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Andrew DeMatteo Obituary

De MATTEO Andrew "Drew," 13, of Elmwood Park died Wednesday, April 2, 2008. He was a 7th grade student at Memorial Middle School, Elmwood Park. He played football on the Elmwood Park Bulldogs, basketball for Memorial Middle School and Elmwood Park REC and baseball for both the Elmwood Park Little League and Junior Baseball League. He was a member of Our Saviour Lutheran Church, Fair Lawn. Beloved son of Douglas and Charlene. Loving brother of Derek. Dearest grandson of Arthur DeMatteo and Ralph and Carole Non. Also survived by many loving uncles, aunts and cousins. Funeral from the Petrik Funeral Home, 140 Palisade Avenue, Bogota, Monday morning at 9:30. Then to Our Saviour Lutheran Church, Fair Lawn for a Funeral Service at 10:30. Interment George Washington Memorial Park, Paramus. The family will receive friends 3-7 PM Sunday.

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Published by The Record/Herald News on Apr. 4, 2008.

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Jennifer Cordasco

April 18, 2008

Dear Doug,Charlene,and Derek
We just heard the devastating news about your son ,words cannot express how truly sorry we are. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Sincerely Jennifer,Robert and Matthew Cordasco

Michele Burns

April 15, 2008

Dear Doug, Charleen & Derek, I am truly sorry about your lose. Words can't describe it. I know what you must be going through, losing someone is very hard, but someone so young has to be the hardest. I want you to know I tried to be there, but please know you are in my thoughts and prayers everyday and may god ease the pain you are suffering at this very difficult time. Deepest of Sympathies, Michele Burns

Monica Naughton Brown

April 14, 2008

I was so sorry to hear about Andrew's passing. By all accounts, he was a wonderful boy, and I regret that I will not have him in my class next year. May you find some comfort during this terribly sad time.

Alex & Katie Sanchez

April 14, 2008

To The DeMatteo Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Alex and Katie Sanchez

Bobby Patricia and Nicole DeAngelis

April 13, 2008

Dearest Charlene, Doug and Derrick:

We are extremely sorry for the loss of Drew, a little angel that always blessed us with his presence whenever he would come and visit us and Nicole on the weekends. He was such an outstanding little boy who always made us smile, and had the tendency to always bring the best out of people. We will miss him coming over to visit very much, and one day hope to reunite with him in heaven.

PS...Bijou is going to miss you playing with her! She loves and misses you, as we all do...

Always here for you,

Bobby, Patricia and Nicole DeAngelis

Nicole

April 13, 2008

Words cannot express how saddened we all have been for the past week now. Drew was such a wonderful person, and he was always such a pleasure to see and talk to! Many times Drew would come over with my little cousin Michael to hang out with me and my puppy. Drew was such a kind and sweet little gentleman, and I always called him "My Little Cousin" just like Michael is. I will continue to pray for your family, and want you to know that everyone is here whenever you might need us. God bless you all.

Lisa Van Der Wall

April 12, 2008

Dear Charlene and Family,

I was shocked and so saddened by the loss of Drew. My thoughts and prayers have been with you each day. Take comfort in all of the wonderful times you had with him.

Love, Lisa

Denise & Scott Maloney

April 12, 2008

We are deeply saddened to hear of Drew's untimely death. Although we never met him, he must have been a wonderful child seeing as his parents are such terrific people. Our condolences are with you at this time.

Baranello Family

April 11, 2008

DeMatteo Family,
We are so sorry for your lose. You are in are thoughts and prayers.

Jack Santos

April 8, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Janelle P. & James W.

April 7, 2008

Dear Dougie,Charlene and Derek, we are deeply sadden for your lost and we pray that god gives you strength. Dougie your the best father a child could ever have

CAROL AND WARREN SISTARO

April 7, 2008

Dear Doug, Charlene and Derek;

We want you to know that we are deeply saddened by the loss of Drew. You are such a wonderful family and do not deserve to be going through this tragedy.You both did such an amazing job raising smart, talented and respectful children. Michael thought the world of Drew and does of Derek as well. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always and we have been thinking of you all almost constantly since we received the news of Drew. We are here for you for any reason or if you ever you just need someone to lean on.

With Sincere Love and Admiration;

The Sistaro Family
Warren, Carol, Michael and Carly

Dot & Bob Sekkes Sekkes

April 7, 2008

Dear DeMatteo & Non Families,
Debbie e-mailed us last night about the loss of your son and grandson. We are deeply saddened to hear this news. We pray that God will keep you in his loving care. "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted." Matthew 5:4.

With our deepest sympathy, Dot &
Bob Sekkes, Palmer Twp., PA (former No. Haledon neighbors)

Bob Calabro & Family

April 7, 2008

Doug, Charlene and Derek,
We are deeply sorry for the loss that you have suffered. Our prayers and deepest sympathies to you during this time of sorrow.

Raisa Brown

April 6, 2008

We are sorry to hear about the loss of your son. May God give you the strengh to move on.

Cristian Gonzalez

April 6, 2008

Andrew DeMatteo and family,
its been 8 years of friendship.
you were such a good kid and an amazing friend.
you were an amazing athlete and an honor student.
you had a great future ahead of you and you had the perfect life. only the good die young and drew was proof of that.

im greatly for your loss but hes in a better place. hes always with you, standing next to you, watching over you, and most importantly in your heart.

REST IN PEACE DREW?
WE LOVE AND MISS YOU BRO,
I PROMISE THAT WE'LL HANG OUT AGAIN ONE DAY.

"god saw you getting tired
and a cure was not to be,

so he put his arms around you
and whispered "come to me".

with tearful eyes we watched you,
and saw you pass away.

although we loved you dearly,
we could not make you stay.

a golden heart stopped beating,
hard working hands at rest,

god broke our hearts to prove to us,
HE ONLY TAKES THE BEST" ?

renie corbin

April 6, 2008

I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your son ANdrew. WOrds can not describe how sad we are for you, please know that we love you and are here for you always. He will always be remembered

Patti Brown

April 6, 2008

Dougy, Char and Derek,

We love you and are here for you.
The Brown Family

Griselis Rivera

April 6, 2008

Dear Charlene & Doug,

I am completely heart broken to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Maria Malinski

April 6, 2008

Charlene, Doug & Derek:
Our prayers are with you and your entire family.

Maria & David Malinski

Kevin, Michele, & Kevin Stark

April 6, 2008

Doug, Charlene & Derek,
The news of Drew came as such a shock to us. We are very deeply sorry for your loss. Your family will be in our prayers. Drew will be greatly missed by many. Heaven definitely gained an angel with Drew!

With love and sympathy,
The Stark Family

Teresa Cerritelli Braunworth

April 6, 2008

Doug and family. I am so sorry to hear this sad, sad news. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Teresa Cerritelli Braunworth

Andrea Wachtel

April 6, 2008

Charlene, Doug & Derek:

My heart is breaking for you all....I can not begin to imagine the terrible loss that you are feeling. I hope that you are able to find some comfort in knowing that Drew is with God and that he will forever be looking over you. Please know that you are in my prayers.

Anderea Wachtel

The Pellot Family

April 6, 2008

To the DeMatteo Family,

We were deeply saddened to hear about the death of Drew, who was friends with our son Matt. We know how difficult this must be for you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We wish for consolation for your family during this time and always.

Altavilla Family

April 6, 2008

DeMatteo Family,
We are deeply sorry for your loss. Drew was one of my sons best friends. He has only happy memories of Drew. He was a great kid & we will all miss him dearly. He will live on forever in our hearts.

Marianne Robinson

April 6, 2008

Dear Family,
All of my love and best during this hard time. To Doug, I wish that I could bring comfort to your aching soul, once joyful and spirited. Know that my thoughts are with you and the family.

(Former Houlihan's Secaucus Bartender)

ivette mora

April 6, 2008

With each memory let our hearts be reminded that nothing can ever take the beauty we have known in DREW.
For love remains,A part of us,forever
We will never forget.
you are in our thoughts and prayers
we are here for you when you need us.
Love,john,ivette,stephanie,matt and lucas

Matt Arce

April 5, 2008

It has been 6 years of friendship. I will never forget all the great times that we had together. I love you Drew.

The Lane Family

April 5, 2008

Our hearts go out to your family at this time and in the days ahead.

Nicholas Takach

April 5, 2008

To the DeMatteo Family:

Drew will always be in our hearts and he will be missed. He will live on in our memories. The world will be a sadder place without him here.

Your Friend, Nick T

Pete Visaggio

April 5, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. I watched Drew develop from T-Ball to the major league. This year I was looking forward to coaching Drew in Babe Ruth. I will always cherish the memories of the games he played for me in fall ball and of the few practices we had this year. He will be missed but not forgotten. Our prayers go out to you and your family. Coach Pete

Kim Scanapieco and family

April 5, 2008

What a pleasure Drew was. He was a well rounded kid who was talented in many, many things. Drew also knew the Lord. In the past several months during Sunday School , we talked about heaven and being prepared and what heaven may be like and being afraid to die.Drew was prepared. One day he said "I mean I wouldnt want to die now but why would I be afraid"? That echos now in my head because although it wasnt his plan he had no doubt that there was a heaven and a God who would give him eternity.He was not afraid of dyeing . Our hearts will never except the timing of his end here with us. God must have needed someone so very special to have taken him from us.So our earthly life has been shattered and our understanding mystified and maybe for some faith shakin, but it's only temporary. And all days here will never be the same but oh what awaits us......someday. Prayers and thoughts go out to the Dematteo famliy. Find your strength in God but know its ok to fall apart.We will all be here to help pick you up, hold you up, whatever your need may be.
Forever and A Day;
The Scanapieco family

Richard Tomko

April 5, 2008

Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. Drew will be greatly missed.

Melissa Minutillo

April 5, 2008

Dougie,

I am so sorry for your loss. I can not imagine what you and your family are going through. Please know that your Houlihan's family is deeply grieving for all of you.

Matt Arce

April 5, 2008

Dear Drew,
It has been 6 years of our friendship. We had great times together, always hanging out at each other's house. But since you passed away, we can no-longer hang out with each other. It will be hard for me to get over this, but I know that you will always be with me in my heart. I love you man. I will never forget you.

Debbie Scelzo

April 5, 2008

Dear Charlene, Doug and Derek,
My heart is aching for you. May you find strength and comfort in the support of friends and family, and in knowing that there is a new angel in heaven watching over you.

Keith Cannizzo

April 5, 2008

you were a good friend to me and all of us.you will always be in our hearts.
from your good friend
Keith

April 5, 2008

Our hearts go out to your family. You are in our prayers.
Dillon & Nicholas Cilento & Jenkins Family

April Spano

April 5, 2008

Dear Charlene and Doug,

I am so sorry for the loss of your son Drew. You have been in my prayers every day. May God Bless your family.

Love April and Dan Spano

THE RUNESTAD FAMILY

April 4, 2008

We were so shocked and heartbroken when we heard about the death of Andrew. All of us at A.C.E. Restaurant Group are heartbroken over your loss. The family and Andrew will be in all of our prayers!

Ian Lakind

April 4, 2008

To Drews family: there isn't much I could possibly say, except that he was a great friend and team mate. I will proudly wear his patch on my sleeve for baseball that his spirit will be with me forever. He will always be in my thoughts and know that he is always looking down on you and is hanging out with my uncle Emil and brother and sister having a good time. I know he wouldn't want you to be sad but to be content that he will be in a better place.
My love and thoughts are with you.
God will take care of Drew and keep him safe.

Edgar & Sheila Perez

April 4, 2008

our depest simpathy in your lost I hope God can bring some peace for the entire family your son was very special for my son we are very sorry!

Phyllis Krilovich

April 4, 2008

Dear Charlene,Doug and Derek; There are no words of comfort that will comfort at this time. My heart goes out to you. I know your pain. May God hold you all in the palm of his hand for as long as you need him to. You are in my prayers forever.
My deepest sympathies and love. Phyllis

Arbresha Arbresha

April 4, 2008

Andrew R.I.P
We'll Miss You So Much
When I Heard About This I Was Shaking Gone But Never Forgotten

Frankie Cassilli

April 4, 2008

Drew a good athlete and a very good friend to many!

The DelVescovo's

April 4, 2008

We are sorry for your loss. We are praying for your family.

Donna Jacobs (Zmirak)

April 4, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Diane and Tony Culmone

April 4, 2008

Dear Doug, Charlene, and Derek

Sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. If u need anything call.

Monika Jasionek

April 4, 2008

I'm so sorry for your loss.
I was kind of one of his friends, but I never knew if he knew that.
I wish I could tell him that...
He was such a good kid.
*straight A's
*always smiling
*loved sports
*best friend you could ever ask for

It feels like a nightmare, that never ends.
But he had a purpose for being on Earth.
He taught us a great lesson on how to live your life to the fullest, for you never know when the day and time will come.
I show my deepest concern.
May he always and forever stay in our hearts.

Angelo, Denise, & Jordan Infante/Sepulveda

April 4, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Gary & Lois Kohles

April 4, 2008

So very sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts go out to you and your family at this sad time.

Setola/Noschese

April 4, 2008

Our children should never go before us but in situations as these we can take limited comfort in the knowledge that he was needed by god and will be looked after and loved.

My son played with your son on your block with a mutual friend..... he will be sorely missed.....

Clara Cabrera

April 4, 2008

Doug, Charlene and Derek,

We are SO sorry about the lost of Drew. He was a great kid, he will be missed. I will especially miss him coming over to the house to play Baseball. Please remember that I am here for you....

Carmelina Buffa

April 4, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about Andrew. He was my student last year in sixth grade. My deepest heartfelt sympathy to your family.
The Buffa Family

The Healy Family

April 4, 2008

To the entire DeMatteo family, friends and relatives. May God Bless you all during this incredibly sad time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.

Gillian, Chris, Christopher, Michael & Nicholas Baur

April 4, 2008

Doug, Charlene, & Derek,
Taken too soon, I just dont understand why these things happen sometimes. I know there is suppose to be a reason for everything. Right now I just dont get it. Please know that my family and I are thinking of you at this most sad time. It feels like yesterday that the boys were in preschool together. I will never forget what a handsome kid he was. May God bless and watch over all of you at this difficult time.

Debbie Barakat

April 4, 2008

Dear Doug & Char,
We are heartbroken to hear of your loss. May God give you strength and take comfort in knowing how many people are praying for you. God Bless you all.
Debbie & Mike Barakat (Rockaway, NJ)

Jim & Debbiann Mitchell

April 4, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Mary,Rich,Caitlin and Richie De Siervo

April 4, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. We were heartbroken when we heard about Drew. We will pray for God to give you and your family strength.

The Pagan Family

April 4, 2008

Dear Charlene, Doug and Derek:
We are so sorry for your loss. Out prayers go out to you.

Doug, Maritza, Joshua & Cassie Pagan

Linda Rooney

April 4, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Children are suppsoe to be around for along time. I know ther has to be a reason but right now alli see is hurt and pain. I hope he ress in peace. God Bless you and your family.
I am the mother of Dominick Converse and Casey n Matthew's grandma

Carolyn & Ed Ahearn (Kelly)

April 4, 2008

We are saddened to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Manny Scarangella

April 4, 2008

My deepest symbathy to all of you. Try and find comfort in the fact that Andrew is with God now and will always watch over you. My thoughts and Prayers are with you all

Joanne Longo

April 4, 2008

Me, Dan and Michael share your sorrow and express our deepest sympathy. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Scott and Deborah Woegens

April 4, 2008

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

April 4, 2008

We will never forget Andrew.We remember the days when he came in the deli with Doug. (Bogota Towne Lunch) He always left a smile on our faces.
Sincerely yours,
Joe and Karen Kelly
Bogota, NJ

Katrina

April 4, 2008

My heart goes out to you. So young to be an angel. If you ever need to talk to another mother who lost a child I am here for you.
Again my heart breaks for you all who loved this precious child

Joe Herrmann

April 4, 2008

Sorry to hear the loss of your son, Your thoughts and prayers are with you. Love Joe & Debbie Herrmann(Butler, NJ)

Alan Bookspan

April 4, 2008

Doug and Charlene, We are so sorry for your loss. Allison and my Hearts go out to the both of you. We can only imagine what you must be going through. Rely on your inner strength and the support from your firends and family to help you get through this.

Joseph Pluchino

April 4, 2008

Our deepest sympathy on the passing of Andrew. Please be assured that Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you.

Cathy & Joe Pluchino

Karen Rollins

April 4, 2008

Dear Charlene & Doug, I am so so sorry to hear about the loss of Andrew. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

April 4, 2008

Our deepest sympathies on your loss.

The Gandolfi and Bookspan Families

Robert Steepy

April 4, 2008

He was a great kid. I know I'll miss the looks he gave me when we taught him pitching

Polly Wolthouse

April 4, 2008

Dear De Matteo Family: My sister Brenda Capizzi called me to tell me the tragic loss of your son. You do not know me, but I just want to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. My prayers are with you.

Lori Dombrowski

April 4, 2008

I know there is nothing I can say or do to make this any easier for you. But please know how much everyone cares. I pray to God that he gives your family much needed strength to get through this difficult time. Drew has left us much to soon and he will be deeply missed by everyone.

Daniel Torres

April 4, 2008

May the Lord take you into his heart and grant you eternal peace.
You are now an "angel" in his army.
You were taken away far too early.
You will be sorely missed by all your friends at Memorial.

Gerald Cassilli

April 4, 2008

He was kind, smart , athletic and a nice kid. We will miss him.

Denise & Michael Brophy

April 4, 2008

So sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tammy Feola

April 4, 2008

Dear Charlene & Family
So sorry for the loss of Drew.
May the almighty give you strenght and comfort during this time, love
Tammy

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