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Irene Elizabeth Laff obituary, Slidell, LA

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Irene Laff Obituary

Irene Elizabeth Styrcula Laff, of Slidell, LA, passed away peacefully on October 06, 2021, at the age of 82, after a long battle with cancer. She was preceded in death by her husband, Stanley Laff, Sr; her long-time companion, Edward Graefen; her beloved parents, Stella and Joseph Styrcula; and her brother, Richard Styrcula. Irene is survived by her daughter, Elizabeth V. Wojciak Messa; her son, Stanley J. Laff (Nycole); her granddaughter, Victoria A. Dombrowski Stelfox; grandson, Seth Laff; and great granddaughter, Allyse M. Stelfox; a niece and nephews. She was a native of Chicago, Illinois and a longtime resident of Slidell, Louisiana. During her time in Slidell, LA, she would donate her time and supplies to animal rescues. She had a deep love for her "puppies and kitties" and helping all animals that needed it. Irene will be remembered as the "glue that kept the family together", feisty, opinionated, loving, and caring. Most of all her family and friends will remember her love for life. She was one who always wanted to be outside and had a "green thumb". She loved planting and tending to her many gardens. She was known for her amazing Polish cooking, teaching the Polish language, Polka music, contagious laugh, and her love for cursing (one of her many funny quirks). Irene could light up the room with her quirky, loud personality and would always be there if you needed help. One thing will always hold true, the love for her family and making sure their needs were met, even in death. While she loved talking to people and didn't know a stranger there would be times, she wanted her grounding space. As she used to say, "No news, is good news". She was the type of person you could talk to for hours and she would listen, giving advice when prompted (usually not what you wanted to hear). While she has left the living world, she will always be in the hearts and minds of her family and friends. Relatives and friends of the family are invited to attend the Funeral Service at Honaker Funeral Home, 1751 Gause Blvd. West (In Forest Lawn Cemetery), Slidell, LA on Tuesday, October 12, 2021 at 2:00pm. Interment will follow in Forest Lawn Cemetery. Visitation on Tuesday after 12:00pm until funeral time. Please visit www.honakerforestlawn.com to sign guestbook. Arrangements by Honaker Funeral Home, Inc., Slidell, LA.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Oct. 8 to Oct. 12, 2021.

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Margaret Graefen

October 12, 2021

Today we say goodbye to a wonderful lady. Irene Laff, Grandma Irene.

Words can not describe the loss we feel. Oh, how we wish we could have more time. A truly beautiful person, so kind and gentle.

One word that would describe Irene Laff would be love. She had a heart bigger and giving more than most. When she welcomed you into her arms she welcomed you into her family. She brought sunshine, laughter, and a light into your world.

Irene was someone that bustled around the table, made sure you had everything you needed, fill the room with her stories, and most importantly her laughter. As much as she welcomed family and strangers into her home and to her table I know she is welcomed into heaven wholeheartedly.

You will be greatly missed.
Prayers to her family, and friends.
Much love,
David and Margaret Graefen and family

Irene on her wedding day

Kathleen Styrcula

October 11, 2021

From the Styrcula archive of Richard Styrcula who I believe took this photo.
My godmother Irene was always there for me. If you were coming into town it was required you stay with her, even this year! She taught me family matters even if it's not comfortable.
I could only hope that I gave her as much as she gave me. Go in peace Aunt Irene. You are in my heart forever.

Irene at her High School graduation

Kathleen Styrcula

October 11, 2021

From the Styrcula Archive her brother maintained.

Little Irene with her Mom Stella and Dad Joseph.

Kathleen Styrcula

October 11, 2021

Family photo from Styrcula Archive

Little Irene with her brother Richard.

Kathleen Styrcula

October 11, 2021

It's so hard to know what she was like as a child, but I know my godmother Irene was a loving woman who would give her family everything she could to help them.

Barry Dombrowski

October 11, 2021

You will always be in my heart and part of my life.

This is us!

Victoria Stelfox

October 10, 2021

Grandma, I think I covered everything there was to say with keeping it PC. We love you so much and wish you were here just for one more day. I'll never forget the last Sunday we spent together and the kisses we blew to each other before I left. Not the mention the constant "I love you" exchange, which is not us. Til we see you again....No news is good news.
Love always,
Your granddaughter ❤❤

john Mitchell

October 9, 2021

Beth, My deepest sympathies to your entire family for your loss. Celebrate Irene's life and your loving memories. Your friends at APTIM are here for you and we look forward to your return when you are ready.

Sheri Dindial

October 9, 2021

Deepest condolence to her family, friends and all her acquaintances, she is truly a huge loss to all her loved ones and all her love she gave to her beloved cats and dogs. May the good Lord give her peace and comfort in the hereafter, RIP
From Sheri Dindial

Susan Waldamn

October 9, 2021

Irene was just a great neighbor, great friend and my mother’s friend. Always had a smile and that great Polish wisdom

Victoria Moore

October 8, 2021

So sorry for your loss my friend

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