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Patrick Richard Abide

1962 - 2019

Patrick Richard Abide obituary, 1962-2019, New Orleans, LA

BORN

1962

DIED

2019

FUNERAL HOME

Jacob Schoen & Son Funeral Home

3827 Canal Street

New Orleans, Louisiana

Patrick Abide Obituary

Patrick Richard Abide of New Orleans, beloved son, brother, and uncle went to be with the Lord on Wednesday, May 22, 2019 after suffering a sudden heart attack. Patrick was born December 18, 1962 in New Orleans, Louisiana, son of Ellis Richard Abide and Margaret Stringer Abide. He was the ninth of ten children. Patrick attended St. Pius X Elementary School, St. Paul's High School, Ecole Classique, and Louisiana State University. After attending college, he went on to work in the family business of Kelley and Abide Company as well as Louisiana Garment. Patrick's life was brief but was filled with love and laughter. He loved spending time with family and friends as well as his pets which brought him great joy. Patrick took pleasure in hunting, fishing, golfing, and numerous outdoor activities. He had a golden heart for both people and animals. Patrick had a great sense of humor and loved to laugh and reminisce. And who could forget his contagious smile! He was often referred to as "Hollywood Handsome." Death leaves a heartache and love leaves a memory. We are so thankful for all the great and many memories with Patrick that we will treasure all of our lives. He will always be loved and in our hearts until we are all joined together again. Patrick will always be our #9. Patrick is survived by his siblings, Richard Ernest Abide (Anna), Cynthia Abide Edgett (Billy), Mary Abide Richardson (Tague), Kelle Ann Abide, Ellis Richard Abide Jr., Michael Richard Abide, Keith Richard Abide (Deanne), Marsha Abide Rabito (Carl), Gregory Richard Abide (Ginger), his cousin Raphael Benitez, and many other cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends. May Patrick's soul rest in ETERNAL PEACE! Family and friends are invited to attend a Funeral Mass on Thursday, May 30, 2019 at 12:15 PM in the J. Garic Schoen Chapel of JACOB SCHOEN & SON FUNERAL HOME, 3827 Canal Street, New Orleans, LA 70119. Visitation will be held from 10:00 AM to 12:15 PM. Interment will follow in Greenwood Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. www.stjude.org. To view and sign the guest book, visit www.schoenfh.com.

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Published by The New Orleans Advocate from May 28 to May 30, 2019.

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Terry Ermon Crosby Tully

May 22, 2023

Everytime I think of us I laugh! We had such many memories and such a great group of friends. We were never ending doing things from parties, horseback riding, baseball, fishing, boating, crawfish boils, Florida wrecking in the sand dunes and I ran to wake you up and you could barely talk and you said to me, "it´s no big deal" lol! swimming! Etc... As Cher would say " IF I COULD TURN BACK TIME"!

Ellis Abide

October 15, 2019

I miss my Brother everyday.

Butch Jones

May 30, 2019

Pat was such a kind man. Always willing to offer nice words of advice on life. A class act that will be missed by many.

Frank Tranchina

May 30, 2019

Sorry for everyone's loss. He was an old friend who I haven't seen in a while. I played my first game of golf with him and he was teaching me how to play. I am going to miss him.

ASHTON MUNSON

May 29, 2019

Sorry to hear of Patrick's passing. Knew him well and was always a gentleman. Taking to soon RIP my brother and thanks for all the memory's working at K&A. You will be missed

Charmaine Thionville

May 29, 2019

My sympathy and prayers for all the family.
Patrick was such a great guy! He won't be forgotten.
Love, Charmaine Thionville
And all the Morel Family

Terry Tully

May 29, 2019

Pat you will never be forgotten all the fun times and laughs we have all shared from baseball teams, snow skiing, fishing, me driving the gulf cart at the club with you and Stephen, fishing, boating just so many! Your memories will never be forgotten! ❤
RIP Love you! ❤

Terry Tully

May 29, 2019

Your life lives on through all of our fun times together from horse back riding, Florida trips in our much younger years, Lakefront, skiing, parties and so many laughs!!! God bless your soul!! Love you!
❤ RIP

Stephen Crosby

May 28, 2019

Your friendship will truly be missed but never forgotten. I'll never forget the fun times we spent fishing, hunting, and playing golf. Your wisdom and guidance will never be forgotten! Love You and Rest In Peace Patrick!

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May

30

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 12:15 p.m.

Jacob Schoen & Son Funeral Home

3827 Canal Street, New Orleans, LA 70119

May

30

Funeral Mass

12:15 p.m.

Jacob Schoen & Son Funeral Home

3827 Canal Street, New Orleans, LA 70119

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3827 Canal Street, New Orleans, LA 70119

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