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Murray Meltzer Obituary
Murray A., MD, 80, of Goshen (Woodridge Lake), CT and Tenafly, NJ. An adored and admired surgeon who has left the world a better place. He is survived by his daughters Lori, Deanne and Jennifer; his sons-in-law Peter and Vineet, his grandchildren Trevor, Allison, Maya and Jake, his eldest brother Marty, and many much-loved cousins, nieces and nephews. He was a wonderful husband to his late wife of 47 years, Adrienne. He was a Professor of Ophthalmology and the Director of Ophthalmic Plastic Surgery at Mount Sinai Hospital in New York. He practiced medicine and taught younger physicians until the day he entered the hospital. He loved it so. Born in Brooklyn, NY, the youngest of three boys of the late Jacob and Rose Meltzer, and brother of the late Irwin, Murray graduated from New Utrecht High School, Cornell University, SUNY Downstate Medical College and went on to further training in New York and London. A memorial service will be held on Sunday, August 7, 2016 at 12 noon at Temple Sinai in Tenafly. Notes of condolence may be sent to [email protected]. Donations may be made to Virtuefoundation.org or mmrf.org.
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Eric Weiss
June 19, 2018
As Murray and Adrian's neighbor in Tenafly for many years, my memory of both of them remains very clear- helpful, kind, warm and loving. I ran into Muarry several years ago at a concert in Connecticut and it was a delightful and coincidental meeting. Lori and Jenn- please contact me if you would. It would be great to be back in touch. Adam and both of my parents join me in wishing you the best. Eric
Elss Flores
September 9, 2017
With all my love and respect
Donna Santaromita
June 8, 2017
I'm really sad to hear this. I was a patient of Dr. Meltzer and I was lucky to find him. As all have said, kind, gentle, knowledgeable and thorough. I'd like to share a story that makes me smile: I came to him after a harmless looking growth on my eyelid turned out to be a rare cancer. He performed my full excision (and by the way removed the stitches so gently with tweezers as to not hurt me). When I came in for my surgical follow up, he said "first, the good news" (just like you would say if there was both good and bad) so I tensed up and he said there were clear margins. Then he didn't say anything, so I said "what's the bad news?" He said in his kind sweet voice "oh, there is no bad news, I was just saying first the good news and then on with our appointment! I gave a huge sigh of relief and then my mom and I had a good laugh. I will miss him.
Hope Chasin
September 4, 2016
I was so very saddened to hear about Dr. Meltzer's death. He was my ophthalmologist for nearly 35 years and I always felt safe in his care because he was such a fine diagnostician. And as important to me was his being such a sensitive and kind man. Our visits always ended with a shared and heart-felt hug. My wish is that each day brings comfort to his family and friends in that a happy memory of him is remembered and stored in their hearts.
Sincerely, Hope Chasin
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Jerry Krase
September 3, 2016
Murray was a friend on and off the tennis court at Woodridge Lake for many years but still too short a time. A powerfully gentle man whose memory brings a smile to my face.
Stephen Drezen
September 2, 2016
To my dear friend and Tennis partner at Woodridge Lake, you will always be remembered as a great competitor on and off the court.
David Reifler
August 29, 2016
I wish to extend my sincere condolences to Dr. Meltzer's family. As this initial period of mourning comes to a close, I hope that friends or even one of Murray and Adrian's daughters will contact me to discuss a further written tribute for purposes as described below. (I may be reached at [email protected]).
Dr. Murray Meltzer z"l was one of my most beloved teachers during my fellowship year in New York City 1983-84 and a long-time colleague in our professional society the ASOPRS. My primary mentor, Dr. Albert Hornblass z"l was president of the Society in 1993 and I had the privilege of later serving as president in 2004. I am now seeking more biographical information from Murray's family and friends to write a short biography to include in a Society-sponsored book scheduled to be published in 2019. May Murray's memory be a blessing.
Nancy Snyder Rosenzweig
August 17, 2016
So sorry to hear about Murray's passing last night from Danny. We consulted with him when Gary was diagnosed with RP. He gave us advice as to where he should be seen.
Though I haven't seen you all in MANY YEARS, it still was sad to hear this news. Sending you all my sincerest sympathy at this tough time.
Alex Spyridaki - Anastassiou
August 13, 2016
He will always be in your heart and memories. Warmest sympathies. The Anastassiou Family
August 10, 2016
I am so pleased I had a chance to know Dr. Meltzer--both as the father of my dear friend Lori, and as my doctor for about 30 years. What a wonderful and kind person he was in all aspects of his life.
Geraldine McDonald
August 9, 2016
Rest in Peace, Dr. Meltzer. It was an honor to be in your care for so many years.
Jim Murtaugh
August 9, 2016
So saddened to hear of Murray's passing? He was just the nicest gentleman and neighbor and he will be sorely missed here at Woodridge Lake,
Jim Murtaugh
Emanuel Molho
August 9, 2016
Not only a great physician, but a humanitarian as well. They don't make them like that any more. Will be greatly missed.
Deborah Molho
August 8, 2016
My father Emanuel and I were saddened to hear of this news. Dr. Meltzer was our family doctor for many years, and he treated me throughout last year. We send our heartfelt condolences to his entire family. Sincerely, Deborah Molho and the Molho family.
August 8, 2016
I knew Murray at PS 103 in Boro Park.
I remember him as tall, thin, bright, and a friend of David Joroff.
An occasion I remember is that he walked me home from a halloween party in David's house on 52 St.
I had won the the bob for apples" contest, and my prize was that Murray would walk me home (to 51 Street). This was a big deal at
12 years old.
It is sad to learn of his death. It was a shock.
From the obituary, I can see that he was a man of extraordinary accomplishments and service. You sorrow will surely be lessened by wonderful memories.
Sincerely,
Sivia Karansky Kaye
Andrew Stewart
August 8, 2016
Murray was a humble man of great accomplishment - his even temperament, sense of empathy, work ethic and wide ranging aptitude made him a rare and wonderful human being. If there were more like him in the world, it would surely be a better place.
August 8, 2016
Is this the Murray Meltzer from Boro Park, Brooklyn?
I went to PS 103 with him-- and was a good friend in those early halcyon days.
Please answer on this: [email protected]
Veronika Byers
August 8, 2016
Dr. Meltzer was my doctor and he was always a very nice man. He took the time with every concern I had. May he rest in peace and I send my sincere condolences to his family and friends.
August 6, 2016
The entire Sloan family sends condolences to the Meltzer family. We shared many happy occasions and have many fond memories. Sending you our love, Karen & Steve, Mike & Tali, Jeff, Barry & Samantha
August 6, 2016
My heartfelt sympathies go out to the family and friends during this difficult time. I hope that the promise in 1 Thessalonians 4:14 can bring comfort. Knowing that there's a hope for the ones we have lost in death can be so reassuring.
Donna Mancini
August 6, 2016
Dear Lori,
I am so very very sorry to learn of your loss. My heart goes out to you at this painful time. Please know I will hold you and your family in the light.
Love,
Donna Mancini
Alan Friedman
August 6, 2016
Murray was a dear friend and colleague. I worked with him for over 40 years. He was the consumate teacher. Residents and attending s always available, always gracious. He will be sorely missed but always remembered with great affection
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