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Patrick M. "Dr. Pat" Adema

Patrick M. "Dr. Pat" Adema obituary

Patrick Adema Obituary

Following a ten year battle of a neuro-degenerative disease, Patrick M. Adema, "Dr. Pat", recently passed away in Naples. Florida. He was a lifelong resident of New Orleans and Mandeville, Louisiana. Survived by his wife of 43 years, Carolyn (Rubino) Adema, Sons Nicholas J. Adema (Ashley) of San Diego, Christopher L. Adema (Chiara) of Houston, and Zachary P. Adema (Michelle) of Mandeville. Granddaughters Blake Adema, Reese Adema, Margot Adema and siblings Krista Adema Roeling of New Orleans, Beth Adema Cury (Steven) of San Diego, Rodi W. Adema (Maureen) of Boston, plus many nieces, nephews and cousins. Pat will be remembered as a loving father and grandfather. A great listener and always the voice of reason. Pat attended Louisiana Tech University and graduated from the College of Optometry, University of Houston in 1981. A dedicated Optometrist for 40 years with practices in New Orleans, Buras, Cut-Off and Mandeville. He practiced with his mother Joyce (Russo) Adema for 25 years which focused on Vision Development, helping many children, stroke victims and traumatic brain injury patients achieve optimal vision. Pat loved being an Eye Doctor, never once doubting his chosen profession. Pat volunteered his services and shared his knowledge to area facilities of the Developmentally Disabled, Rehabilitation programs, Baseball Teams and Football Players. Together with his mother, Joyce, received the Annual Vocational Award from the New Orleans Rotary Club. A Celebration of Life will be held in Mandeville this summer with private burial. In memory of Pat, donations will be graciously accepted to Lighthouse for the Blind: www.lighthouselouisiana.org.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Mar. 15 to Mar. 17, 2024.

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Melissa Serpas

September 13, 2024

I had no idea Mr. Pat passed away. He was my child's saying grace. I wish I had the opportunity to thank him for changing my sons life 14 yrs ago.
My son was diagnosed with dyslexia. With out Mr. Pat I would have never known my son needed vision therapy. Not only did he graduate with a 3.5 GPA he also graduated with several college credits. He never gave up on any child. Thank you for all that have done for my child and so many other children. May you rest in heaven.
God bless you.
To your family my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kellsie Michell

March 23, 2024

I'm so sorry to learn of Pat's passing. He and his mother were amazing people and will always have a special place in the hearts of myself and my family. Prayers for your family, Pat.

Paul R

March 19, 2024

Pat was a good man who was worthy of respect.

The Spaar family

March 17, 2024

Dr Pat was our family eye doctor for over 20 years. He was excellent & going to see him was more than an eye exam. He was truly interested in his patients & his staff were just as wonderful. It broke our hearts when he closed his practice & we still haven't found someone that measures up to him.
We hope his family takes comfort in knowing that Dr Pat was treasured by many people that had the good fortune to have known him.

Paul Unkauf

March 16, 2024

Deepest condolences to the entire family.

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