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Pamela Wilhelm Obituary
Pamela, F. (nee Brosnan), on Wednesday, December 31, 2014 of Westwood. Beloved wife of Walter. Devoted mother of Jessica Westefeld and her husband Jeff, Sarah Chrystal and her husband Matt and Adam Wilhelm. Dear sister of Neil and his wife Gail and Paul Brosnan. Loving grandmother of three grandchildren and beloved nieces and nephews. Pamela was Chief Executive Officer of The Way It Was, Inc., Spring Valley, NY for 40 years until her retirement in 2013. Visitation will be at Becker Funeral Home, 219 Kinderkamack Road, West-wood on Monday 6-9 PM. A chapel service will be held on Tuesday at the Brigadier General William C. Doyle Veteran Memorial Cemetery, Arneytown, NJ. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Diabetes Assoc., 1701 North Beauregard St., Alexandria, VA 22311. 1-800-DIABETES. Send condolences at www.becker-funeralhome.com
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Jessica Westefeld
January 10, 2015
Thank you to everyone's kind words and condolences with regards to my mom's untimely passing...I think we are all in shock and deep mourning. ..I loved her with all of my soul and being...I will continue her legacy of kindness and gratuity. ..she was beautiful inside and out. ..I will love her for eternity.
Helene and Jim Nelson
January 8, 2015
So shocked to hear about Pam. Sometimes there are just no words to say those things that are deepest in our hearts. Many, many memories to cherish.
Wishing you peace and love at this difficult time.
God Bless you and your family.
Gina Perez
January 6, 2015
Walter and family,
I just heard..I am so saddened to hear about Pam's passing. She was a wonderful, strong, sweet lady. You and your family have my DEEPEST condolences. May she rest in peace and may you take comfort in knowing that you have an angel to watch over you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
I am so sorry.
Gina (hairdresser)
Anna Horne
January 5, 2015
God entered another angel.
Anna Horne
January 5, 2015
Rest In Peace dear sister in law.Until our souls and spirits meet again. God will take of you and your family.
Love, Anna
Tashi and Sandy Butterfield
January 5, 2015
Dear Wilhelm Family, Our sincere condolences for the loss of your loved one.
John & Mary Plummer
January 5, 2015
Dearest Walter & Family,
Our hearts are heavy for you and your family at Pam's passing. We wish we could be there to comfort & support you. Pam was a great lady & we will miss her.
We love you and are here for you.
John & Mary Plummer & Robert
January 5, 2015
Loved you and your family from the start.could not have wished for a better mother in law for my son.Thank you for being a wonderful part of our lives. Joyce Chrystal and Family
Jessica Wilhelm-Westefeld
January 4, 2015
I will miss you mom...you were my best friend...until we meet again...your devoted daughter, Jessica
dan plummer
January 4, 2015
Walt,Jess,Adam,Sarah,
I am so very sorry to hear about Pam.
You four were were her entire world and all that really mattered to her. I truly believe that what Pam would want for you now would be that you all take care of each other through this impossibly difficult time.
I know how much Pam worshiped all of you, (including your great dogs) and that she deserved every ounce of love you gave her in return.
She will be missed, and again, I'm deeply sorry.
troutboy
Andree & Jack Manheimer
January 4, 2015
Walter, Jessica, Sarah and Adam, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Your wife/mother was an incredible human being. I loved her even though we had not seen each other in a long time. God bless you all.
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