Bena Ribando
June 19, 2005
Dear Russell,Julie,Molly,Craig & Lil Russell
We see your grief stricken eyes and it hurts us badly.We share your pain. We know your hearts are broken and our hearts break for you. We are going to miss seeing him on the four wheeler and stopping by to chat with us. Ben, our precious little nephew who we dearly love. We watched him grow up we are so saddened by his loss.We know he is with God now and has become our lil angel watching over us.Ben will not be forgotten. We will forever love him and miss him.We hope you know that we are here for you whenever needed, if only to talk,give hugs or hold your hand. We pray for you that God will give you the strength and courage to carry on and peace of mind.
Coon,Aunt Lynne,Rachel & Kristin Ribando
June 17, 2005
Dear Russell,Julie,Molly,Craig & Lil Russell
We will truly miss Ben and that beautiful smile. Your family will always be in our prayers. Our hearts break for you and your loss. Please know that we are always here for you anytime you may need us. We know that Ben is in God's loving hands and that he is our Angel. We pray that God will give you the strength to help heal your pain. We Love You.
To Lance K. You are also in our prayers. Love,
Uncle Lance
June 16, 2005
I would like everyone to know that this guestbook site for Ben is now permanent. Family, friends, and classmates are welcome to come here anytime in the future to express their thoughts, feelings, and prayers for Ben and his family. May God continue to give us hope and courage.
anonymous
June 15, 2005
Hi, I just wanted to say that my prayers are with you guys all the way, even though I did not know Ben all that well!!
Jessica and Ben
June 11, 2005
Russell and Julie, We will continue to pray that you will someday feel whole again. Losing Ben has left a hole in your heart and soul and you will forever miss him. I pray often that God provides strength for each of you daily. You are such wonderful caring people and it is very hard to think about the sadness that you are left to face. Please know that your family is thought of and prayed for often. I know that God has a plan in all of our lives and often times the plan is not clear; however, I pray that you find comfort that Ben is with God. Always remember your faith---- What a glorious and joyous day it will be the day that you are reunited with your son again! Love, Jessica and Ben
JoAnn Haney
June 11, 2005
Russell and Molly,
Our hearts break for both of you and your families. I can't even imagine the depths of your pain and your overwhelming loss. I know that there are many praying for Ben and I know he is safe in God's arms. I pray that you both find peace in his memories and know that the love between a parent and a child is one that will last through eternity.
God bless you and your families.
Love, Jo Ann, Danielle & Camille Haney
warren/ myrell bergeron
June 11, 2005
molly our granddaughter mallory and ben were classmates my family and myself have you in our prayers
Brittany Mire
June 9, 2005
I am Bens older cousin and Im devestated about his loss. I've grown up around Ben and lil Russell my whole life and would do anything in the world for those boys. My dad(Greg M.) and Uncle Russell have grown up together so therefore our familys are close. Ben(FBI) AKA: BIG BAD BEN was such a great kid. When someone was hurting, Ben was hurting, and he would do everything possible to cheer them up. His smile, who could forget that smile. It would light up a room whenever he walked in. Just his smile could cheer someone up, even if they were having the worst day of their life. We shared some GrEaT memories that I will never forget. Like whenever I would go to their house and they would go swimming and Ben and Russell would tell me to get in but I wouldnt because I had my clothes on...so they said if I didnt get in they were gonna push me in...sure enough they did. I was mad at them for a few minutes but c'mon who could be mad at Ben? Its a shame that he, somebody like Ben had such a short life, but his life was filled with nothing but peace, love and joy. He had no harm in his life and did no harm to others. Though its a hard thing to cope with, I know he is in a better place now, and that is what we have to be thankful for. Uncle Russell, Julie, and Lil Russell..Yall know that no matter what I love yall and I would do anything in the world for you guys..Yall have our number and know how to get in touch with us..and Im sure by now yall know that yall can come to us for AnYtHinG and EvErYtHinG. I love you guys. And I love you BENJAMIN ROBERT RIBANDO. RIP Buddy.
Brooke Jackson
June 8, 2005
to lil russell and family....
im so sorry about ben. i miss him so much and i cant even imagine what yall must be going through and i just want yall to know that if there is anything more at all that i can do, just let me know. i love spending time with russell and yall! i would be more than happy to do anything i can to make things easier on yall. and like i said, call me anytime at all if yall need me! yall know where you can find me. i love yall so much!....<3 your new favorite cousin! lol
Just a hgs friend! *
June 6, 2005
OUt of all the angels in heaven there is one (~special~) angel....ben! We all miss u and love u dearly
Alyssa Montgomery
June 6, 2005
Hello.
I was very shocked to hear the bad news about Ben. He was so kind and an awesome kid. I didnt know him that good, but I did know him from coming to your house over the years for your halloween parties and etc. with Jaden Mire ( i am her good friend). We would always go ride on his golfcart and would have a really good time, and the day Jaden and I went to the shop, Ben begged us to come and called us like 6 times at 7 in the morning telling us to hurry up. I miss him so much. I really wish this was all a dream, he didnt deserve this but we all know he is in a better place and looking down on us. Lil Russell if u ever need nething feel free to call me you have my cell number. You are all in my prayers, be strong and God Bless
Kristen Ahrend
June 6, 2005
I never thought I would be writting something like this. Ben was one of my best friends. I can remember playing dress up with him in day care when we were about 4. He always made me laugh. You could be having the worst day of your life and then Ben would walk by and smile at you and made you feel better. I will never forget the day we went to the halloween dance together as the rugrats. Ben was phil. He was a cute phil. Also that big phro he wore on wacky hair day. I miss him so much. i couldnt have asked for a better friend than Ben. We use to walk after school to lacaretta. Those days were awesome. I cant belive i wont be able to do it anymore. The day i herd the news i was devestaed. I thought this cant even be real. I know with all my heart he is still here with us. At his funeral the alarm went off in the middle of mass. I knew that was Ben. I ask that everyone who reads this that they pray for the Ribando's. Mrs. Molly,Mr. Craig, Mr. Russell, Mrs. Julie, and Little Russell I am here for you any time you need me. My thoughts and prays are with you. I love you!
IN MEMORY OF BIG BAD BEN
JULY 19,1992- MAY 28,2005
YOU ARE ALWAYS WITH US!
Brandon Taravella
June 6, 2005
Ribando family,
I would like to offer my condolences for your loss. Please know that I along with my family are praying for all of you guys. I ask God to give you strength to cope with this tragedy. Someone once told me..."You never get over it, you just learn to live with it." It has proved to be the truth, and I pass this on to you. Although it is tough, try to keep your head up.
Victor & Dena Aguilar
June 6, 2005
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Ribando family and Ben's friends and classmates. We did not know Ben personally but we feel like we knew him from the pictures at Ribando's Electrical and the beautiful rememberences in this guestbook. May God keep him safe within His arms.
Katie Campbell
June 6, 2005
Dear Russel and Big Bad Ben,
Russel i am so sorry for you lost and i know that Ben is in heaven now and just lookin down on us!! I know how much stuff ya'll did together! i know that all of us will miss him!!! The Holy GHost CLass of 06 is incomplete with the funny, nice, loving, and always there to talk to BEn!! Russel i know that your family is going through alot. if you ever need to talk or hang out you can call me any time day or night!! I know i will always miss that sweet funny goofing afro kid on wakey hair day! I know that the class of 06 will be very odd with out him there!! I miss ben with all of my heart. i know he is miss fairly much by all of his friends and family. i just wish before he died that we all got to say our good bye but that did not come true did it! i miss ben with all of my heart and Russel if you ever need me I am always here for you. Love always Katie
Joseph S.& GeorgiaT. Canale
June 6, 2005
Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.The lost of a child is the worse lost one could imagine,our hearts brake for your family and friends.Just know that your beautiful child is with the Angels in Heaven at peace. God Bless You.
Manuella Brands-Picarella
June 5, 2005
I am Ben's older cousin from the Ribando family. I also had the privledge of being his Nanny. We all have fond memories of Ben being Ben. See Ben had a cowlick on the top,front of his hairline. For the longest time, Ben wasn't crazy about his hair. Then along came the new hairstyle of poking up your hair in the front. Ben's hair was perfect for that new hairstyle. He also loved to get highlights for the summer when he finished school. For being 12, Ben already had his sense of style established. I will always remember him singing rap music and lil' Russ wanting to listen to country music. The four boys riding in the car with my husband and I and them asking if they could curse. Like we all have done, and of course we gave them permission. They could only say certain words, and they all made sure we wouldn't tell their parents. See there are 16 of us grandchildren and one on the way and no matter the age we are all close. Ben will be missed physically when we are all together, but he is not gone. Now he is with each of us always. He will guide us to do right, and protect us from harm. See now he is the bossy older cousin. And I know he is loving that. Ben, there will never be another who gives hugs like you, or says "Nanny" with a Hammond twang like you. Paran, Julie, Molly and Greg, Ben will live on and he will help us all get through this. I LOVE ALL OF YOU.
Amber Leon
June 5, 2005
I am really going to miss BIG BAD BEN.He was so cool to be around.The ribando family is in my prayers. I miss u very much.
R.I.P BEN Ribando
Susanne Rabito-Sauvage
June 5, 2005
The Entire Ribando Family
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Ribando family,I can't imagine what you are going through, just know that you will have prayers from many friends of the Ribando family.
Gayle Roach
June 3, 2005
Molly, I only heard today 6/3/05 about your Ben. I could not think of anything but you this entire day, as I remembered all the times we talked at work about your boys, wondering how you will climb this mountain. As a Mother, I want to reach out, but don't know how. I pray with all my heart that you will let God take you by the hand and lead you through the fog until you can walk again on your own. I love you. Gayle Roach
ROSE CAMPISO
June 3, 2005
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THE ENTIRE RIBANDO FAMILY.WE PRAY THAT GOD WILL GIVE YOU STRENGTH TO CARRY ON,WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS OF BEN.
THE CAMPISO FAMILY
Annette Schiro - Faucheux
June 3, 2005
I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to both famalies. I cannot begin to imagine your pain but I pray for God to help you through this painful time in your life.
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