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Thomas Anthony, age 64, of Haledon, passed away on Friday, April 20, 2012. Born in Englewood, he lived in Haledon for 28 years and was formerly from Elmwood Park and Paramus.
He grew up in Paramus, enjoyed being a Boy Scout and played Little League there; graduated from Paramus High School in 1965 and played trumpet in the band while in high school. He briefly attended Glassboro State College. Tom worked for ITT Artic Services where he met his wife and sweetheart, Dolores (Dee) (nee King), who worked for ITT Federal Electric. Together, they attended Woodstock and were married on a snowy December 14, 1969. After leaving ITT, Tom briefly worked as a loading dock worker and then became a driving school instructor. He later followed his father's footsteps and became an oil burner technician and then opened his own oil burner repair business.
He was an avid hockey fan and a goalie in organized, amateur ice hockey leagues and played with the Westwood Suns, the North Stars, and briefly played with the New York Fire Department. He was also an avid bowler. Tom also enjoyed playing the trumpet and flugelhorn on his church worship team when he attended Wyckoff Assembly of God. He also enjoyed being a member of the Jacksonville Chapel Concert Band for a few years.
He enjoyed fishing and was a member of the Bergen Bassmasters, a competitive bass fishing club and was club secretary for a brief period.
But Tom was most happy when he was out in his boat on Rangeley Lake in Maine or fishing from the dock with his daughter Tammy, son-in-law Ray Biggs and grandkids Courtney and Joshua, or playing croquet with his wife and friends, or playing Monopoly or Ticket-To-Ride board games, or a game of Uno at a kitchen table.
Sadly, due to deteriorating health conditions, Tom had to give up all the activities that made him happy, but not until leaving us a lifetime of love and happiness. Besides his immediate family and closest friends, Tom is also survived by his loving step-mother Elaine Framm, and cousins in Michigan and New Jersey. We will all miss him. He is pre-deceased by his mother Lillian (VanDelden) Bubendorf, his father Thomas Amedeo Framm, and his step-father, George Bubendorf
Arrangements are being handled by Vander Plaat-Caggiano Funeral Home, 13-31 Saddle River Rd., Fair Lawn, NJ. Viewing will be Wednesday, April 25, from 2-4 and from 7-9 PM, with a service starting at 8 PM. Cremation will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations to the USO, Metropolitan New York Chapter would be appreciated. Donations can be made at www.usonyc.org

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Published by The Record/Herald News on Apr. 23, 2012.

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Tryphena Keh

April 29, 2012

Words fall short of expressing our sorrow for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

steven newman

April 29, 2012

Dee,Tammy, I have nothing but fond memories of Tommy fishing, gong to concerts for less than 5 dollars,and so many others. No one had a bigger heart than Tom and you could always count on Tom being there for you. One of my favorite people to ever grace this earth, he will be sorely missed. All my love.

April 25, 2012

Dear Dee, We are so saddened to hear about Tom. We enjoy such beautiful memories of you and Tom and Wyckoff Assembly. You were always such wonderful examples of Christ's love. We take comfort that Tom is now fully restored and in God's care. With our deepest sympathy, John & Nancy Bolster

Linda Whitley

April 25, 2012

Dolores, I have only just heard of Tom's passing and wanted you to know I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with your family to bring comfort to you in this time and be able to celebrate his life and his love of family in the future.

Sarah Tyler

April 25, 2012

Dee and family,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May your memories of family game nights and God's love help you heal. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jennifer Henderson

April 25, 2012

Dee - you are in my thoughts and prayers. Hope the wonderful memories of your husband give you comfort in this difficult time.

Ms. C Montanez

April 24, 2012

Dearest Dee, My thoughts are with you and the Family. What a touching thought to think you had such a long and wonderful life with him. You will always have Woodstock, I hope that brings a smile, and many other memories to come.

April 24, 2012

Dearest Dee,

I'm so sorry for your loss. May your memories give you comfort and may God give you peace, strength and love during this difficult time. I will be praying for you and your family.

With deepest sympathy,

Vicki Cannon

Joanne Engle

April 23, 2012

Dearest mr framm
Your spirit lives on in your family. You were well loved by many. The most gentlest soul I had the pleasure of knowing.
Fly high my friend
And may Gods arms surround your family at their time of need

toni weininger

April 23, 2012

Dear Dee and Family,

I'm so so sorry for your loss. I'm here for you if you need anything, especially at work.

Rosemarie Cresenta

April 23, 2012

Dee and Family,

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

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