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David Gourley Obituary
David Gourley, age 61, of Riverdale at rest in Pequannock on October 20, 2017. Dear son of Constant Gourley. Loving uncle of Erica Helene Kobloth and Dana Kobloth. Adoring great-uncle of Gavin D. Widell and London Medina-Cuenca. David is predeceased by his late mother Helen Gourley and his late sister Louanne Kobloth. Born in Paterson, he lived in West Paterson, then in Pompton Lakes before recently moving to Riverdale. He was the Director of Clinical Operations for Millennium Respiratory Services, Whippany for the last 9 years. He was also an adjunct professor at Seton Hall University, South Orange. Mr. Gourley was a member of the community library board. He was a former member of the West Paterson and Pompton Lakes 1st Aid Squad and former Executive Director at Chilton Hospital, Pequannock. Relatives and friends are invited to attend a funeral service at the Festa Memorial Funeral Home, 111 Union Blvd, Totowa, on Wednesday at 10 AM. Interment to follow at Laurel Grove Cemetery, Totowa. Friends may visit Tuesday 2-4 and 7-9 PM. For more information, go to www.festamemorial.com.
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Robert Farrell
October 16, 2023
Time goes by so fast, hard to believe its 7 years already. I sure do miss going to Las Vegas with you. Rest in Peace.
Bob Farrell
Thomas Nicosia
June 3, 2020
First met David in 1979 when we worked at Eagle Ambulance, I was an EMT. He was the 1st respiratory therapist I ever met. The next year I began my calling in respiratory. Today, 40 years later, I still work full time as an RRT. David was a wonderful soul to have blessed this planet. RIP David. Dr. Tom Nicosia, RRT-NPS
Michele Lobman
October 18, 2019
Can't believe it's been 2 years since you left.
Miss your laughter and friendship.
The light of this world is a little dimmer since you're gone.
Till me meet again my friend.....
Erica Kobloth
October 17, 2019
Not a day goes by that I don't think of my Uncle. I'll never forget having to tell my son his Great Uncle passed, he was looking at pictures of Uncle Dave on my phone, and said "it's not fair Uncle Dave is one of my best friends". Uncle Dave was a great uncle to my sister and I, but there was nothing like witnessing the love he had for our children.
Thank you all who have shared your fond memories of my uncle, it is deeply and sincerely appreciated.
Robert Farrll
October 16, 2019
I miss your friendship big time. Rest in Peace my peace......................... I miss the good times in Las Vegas................
Jason Mangan
September 30, 2018
I cant believe its almost been a whole year that you passed away Dave, I really truly miss you so much and I miss the talks we had on face book and even when u work for the hospital about different things. You were always there for me and my family when i needed u there and you were there even 5 yrs ago when my mom passed away also. Until we meet again Dave god bless you and I love you with all my heart.
Good bye!
Gerry Schlette
December 2, 2017
Dave was my friend. I have no words to express my sorrow right now...We are all better people for knowing Dave, God Bless and keep him! 10:30AM mass will not be the same with out him. Good bye my friend!
Betty Gould
October 26, 2017
Dave was filled with so much compassion for everyone. He so willingly and humbly gave of his time and never asked for anything in return. I could not have gotten through my mother's illness and death from 1979 - 1983. Dave was at ICU at Chilton, at the beginning of mom's fight for life. I was cying in the chapel. I did not know Dave yet, but he walked in, sat down next to me, reached for my arm, then left. It was a tremendous comfort knowing that each time I left the hospital during those years that mom was well cared for because Dave was there. A few nights before my mom died, Dave came to our house to check on her. He new her death was imminent and told me to call him at any time of the day or night. I called Dave at 6 a.m. the morning that mom died. He came and stayed with me until after the doctor pronounced my mom and her body was taken. Dave took me outside so that my last memory of mom would not be that final scene. May we live up to the example that you left for us Dave, to honor your life as you have honored ours.
Debbee Lukacsko
October 25, 2017
I was shocked to hear of your crossing over to Heaven. I have very nice memories of when you worked as a RT in Chilton and I was on the night shift as a Paramedic. You were always smiling and oh so willing to teach. When I was going to PCCC for my RN, you were teaching there. Once in a while we would go have lunch together in the cafe. Although we lost touch as life moved on for both of us, I want you to know that you left a lasting impression on me. Rest in Peace, my friend. Until we meet again!
Nancy Salemi
October 24, 2017
I have fond childhood memories of David. We went through grade school together and had our share of classroom mischief. I remember his red hair, his giggle and his wonderful sense of humor. Heartfelt condolences to his family during this most difficult time.
Larry Sikorski
October 24, 2017
Growing up as a resident of West Paterson I remember David. My condolences go out to his family and friends.
October 24, 2017
Rest in peace Dave!
Kevin Boylan
October 23, 2017
Dave was an angel among us. His loss hurts so much. I loved you David aka " Uncle Dave." From Gale Groesch and Megan Kowalczyk [Formerly Bauer]
John Gerity
October 23, 2017
Dave, May you have Godspeed in your journey, you were always a class act. The entire Respiratory Therapy has lost one of it's best!
Michele Lobman
October 23, 2017
So very sorry to hear of Dave's passing.
He has been a good friend for over 40 years.
We were very young when a group of us started at Chilton and all quickly bonded and have remained friends for over 40 years.
We shared so many happy hours, weddings, laughter, tears, good times and bad together over the years.
Dave's smile, laughter and big heart will be dearly missed.
Our deep sympathy to all of Dave's family and friends
Rest In Peace my friend
Love,
Michele and John Lobman
Joan Gromada
October 23, 2017
So sorry to hear of Dave's passing. We grew up together in West Paterson and shared many laughs because he had a fantastic sense of humor. My condolences to his family.
Renee Rainey
October 22, 2017
So sorry to hear of Dave's passing. The respiratory profession has lost a valuable resource. He will be missed. My condolences to his family.
Gina Gourley
October 22, 2017
Uncle Con,
We send our deepest sympathy and love to you at this very difficult time. We well know the hole in your heart that the loss of David brings. We also know that only time can begin to heal that wound. You and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers. We are sorry that we cannot make the trip to New Jersey at this time. May David rest in peace in God's hands and may you find peace and joy in your memories.
Love,
Joe and Gina
Robert Farrell
October 22, 2017
Thanks for the many years of our friendship, our days on the squad, and our many many trips to Las Vegas, Mississippi, and New Orleans. My down fall in life is I can't handle when my friends pass away. I tried my best to come and see you, but I just couldn't do it. I didn't want to see what the "Cancer" was doing to you. Thanks again for the great memories in Las Vegas with Kathy and Ray Pogwist. Can't believe that life has gone by so fast. I always hoped to move to Vegas. But not sure if that's will happen. Rest in peace and keeping laughing at the things we did with Kathy and Ray................... Best times.................. I will try my best to come and see you one last time, if I don't I am sorry my friend....................
October 22, 2017
Very sorry to hear of Dave's passing. We attended PCCC together in the RT program. He will be remembered as a kind and gentle man.
Harry Warner
Alan Crawford
October 22, 2017
So sorry to hear of Dave's passing. He and I were classmates in RT school at Passaic County Community College. Rest well freind
Alan Crawford
October 22, 2017
Sorry to hear of the passing of Dave. He and I were classmates at Passaic County Community College. He is well known and respected in the respiratory care community.
RIP freind
Alan Crawford
Richard Metz
October 22, 2017
So sorry to hear of his passing knew him at Chilton for many years great leader and friend. Richard Metz RN.
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