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Patricia Markham Obituary

Patricia J. Markham, age 75, passed away February 27, 2008, at Bethany Lutheran Home.

Patricia was born in Conway, Ark., on November 21, 1932, to Faber and Helen Jones Hicks. She attended Arkansas State Teachers College and worked as a real estate broker.

She is preceded in death by husband, Joseph Allen Markham.

Survivors include daughter, Sheri Allen and husband, Cary of Omaha; son, Steve Klemetson and wife, Sandra of Murrieta, Calif.; grandchildren, Amber Delaney and husband, Jeremy of Council Bluffs, Courtney Allen of Omaha, Kristin Beard of Murrieta; great grandchildren, Dakota and Carson Delaney of Council Bluffs.

Visitation with family Monday 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. at Cutler-O'Neill-Meyer-Woodring Funeral Home. Inurnment at a later date.

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Published by The Daily Nonpareil on Mar. 1, 2008.

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Amber Delaney

April 27, 2020

Hi Grandma, It's been about a year since we last talked. The world is a mess right now and I am sure glad you aren't here to see it. I miss the heck out of you everyday. I love you very much and will always remember you and your kind face.

Amber Delaney

March 29, 2018

Happy Easter Grandma,
We all miss you so much. Some days are still harder than others. I miss our talks and sitting on a bench people watching. Everyone is doing well and growing up fast. We love you very much grandma!

Sheri Allen

April 12, 2009

Happy Easter Mom,
As each hoilday approaches us it just is not the same with you gone. They almost don't seem important anymore. There is never a day that goes by that I dont think of you or remember something special about you. Everyone is doing well,but you are always on our mind. You will never been forgotten. You have left us with so many wonderful memories.
Thank you for being my mom. You were the best mom and my best friend. Love your daughter.

Sheri Allen

March 8, 2009

Well, mom it has been a year since you were taken from us. Its hard to believe. The days don't really get any easier as time goes by. I think of you everyday and how so badly, I want to pick up the phone and call you. I would give anything just to heard your voice and see you beautiful face again. You are miss so much by eveyone. Everytime I talk to Eleanor she always says, I miss Pat and our conversations. She says you two had great conversations and alot of laughs. You will never be forgotten and in our hearts everyday. Thank you for everything you have ever done. Love your daughter.

COURTNEY ALLEN

March 5, 2009

HEY GRANDMA! i KNOW i HAVENT WROTE TO YOU iN A WHiLE, & iM SORRY i HAVENT FORGOTTEN ABOUT YOU. i THiNK ABOUT YOU EVERY DAY & i TALK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TiME. iTS BEEN A YEAR SiNCE YOU WERE TAKEN FROM US AND iT STiLL DOESNT SEEM FAiR TO ME WHY YOU HAD TO GO SO SOON. AS THE DAYS GO ON SOME DAYS SEEM HARDER THAN OTHERS & i STiLL CRY CUZ i DONT KNOW WHAT ELES TO DO. LiFE SEEMS SO EMPTY WiTHOUT YOU. SO THiS THiS WEEKEND iS MY FRiEND AARON & JEESE ONE YEAR OF BEiNG GONE TOO AND WE ARE ALL GOiNG OUT AND SPENDiNG TiME WiTH THEiR FAMiLiES. & OF COURSE iLL BE THiNKiNG OF YOU TOO. GRANDMA i WiSH YOU WERE HERE. YOU ALWAYS KNEW WHAT TO SAY TO MAKE ME FEEL BETTER, YOU JUST ALWAYS HAD THE RiGHT THiNGS TO SAY UGH! i LOVE YOU SOOO MUCH & i MiSSS YOU LiKE CRAZYYYYYYYY YOU ARE THE BEST GRANDMA A GiRL COULD EVER ASK FOR!!!!!!!!! i LOVE YOU GRANDMA!!!!!!!!!

Sheri Allen

November 21, 2008

Hi, Mom,

It has been awhile since I last wrote to you, I have not forgotten you. You are always on my mind and in my heart. As each holiday approaches it is't the same with you not here. Those time always seem to be the hardest, and today is one of those special days. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
There is not a day that goes by that I wish you were still here with us all. Sometimes life does not seem fair, butI know you are in a better place.
I miss you so much. HAPPY BIRTHDAY to the BEST MOM a daughter could ever have and I'm glad it was you.

Love,
Sheri

COURTNEY ALLEN

September 6, 2008

HEY GRANDMA, SO HAS YOU KNOW MY 21ST BiRTHDAY iS COMiNG UP iN A COUPLE OF WEEKS...CAN YOU BELiViE iT??? CUZ i CANT.... i WiSH YOU WERE HERE TO SPEND iT TO WiTH ME. THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN THE BEST GiFT. ANYWAYS i MiSS YOU AND LOVE YOU SOOO MUCH, i THiNK ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY.
i LOVE YOU GRANDMA KEEP ME AND EVERYBODY SAFE ON MY BDAY.
R.i.P GRANDMA

amber delaney

August 30, 2008

hi grandma well its been 6 months since you went away and everyday i miss you more and more sometimes i just need a non judgemental ear.
i love you, you are my everything

COURTNEY ALLEN

August 18, 2008

HEY GRANDMA. iTS BEEN A WHiLE, SORRY i HAVENT WORTE TO YOU iN SUCH A LONG TiME. SO MUCH HAS BEEN GOiNG ON WiTH MOM AND DAD BUiDLiNG THE HOUSE TO MY NEW CAR. AND WELL SOME DAYS ARE STiLL HARDER THEN OTHERS... i MiSS YOU SO MUCH, WORDS CAN EVEN EXPLAiN... BUT i KNOW THAT YOUR LOOKiN DOWN ON ME EVERYDAY CHECKiN UP ON ME! =] THAT WiLL NEVER CHANGE HAHA AND WELL AS U KNOW iM GOiNG TO BE THE BiG 21 THiS YEAR...OHH MAN CAN U BELiViE iT? CUZ i CANT!!!! LOL
WELL i LOVE YOU SOOOO MUCH AND MiSSS YOU SOOOOOO MUCH.
KEEP US ALL SAFE.
YOUR MY HERO.
RiP GRANDMA
XOXOXO

Sheri Allen

May 12, 2008

Mom,
I want to wish you a Happy Mother Day. I know you are no longer with us, But you will never be forgotten, and when a holiday comes round that day will still be shared with you. You will always be a part of my daily life. Miss you so much.
Your Daughter

Amber

April 29, 2008

Hi GRANDMA,
We went to an Omaha beefs football game this weekened and the guys did a skit from wizard of oz and all I kept thinking was how you use to play the witch,it brought back alot of good memories.We love and always will miss you

courtney allen

April 4, 2008

heyyy grandma is been a while since iv wrote to you in here. i just wanted you to know that uncle is out here now we showed him all your pretty stuff he was so proud that you only had the best. we all misss you soo much and life just isnt the same without you here. i talk to you all the time. and think about you every second of the day. but i just wanted to tell you i love you and misss you sooo much, we all do. i love you grandma my bestfriend my hero.r.i.p

Beverly Buendtner

March 27, 2008

Pat was a good friend and classmate who has left us with a lot of great memories and oh what a time we had in Las Vagas. Til we meet again, rest in peace dear one.

Anne Holloway Irby

March 26, 2008

We have many fond memories of Pat from Conway High School. She was Pat Hicks back then, and was the prettiest girl in the class. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of sadness. May God be with you.

Sheri Allen

March 15, 2008

Well Mom,
It's been two weeks since you left us. It hasn't been easy for me and now writing to you seems to made it so real. I miss you so much and as each day passes it doesn't seem to get easier. My days seem so empty with you gone. I miss talking to you and knowing I can't see or touch you. I think of you and all the memories of the fun we had together. You will always be in my thoughts and in my heart. A daughter could not have had a better mom. Thank you for all you have done. I miss you so much. Bye for now.
Your daughter, Sheri
I love you mom

Willette Baskin-Araskewitz

March 15, 2008

Dearest Pat,
You will always be in my heart. I am so thankful you were in my life. We had a special friendship and some great times together. I will always cherish those memories. Your family is lovely and has always been great to me. I hope to see you again someday. Love Willie

Jerry Lancaster

March 15, 2008

Sorry to hear of Pats passing. She was a class mate of mine. Jerry Lancaster

Rose DEmilio

March 15, 2008

To my friend, who I will miss dearly. I feel so empty with you gone. I will miss our conversations and all our laughter. Thank you for being a part of my life.

Eleanor Opitz

March 15, 2008

My condolences to each of you as you say good-bye to your Mother and Grandmother. I hope your memories of happier times will sustain you now and in the coming days.

Jennie Carlier

March 15, 2008

May God bless and your family in this of sorrow.

Sandra Klemetson

March 15, 2008

To a wonderful mother-in-law. You will be missed. God Bless you. Love ya always.

Steven Klemetson

March 15, 2008

Love you, will miss you and we'll never forget. Your Son

Denise Carle

March 15, 2008

Thank you so much for letting us serve Pat at Bethany Lutheran. She was absolutely a part of our family at the home. Pat and her entire family will be missed. Thank you for sharing the beautiful picture of her on this site.

Courtney Allen

March 15, 2008

She was my hero, my bestfriend & my grandma. She was an amazing person inside and out. I love her soooo much and miss her more than anyone could have known. She is my hero. I love you grandma R.I.P
You will live on forever in my heart.

Amber Delaney

March 15, 2008

Grandma,
I will miss you and always remember you. Always and forever your first granddaughter D.

Misty Mandas

March 15, 2008

Pat was a wonderful woman, who had a warm smile for everyone.She will be greatly missed.

Donna Dickerson

March 15, 2008

Pat was a neat gal. I recall us standing on the street corner with Willette fussing over the boys who we all thought were cute.Of course I won! My thoughts and prayers are with you all! Donna Dickerson

Willette Baskin-Araskewitz

March 10, 2008

Dearest Pat,
You will always be in my heart. I am so thankful you were in my life. We had a special friendship and some great times together. I will always cherish those memories. Your family is lovely and have always be great to me. I hope to see you again someday.
Love Willie

Bill Dortch

March 7, 2008

Patty,my wife,my friend,my love, for my life.

TOBY RONK

March 6, 2008

I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOST WE ARE THINKING OF YOU GUYS AND WE LOVE YOU GUYS

Donna Dickerson

March 5, 2008

Pat was a neat gal. I recall us standing on the street corner with Willette fussing over the boys who we all thought were cute. Of course I won! My thoughts and prayers are with you all! Donna Dickerson

Misty Mandas

March 5, 2008

Pat was a wonderful woman, who always had a warm smile for everyone. She will be greatly missed.

dakota delaney

March 5, 2008

patricia is one of the best and most nicest people in the world.she was the best grandma ever!

Nicole and Doug Mann

March 5, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mom, Grandma, etc. Hold with you all the wonderful memories that were created with her in them. Please let us know if there in anything we can do. With Love......

amber delaney

March 5, 2008

GRANDMA
I WILL MISS YOU AND ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU.
ALWAYS AND FOREVER YOUR FIRST GRANDAUGHTER D'

Amber Dawn Delaney

March 5, 2008

Well Grandma,this is your time to shine once again,just as you did when you were here on earth with us.You are probably looking down on us right now thinking why all the fuss over me?Because we all love you so much and you will be missed and always remembered as the classy, good lookin,respected, opinionated grandma who loved her family and friends dearly.

Carson and Dakota Delaney

March 5, 2008

Great Grandma we love and miss you .You are the best ever.

Amber Dawn Delaney

March 5, 2008

Hi Grandma it's your first grandaughter, we had lots of wonderful memories together.My most favorite is when you used to play the wicked witch, from Wizard of Oz.You would bend down and curl your hands down with your nails out and screatch like the witch chasing me down the hall ways.your were the best grandma in the world always giving me advice and support threw anything, never judging me just loving me.You will be missed but always remembered.I love you always.

Patsy Colburn

March 4, 2008

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Cary Allen

March 3, 2008

To the mom I never had,thankyou for all the joys in my life and my family.The girls will miss you,but I will miss you most of all.Love your son.

Shelley Wright

March 3, 2008

Dear Steve, Sherry and Family,
We so enjoyed your mother over the years. Thank you so much for sharing her with us. She was a wonderful lady. May you receive confort in your wonderful memories.
All our thoughts and prayers are with you. Much love and friendship,
Mike, Shelley, Kayla & Bryan Wright

Kristin Beard

March 3, 2008

hi grandma
its kristin
i just wanted to tell you that i miss you so much. i know we weren't super close but you still impacted my life so much and i miss you so much. it sucks that you are gone but i know that you are not in pain and you are in a better place now. right now they are doing your service and i'm so sorry that i couldn't go to it. but you are always in my thoughts and in my heart and i will always remember the good times we had.
i love you grandma and i miss you so much

Mitch Walling

March 3, 2008

Pat was one of the most amazing people I have ever met. Although I only knew her for a short time, any time that you spent with her was going to be a memory you held onto forever. Between her humor and love, there wasn't anything that would hold you back from liking her. My thoughts and prayers to everyone that knew her. She will be loved and missed forever and always.

courtney allen

March 3, 2008

she is my hero, my bestfriend,& my grandma. she was an amazing person inside and out. i love her and misss her more then anyone could ever know. r.i.p grandma. you will live in my heart forever.

courtney allen

March 3, 2008

she was my hero,my bestfried & my grandma. she was an amazing person inside and out. i love her soooo much and misss her more then anyone could have know. she is my hero. i love you grandma r.i.p.
you will live on forever in my heart.

Denise Carle

March 3, 2008

Thank you so much for letting us serve Pat at Bethany Lutheran. She was absolutely a part of our family at the home. Pat and her entire family will be missed. Thank you for sharing the beautiful picture of her on this site.

steven klemetson

March 3, 2008

love you, will miss you we'll never forget your son

sandra klemetson

March 3, 2008

to a wonderful motherinlaw you will be missed. god bless you. love ya always

Ginny, Scott and Grandma Pat (2000)

Richard, Sally, Ginny & Scott Markham

March 3, 2008

We got engaged the same weekend we visited Pat and Allen in California almost 23 years ago! Since that time she helped us to gather many fond memories as part of the growing Markham family. She will always be "Grandma Pat" to us!

Scott and I were actually looking for pictures for a school project earlier in the week and stumbled across the ones taken during our last visit to California way back in 2000. Pat is there with her beautiful smile (and all of Allen's cats!). How ironic that she passed away the day after we found them.... I'd like to think it was someone's way of letting us know that she was thinking about us too.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Jennie Carlier

March 2, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Rose DEmilo

March 2, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Rose DEmilo

March 2, 2008

To my friend who I will miss dearly. I feel so empty with you gone. I will miss our conversations and all our laughter. Thank you for being a part of my life.

Denise Dortch

March 2, 2008

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Daryl Kraige

March 2, 2008

Pat and I worked togeather at Kingsway Construction for many years. She was my friend and we shared many good times togeather. I will always remember her beautiful smile and sweet laugh. She will be missed by all.

Jerry lancaster

March 2, 2008

Sorry to hear of Pats passing. She was a class mate of mine.
Jerry Lancaster

Eleanor Opitz

March 2, 2008

My condolences to each of you as you say good-bye to your Mother and Grandmother. I hope your memories of happier times will sustain you now and in the coming days.

Arthur and Luci Adams

March 1, 2008

Sherri and Steve, Arthur and I are deeply saddened by sweet Pat's passing. She was such a big part of our lifes for a long time. Our prayers are with you and your families. God Bless and keep you in His grace.

Delaney, Lindsay, Wendy, and Curtis Markham

March 1, 2008

Our lives are truly blessed to have had Pat, or "Grandma Pat" as she was fondly known by our daughters, in our lives. My father was so fortunate to have finished out his years with Pat as his companion. She and all of you all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Joe and Linda Markham

March 1, 2008

Our lives were enriched by having Pat as a part of it. She provided many wonderful memories and shared happy times with us. She will be deeply missed by all.
Though we cannot be there for you now, please know our thoughts and prayers are there.
Sheri and Steve, we ask God to bless and comfort you and your families in this time of need.
Please accept our love and deepest sympathy.
Joe and Linda Markham

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