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Thomas D. Barr

1935 - 2020

Thomas D. Barr obituary, 1935-2020, Wood-Ridge, NJ

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Thomas Barr Obituary

Thomas D. Barr

Wood-Ridge - Thomas D. Barr born October 6, 1935 in Jersey City, NJ, long time resident of Wood-Ridge, NJ passed in peace Tuesday June 16, 2020 at the age of 84 in Hackensack, NJ. Thomas graduated from Wood-Ridge High School in 1953 and upon turning 18, volunteered for the draft and went into the Army as a paratrooper assigned to the 307th Combat Engineers. He served from 1953-1955 and then attended Fairleigh Dickinson University for two years. In 1958, he took the police exam and became a police officer in Wood-Ridge. In 1959, he graduated from the NJ State Police Academy in Sea Girt, NJ. He married the love of his life, "Ginny" in 1962 and then worked as a police officer in Wood-Ridge until 1965. He started with the Waterfront Commission of NY and NJ that same year as a grade three detective and earned two promotions to grade one. He then went into organized crime, racketeering investigations and major theft cases, developing an organized crime unit. Because of his knowledge, the FBI requested he be assigned to the organized crime unit in which he worked from 1994-1997. He retired in 1997 and was presented with a Senate Resolution from the State of New Jersey commending him. Thomas was a NJ State PBA Life Member and a member of Eclipse Mason Lodge. He enjoyed camping, competition shooting, reading, traveling, spending time with his family and friends, pancake breakfasts at IHOP with his sister Jane, and sitting by a fire. He is predeceased in death by his wife Virginia "Ginny" Barr, and grandson Gregory A. Stefanco. He will forever be cherished in the lives of his children, Chuck (Debra), and Carolyn, his grandchildren Koury, Travis, Jordan, Shannon, and Kailynn, seven great grandchildren and his loving sister Jane Gardella. Visitation Tuesday 4-8 PM at Kohler Funeral Home, 280 Hackensack St. Wood-Ridge, with services beginning at 7:15 PM. Cremation is private. Donations to the American Cancer Society would be appreciated.

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Published by The Record/Herald News from Jun. 19 to Jun. 21, 2020.

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Cheryl Miller-Simpson

June 25, 2020

Krissie and I have been friends for what seems like a lifetime. When I first met Tommy, her Uncle Tommy became my Uncle Tommy, and thats all I ever called him. When he was volunteering at HUMC and I would see him coming down the hall, what I always saw first was that big, beautiful smile of his! He was such a great guy, always doing for others which was proven by all the time he gave to the hospital, and his time in the Army and his long career with the Wood-Ridge Police Department.
I know he will be greatly missed by his family. My special love to Janie.
Rest in peace Uncle Jimmy. Everyone who knew you will keep that smile alive.

Kathleen Rumsby

June 20, 2020

I'm so sorry for the loss of your father. I worked with Ginny at Silk City Academy. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most sorrowful time.

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Kohler Funeral Home

280 Hackensack St., Wood Ridge, NJ

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23

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7:15 p.m.

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280 Hackensack St., Wood Ridge, NJ

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