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GARY Tony Joseph Gary passed away on Tuesday, December 7, 2010 at the age of 47. Tony was born in New Iberia, LA and was a resident of Bush, LA. Beloved husband, partner in life, best friend in heart, and soul mate for eternity, of Sandra Kaye Schiffer Gary. Father of Heather Lynn Gary, Brittany Nicole Gary, Gilbert Tillio Paul, Jordan Alexander Schiffer, Katelyn Elizebeth Gary, Christopher Michael Gary, William Dean Gary, and Gabriella Gary. Son of the late Donadieu Borel Gary and Asee Paul Gary. Brother of Johnny Gary (Tressa Williams), Ricky Gary (Theresa), Peggy Marie Gary, and Cheryl Ann Gary Lejeune (Christopher). Grandfather of Ashlyn Elizabeth Gary and Alex James Gary-Pelous. Brother-in-law of Stephen Troy Schiffer (Carla), Scott Edward Schiffer (Allie Martin), Susan Marie Schiffer Nagim (Brandi Laine Michelli). Tony never met a stranger. A handshake was a man's word and strength. He never turned from anyone who needed help. His love for cooking earned him the nickname "Tony G". Tony G's Restaurant always left everyone begging for more. The Gary family extends a special thanks to Dr. Jack Saux of Covington, LA, Dr. Liles and Dr. Lee of Shreveport, LA, and to all his loving family and friends who have loved and supported him in his fight and journey. We will never forget all the love that has been felt. Relatives and friends are invited to attend the Funeral Mass in the Chapel of Bagnell & Son Funeral Home, 75212 Lee Road, Cov-ington, LA 70435 on Friday, December 10, 2010 at 4:00 Pm. Visitation from 12:00 noon until Mass. To view and sign the family guest book, please visit www.bagnellfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Times-Picayune on Dec. 9, 2010.

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Erin McNulty

December 18, 2010

Well...Im so sorry it has taken me so long to write, but I wanted to make sure I write everything that I wanted.

First, I must say to you Mrs. Sandy and all the kids. I love you guys so very much and yall are not just friends you are family. I love each and every one of yall so much. I know its hard for Mr. Tony to be gone but Im just happy that he is not suffering anymore. Plus, he is still watching down from heaven and is with each and everyone of yall all the time.

Mr. Tony...WOW...what can you say about a man who a husband, father, brother, uncle, and friend.

Words cant describe Mr. Tony but I will try to do my best at describing the man that I knew who was more like an uncle to me.

He was caring and compassionate, a big teddy bear. He always knew how to cheer me up. Even when I went through a very rough time in my life. He supported me and stood by me. He was always the helper and trying to help out.

He was an amazing dad and a loving husband. His family meant the world to him. I have never seen a love like Mr Tony's and Mrs. Sandy's...they were truely in love and soul mates. They just matched each other in so many ways. He was a very loving father, always there to care for all his children.

Great cook...even though I didnt always try his food, cause Im so picky, the times that I did I was in absolute heaven.

That smile, he had always made everyone better, his laugh was contagious, his accent, I just loved.

He was a strong man and a true fighter who fought a long battle till the very end.

I have many great memories of Mr. Tony and will remember them for a lifetime. Mr. Tony you will not be forgotten you will forever be in my heart.

Susan Nagim

December 15, 2010

Sandy I could never begin to tell you how sorry I am for you and the kids. I can say that I feel so honored to have a sister like you and that you allowed me to be there for you and the kids! Tony was an awesome man and will now be your guardian angel!! Just always remember that the one's we love never leave us, they live on in our hearts. They are a part of who we are and what makes us whole. I love you and im here for you all!!

December 14, 2010

Sandy & family,
You are in our thoughts & prayer...May God bless you in this difficult time.

With Love~The Treadaway Family

Debbie Monte'

December 13, 2010

Tony was my first cousin and I am so sorry that he has passed. The last time I seen Tony was at his Dad's funeral and it was such a pleasure being around him. Tony we will all miss you and we will never forget the man you were. You were a Loving Man a Good Husband and a Good Father. Please take care of my Little Girl Linzi up there. I love You!

Brandi Michelli

December 13, 2010

Sandy I am so sorry I know it is going to be rough without him but you guys have some amazing children and i know they arent going to let you stop for one second (especially Gabby lol). Tony was an amazing man who I loved and had much respect for he will be missed dearly. I am so thankful i had the oppertunity to become part of your family. Love brandi

Cheryl Gary-Lejeune

December 13, 2010

Tony was my big brother and my friend. I grew up with him and he always watched out for me. He was a son, brother, husband, father, grandfather, and friend that would do anything to help others at their time of need. The last loving, but funny nickname he picked on me about was "Magoo". He said it with a straight face, but with that crooked smile we all loved to see. I am not saying good-bye because I will see you (Tony) again, but until then I miss you and I love you more than a fat kid loves cake.

Ryan McNulty

December 12, 2010

Mr. Tony is a hero in my eyes, he supported an amazing family, helped every person he knew and is a man I admire and look up to so much. He fought till the bitter end for his family and friends and I have so much respect for him as a person. I will personally miss him so much because he was like an Uncle to me and I always wanted to make him proud. I remember everytime I would see him he would give me that strong hand shake and ask me how school was going. I will continue and try my hardest to make him proud and try to be half the man that he was. Everyone will truely miss him but he will always be with us in our hearts, and he will always be watching over his family, myself, my family and his friends and as God now has a strong amazing guardian on his side, so do we. Love ya Mr. Tony

Ryan McNulty

December 11, 2010

Mr. Tony is a hero in my eyes, he supported an amazing family, helped every person he knew and is a man I admire and look up to so much. He fought till the bitter end for his family and friends and I have so much respect for him as a person. I will personally miss him so much because he was like an Uncle to me and I always wanted to make him proud. I remember everytime I would see him he would give me that strong hand shake and ask me how school was going. I will continue and try my hardest to make him proud and try to be half the man that he was. Everyone will truely miss him but he will always be with us in our hearts, and he will always be watching over his family, myself, my family and his friends and as God now has a strong amazing guardian on his side, so do we. Love ya Mr. Tony

Debi Yount

December 10, 2010

Sandy and family, I am so sorry to hear about Tony. He was a terrific person and will be deeply missed! May God bless you and the children during this time and after!!
With love,
Debi and Dale Yount ( Sun, LA)

Katelyn Gary

December 9, 2010

My daddy was more then just a father he was a hero. He showed me a lot in life. I am sad to see him leave this earth but I know he is in a better place and he is watching over all of us.We will be together again someday. I love you forever and you will always be in my heart.

December 9, 2010

Tony was a very warm and loving friend to us! One of those people with lots of heart and one who's kindness we'll never forget. We are broken with the loss of a friend who was so dear. We pray God's love blankets Sandy and the children through their grief and sorrow at losing a loved one who was so special! Love, Sandy and D. D.

Stephanie Montalbano

December 9, 2010

To the family,
My heart and prayers go out to ya'll and the new angel watching over all bush residents.

Nina Guillot

December 9, 2010

Sandy and family,
My deepest sympathy for your loss. I know it has been a long, hard journey for you all. May you find peace in prayer and rememberance of a good man. You are all in my prayers. We love you. God Bless you all!
Warren and Nina

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