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Patsy M. Grefer

1931 - 2016

Patsy M. Grefer obituary, 1931-2016, Harvey, LA

BORN

1931

DIED

2016

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Mothe Funeral Homes, LLC - Harvey

2100 Westbank Expressway

Harvey, Louisiana

Patsy Grefer Obituary

Grefer Patsy M. Grefer passed away on June 13, 2016 at the age of 84 years. Beloved wife of 61 years to Judge Joseph F. Grefer (Ret). Mother of Archibald J. Grefer (Brenda), Melodie Grefer Gassen (Mark), Gregory A. Grefer (Linda) and Judge Stephen C. Grefer (Maureen). Sister of Julius "Mike" Mole. Also survived by 10 grandchildren, 2 great-grandchildren along with many loving nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends. Preceded in death by her parents, Michel A. Mole and Melodie E. Mole; sisters, Joyce Mole Gardes and Clementine "Teenie" Mole and brother, Lawrence "Buddy" Mole; daughter-in-law, Lori Sue Grefer and grandson, Garrett Grefer. She loved spending time with her family and especially loved cooking for everyone. She will be sadly missed but her life will be celebrated. A Funeral Mass was held on June 16, 2016 at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Gretna with interment at Hook and Ladder Cemetery. Donations in her loving memory may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital (www.stjude.org), Children's Hospital of New Orleans (www.chnola.org), Servants of Mary, Ministers to the Sick (www.sisterservantsofmary.org) or Children's Wish Endowment Inc. (www.childrenswishendowment.org) or the charity of your choice. MOTHE FUNERAL HOME is assisting the family during this time. To view and sign the online guest book, please visit: www.mothefunerals.com.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Jun. 17 to Jun. 19, 2016.

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Cookie Zibilich

June 19, 2016

Dear Joe, and Family,
What a sadness to read of Pat's passing. May her sweet spirit remain with you always.
Our time together was quite long ago, during Army days, but may I extend
my condolences and prayers at this time.
God bless you in the days ahead.
Sincerely,
Cookie (Robley Gelpi) Zibilich

Lisa Dunn Janssen

June 19, 2016

I extend my deepest sympathy to the Grefer family. May your faith, family and friends bring comfort as you grieve your mother's passing.

RAY HENNING

June 19, 2016

OUR SINCERE CONDOLENCES. RAY AND MARIE HENNING

June 19, 2016

Our sincere condolences.
RAY AND MARIE HENNING

June 19, 2016

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

June 19, 2016

Our condolences to the Grefer family. Ray and Marie Henning

June 19, 2016

So sorry to hear of Ms. Pat's passing. My sincere condolences to the Grefer family. Suzy (Mikulski) Schwabe.

John Vignes

June 18, 2016

With our deepest sympathy
John Vignes and Family

Debbie Mamolo

June 18, 2016

Will miss you Miss Pat always looked forward to seeing you and Mr Joe .All of the prayers that were dedicated to you have surely paved your way straight to heaven.Love you more

Debbie Mamolo

June 18, 2016

Will miss you Miss Pat always looked forward to seeing you and Mr Joe .All of the prayers that were dedicated to you have surely paved your way straight to heaven.Love you more

June 17, 2016

She was such a sweetie. She will be greatly missed by all. Our sincere condolences to you Mr. Joe, Mel, Steve and family. Love Dreama, Leo & Family.

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