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Irine Fokine Obituary

Her 'Nutcracker'

ran for 52 years

Irine cq Fokine, who kept three generations of North Jersey dance students on their toes, died Sunday, three months after shuttering her iconic Ridgewood studio, Irine cq Fokine School of Ballet.

Miss Fokine, 88, had cancer, her family said.

The Russian-born Miss Fokine, niece of Michel cq Fokine, one of the most influential ballet choreographers of the 20th century, was a legend in her own right. She began teaching ballet in the basement of the Ridgewood Elks Club in 1950 and opened her Chestnut Street studio after several years.

She instructed thousands of students, many of whom went on to professional careers, and her company's production of "The Nutcracker" was a holiday season tradition in Bergen County. The 2009 production, at the Bergen Academies in Hackensack, was the Fokine School's 52nd annual, and final, "Nutcracker."

"My first year as a child in her 'Nutcracker,' I kept messing up my right foot with left foot during rehearsals," said Amanda Hankes, cq a member of the New York City Ballet. "Irine cq marched me over to the lost-and-found box in the corner of the studio, pulled out a leg warmer and tied it to my right ankle so I'd never forget right from left, and we continued on with rehearsal. I was terrified."

Hankes said Miss Fokine was tough and blunt, even scary. "But it toughened you up and gave you a thick skin, which is absolutely necessary in the |ballet world," Hankes said.

Miss Fokine's taskmaster reputation was well known. "She got results by intimidation," Leath cq Nunn, owner of Nunnbetter cq Dance Studio in Bergenfield, said in an admiring way. And Miss Fokine's daughter Donna Decker, who owns a ballet school in Oneonta, N.Y., said "she said, "She was tough on everybody  but we have so many life lessons from her.

"She taught us how to live," Decker said. "She taught us how to stand on our own two feet."

The energetic Miss Fokine was the first to admit her school was no walk in the park.

"I'm bringing up people. A part of ballet is learning to listen, and I'm teaching communication," she said in a 1970 interview with The Record.

"I don't think everyone should study ballet. The awkward kids, yes; it helps them. But parents have asked me to talk children into studying, |and sometimes when they hear what I say they hate my guts. |If a graceful little one doesn't like ballet but does like to |ride horses, why should she squat?"

Irine Fokine was born Sept. 20, 1922, in the Russian town of Vologda, where her father was a political prisoner. At age 2, she fled with her mother, the prima ballerina Alexandra Fedorova, to Latvia. Miss Fokine began studying ballet under her mother's tutelage at age 8.

After immigrating to New York in 1938, Miss Fokine danced in nightclubs and opera companies, among other venues. She married Don Decker at 18. The couple moved to Ridgewood after their third child was born, and Miss Fokine launched her teaching career. She also was a choreographer with many works to her credit.

"I'm thoroughly dedicated to my work  I hate to call it art," she told The Record in 1982. "I'm here every day in leotard and tights working out with my students. I can still outdance most of them, and I'm physically stronger than any of them."

Miss Fokine kept teaching after learning she had cancer. "She'd go through chemo and radiation at Sloan-Kettering, then go to the studio to lead her class," said daughter Nina Marlow.

The Irine Fokine School of Ballet closed Aug. 31, an event noted in Dance magazine.

Miss Fokine, who died while visiting family in Virginia, is survived by her children, Nina Marlow of Phoenix, Jon cq Decker of Buckingham, Va., Donna Decker of Oneonta, N.Y., and Michael Decker of Fort Bragg, Calif.; eight grandchildren, |eight great-grandchildren and one great-great-grandchild. Don Decker, from whom Miss Fokine was divorced, died in 1987.

Services are today at 11 a.m. at C.C. Van Emburgh Funeral Home, Ridgewood.

Donna Decker said closing the school was difficult for her mother, as was the reality there would be no more "Nutcracker."

"Several people said that's why she died now," Decker said. "She didn't want to go through the season without 'The Nutcracker.' "

Rachel Cahayla-Wynne, a Fokine School alumna, returned as a guest performer several times to play the Sugar Plum Fairy in Miss Fokine's "Nutcracker." The Ringwood native, a member of the Louisville (Ky.) Ballet, said she can't imagine Christmas in North Jersey without her demanding teacher leading "The Nutcracker." "Hers was such a staple. Everybody came to see it," Cahayla-Wynne said, adding: "Irine meant the world to me." E-mail: [email protected]
Published by The Record on Dec. 8, 2010.

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May 1, 2012

I was also a student of Miss Fokine for about 2 to 3 years? She was definitely a no nonsense teacher. I suppose to be a successful dancer, discipline is the key! She was tough as nails.
Margaret Schwed (Brooklyn, NY)

Margaret Schwed

May 1, 2012

I was also a student of Miss Fokine for about 2 to 3 years? She was definitely a no nonsense teacher. I suppose to be a successful dancer, discipline is the key! She was tough as nails.
Margaret Schwed (Brooklyn, NY)

oma cox

January 14, 2012

I took ballet from Miss Fokine in 1951 and 1952 and tho I was a little scared of her I thought she was the most elegant and important person in the world. I never forgot her. Fokine ballets are coming to the Kennedy Center soon and so I looked her up as I have done from time to time. She left a lasting impression on many - even on those who never became dancers.

Debbie (Durheimer)Townend

February 7, 2011

Miss Fokine was my first ballet teacher when I was 5 years old.
She was tough but I learned so much from her and I became such a strong dancer. I am now living in Florida and have been teaching ballet here for 12 years. I have 4 children who have all danced. Miss Fokine instilled a love for dance in me that I have been able to carry through to my own children as well as my students. She will be greatly missed!!! Debbie( Durheimer) Townend Palm Bay, FL

marianne melley

December 18, 2010

Miss Fokine use to make Mary Beth O'Connor and me laugh so hard we fell over. She'd mock students doing her potty-girl and horse imitation, insulting and instructing us at the same time, she could be very funny. I loved her and think of her often. I've a vision of her choreographing by the piano, with her hands, half hip on a stool, and a lit cigatrette smoking up.
My first class was when I was 5 with Gwen Laszlo.
Being under her tutelage for many years was my good fortune, she has given me great joy throughout the years, and I continue to apply what I learned then to what I study now ballroom/Latin/swing. I will continue to do her warm up exercises and think of her with the utmost love and respect.

December 13, 2010

Ms. Fokine,

You had such an influence on my life. The discipline and pure delight of "The Nutcracker" were vital experiences in growing up. Though I never made it out of the corps de ballet, I will always be grateful for the lessons I learned while studying with you.

Kathryn Komsa Schmidt

Dossy Vanderbeck

December 7, 2010

I took numerous ballet classes and performed under Irine Fokine's direction over a 5 year period in the mid- to late-1970s. I value Irine Fokine's dedication as a teacher and choreographer.

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