Search by Name

Search by Name

Mary Custer Obituary

CUSTER NATCHEZ- Funeral services for Mary Quitman Custer, 36, of New Orleans, who died Sunday, October 26, 2008, at her residence, will be 11 a.m., Friday, October 31, 2008, from Episcopal Church of the Good Shepherd in Vidalia, La., with Rev. Jim Benbrook officiating. Burial will follow at Natchez City Cemetery under the direction of Laird Funeral Home. Visitation will be 10 a.m. until the time of service, Friday, at the church. Miss Custer was born April 4, 1972, in Memphis, Tenn., the daughter of Charles Joseph Custer and Mary Pat Coley Custer. She attended The Hutchinson School in Memphis, Tenn., and graduated from the Charles Darwin School in the United Kingdom. She was elected to "Who's Who" in American Schools and was a graduate of S.W. Community College in Memphis. Mary was widely traveled throughout Europe, residing in Italy, the Canary Islands, and the United Kingdom for a period of time. She was employed with Cosse & Cosse Law Firm of New Orleans. Miss Custer is preceded in death by her paternal grandparents, Charles J. Custer, III and Laura Green Lott Custer; maternal grandfather Thomas "Pat" Quitman Coley. Survivors include her father and step mother, Charles Joseph Custer, IV and Judith R. Custer of New Orleans; mother, Mary Pat Coley Custer of Germantown, Tenn.; maternal grandmother, Macie Hamblin Coley of Tupelo; two sisters, Amanda Custer Albert of New Orleans, Cynthia Custer Gangwish of Olive Branch, Miss; two aunts, Ellen Custer Huey of Monroe, Elizabeth Vance Custer of Natchez; three cousins, Edna West Block of Huntsville, Ala., Walter Dawkins of Birmingham, Laura Dawkins of Nashville. Pallbearers will be Todd Gangwish, Richard Albert, Markley Huey, Walter Dawkins, Dick Wall and C. G. Melville. Honorary pallbearers will be Dr. Walter Dawkins, Bernard Wood, Donnie Richie, Ben Hennington, Joey Lunetto, Jimmy Hamblin and Bill Peale. In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorials be made to The Episcopal Church of the Good Shepherd, 806 Concordia Avenue, Vidalia, La. 71373 or the Louisiana SPCA, 1700 Mardi Gras Blvd., New Orleans, La. 70114. On line condolences may be sent to www.lairdfh.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Times-Picayune on Oct. 30, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Mary Custer

Not sure what to say?





Heather Barnett Edgren

November 27, 2008

My Dear Cousins and Family,
I am at a loss for words over the loss of Mary. My heart breaks for you. As I have read what others have written here, I hope you can take comfort in what a beautiful and loved person your daughter, sister, niece and granddaughter was. Hold those special memories close to your heart. Celebrate her life every moment you can.

George R. Smith II

November 22, 2008

I am saddened, very saddened to hear of this turn of events. Mary was so special to me. I would like to extend my thoughts, and most sincere condolences to her family.

Ed Greenlee

November 6, 2008

I am still in shock at the loss of Mary. All of her former co-workers at LIDAB have fond memories of her. From the moment she met anyone she was loved. Such a wonderful person.

Barbara Huffman

November 5, 2008

Mary Pat and the entire Custer family, Words are so inadequate at a time like this. It has been a long time since I saw Mary but I remember fondly the good times that we had and what an upbeat person she was. Mary Pat, I hope that you and your family can find some comfort in the sympathy we all feel for your loss of Mary.

david saling

November 5, 2008

you were such a beutiful person i will always remember you has a loving humanatarian with a face like a porcelin doll and a heart of gold you will remain in my heart forever we will all miss you

leslie greenlee

November 3, 2008

So very sorry to hear of Mary's death. I didn't know her well but enjoyed talking to her when I was visiting and calling LIDAP.

Karen Rockett McFadden

November 3, 2008

Though it has been years since we last saw each other, our classmate years at Hutchison were memorable and influential. My thoughts and prayers are with the Custers. I am so sorry for the great loss.

Desiree Petitbon

November 1, 2008

I am so saddened to hear of your terrible loss - and so sorry I was not there to support you at her service. I have such wonderful memories of Mary and Amanda and all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Much love.

Lara Atchley

October 30, 2008

I am saddened by the news of your loss. I wish the entire family my best during this time of sorrow.

annie thibodeaux

October 30, 2008

We are sadden by your tragic loss. Mary was very sweet, and although we did not know her well, she was very welcoming to us when we moved in across the street. She will be missed by all in the neighborhood.
Our thoughts are with you all.
Annie and Paul Thibodeaux

Lynn and Karen Nash

October 30, 2008

Our hearts go out to Mary's family. You're in our thoughts and prayers.

Patti Chambers and Abner Smith

October 30, 2008

Mary was a delight to know--we will always remember her beautiful smile and how she lit up the room with her sweet personality. Our deepest sympathies to the entire family.

Elizabeth B. Carpenter

October 30, 2008

I am deeply sorry for your loss. Mary was one of the most happy-go-lucky, thoughtful and generous persons I have ever met. Her passing feels so tragic because I know there is so much good she could have continued to bring this world. Please know that you are in my thought during this time of grief. I am grateful for the good times I had with Mary.

Mollie Moudden

October 30, 2008

Dear Custer Family,

On behalf of my entire family, I want to express our deepest condolences. We are all very sad to learn this news. Mary was a vibrant and unique woman. We are thinking of you and send you our support during this very difficult time.
With sympathy,
Mollie & Tarik Moudden

Jan Klein

October 30, 2008

Thinking of you at this difficult time.

Showing 1 - 15 of 15 results

Make a Donation
in Mary Custer's name

Memorial Events
for Mary Custer

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Mary's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Mary Custer's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more