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Jerry Graves

1955 - 2023

Jerry Graves obituary, 1955-2023, Slidell, LA

BORN

1955

DIED

2023

Jerry Graves Obituary

On Monday, June 5, 2023, Jerry Graves departed this life after a brief illness at the young of 68 years. He was born February 2, 1955, the third child of VL and Bessie Mae McLaurin Graves. Born in Picayune, MS, and raised in Pearl River, La. Jerry graduated from Slidell High School in 1973 and Southern University in 1976. He was employed by Lockheed Martin for 33 years. He continued working for an additional 10 years for Diversified Foods and Seasoning. Jerry met the love of his life, Sharon Dumas Graves, they were married on November 15, 1997. Proud PawPaw to Brianna and Tristan Diaz, and Evan Costlow. He was preceded in death by his parents, VL and Bessie Mae McLaurin Graves, and nephew Demilo Graves. He leaves to cherish his memory his wife of 25 years, Sharon Dumas Graves: Stepchildren Brian and Carroll Diaz, Grandchildren Brianna and Tristan Diaz, all of La. and Evan Costlow of Frisco, TX. Siblings Larry (Doris) of Baytown, TX: Barbara Graves-Brown (Dennis) and Debra Graves of Houston, TX; Frankie (Patricia) of Cypress, TX and Ricky (Rhea) of Pear River, La. and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, relatives, and friends.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Jun. 15 to Jun. 16, 2023.

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Agatha Ambo

June 18, 2023

My deepest sympathy to the family. Since we left PRHS we crossed each other's paths three times to my remembrance but God willing we will see each other again.Rest well MY friend.

Agatha Lisa Javery-Ambo

Debbie Tillison Taylor

June 17, 2023

To the Graves Family, I grew up around the corner from their family. Jerry was one of the older children of the family. I hope that your family finds comfort in knowing that God will be your husband, brother, friend or whatever it is you need. Look to the hills where all our help comes from.

Duane & Cammie Reese

June 17, 2023

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Audrine Loftin

June 16, 2023

Sending my deepest sympathy to the family at this most difficult time.

Iris Riley Davis

June 16, 2023

I mourn with Sharon and family. Remember that Jerry will always remain in our hearts. God bless you and family.

Elaine Davis

June 15, 2023

Jerry was more than a tax client to us. We met over 30 plus year ago through David and my sister Betty who worked for Martin Marietta. He always kept me on my toes with making sure my skill set covered ever legal tax advantage he could get. We always look forward to seeing he and Sharon during that time, knowing we were about to be tested. Jerry's smile and ability to talk with tenacity even in the hardest situations was amazing. Thanks for the laughter and challenge my friend. Ms. Sharon and family I pray that God's Holy Spirit will sustain you during this time. And the peace of God which surpasses all understanding shall guard your hearts and minds, through Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:7. RIH by friend.

Leo Washington

June 15, 2023

To: Sharon and the rest of the Graves family,

I was deeply saddened when I heard about Jerry’s passing. Jerry and I met at Southern in the Art Department. We shared many good times there. Our talents were such that we often assisted teachers in some of the classes. I’ll always remember the laughter as we were the life of the Art Department. As the years evolved I was the best man in his wedding, and his life took on a more serious tone. Sharon, may the peace of our Lord which surpasses all understanding give you comfort and strength during this difficult time.
Leo Washington

Lydia Collins

June 14, 2023

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Collins Family Slidell, La

Florel Harrison

June 14, 2023

Deepest sympathy to the family of your loved one! Hold on to the memories and always hold him dear to your heart! May God grant you peace and comfort in the hours of great sorrow!
PRAYERFULLY with a SYMPATHETIC HEART

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