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Thomas Gorman Obituary

GORMAN Thomas J., Sr., 93 of Dumont NJ passed away on Monday, March 14, 2011. He was the beloved husband of the late Veronica M. Gorman (Scheideler). The devoted father of Kathy Brock, Mary (James) Sweeney, Theresa (Steve) Fox, Joanne Hogan (Bob Kakascik), Rosanne Hawxhurst (Nelson Smith), Jean (James) Shaffer, Jacqueline Macchio (Mike Boyle), John (Marybeth), Thomas Jr. (Ginny), and Theodore (Diane) Gorman. Cherished grandfather of Wayne (Jennifer), Kendra, Courtney (Richard), Sean (Maryann), Ryan, Melinda (Matt), Christopher, Brittany (Matt), Michael (Lindsay), Alyson (Gerry), Jimmy, Colleen, Meghan (Danny), Kristin (Anthony), Natalie (Mark), Justin (Casey), Stephanie, Nick, Alex, Teddy (Lindsey), and Joey. Great-grandfather of nine. He is survived by his sister Jane Bradley, brother Peter and several nieces and nephews. Tom was a 1938 graduate of Dumont High School. He was a WWII veteran and retired Major of the NJ Army National Guard. He retired from the U.S. Postal Service (Dumont) in 1972. Tom taught Physical Education and coached basketball at St. Mary's Grammar School for 17 years and coached basketball at St. Joe's High School (Montvale) in the early 1970's. He retired as Equipment Manager from Bergen Community College. He was a high school football, soccer, basketball, and baseball official for over 25 years. Tom was inducted into the N.J. Soccer Officials Hall of Fame in 2010. He served on the Dumont Board of Education from 1965-70, was head of Dumont Recreation 1969-73, and was an exempt Fireman from the Dumont Fire Department. Tom was a life member of the St. John's Knights of Columbus, Council 1345 and an active member of VFW (Dumont), Catholic War Vets, St. Mary's Church Community and numerous other service organizations. A funeral mass will be held Saturday 11 AM at St. Mary's R.C. Church, Dumont. Interment George Washington Memorial Park. The family will receive friends Thursday and Friday 3-8 PM at the Frech Funeral Home, 161 Washington Ave., Dumont. In lieu of flowers the family would appreciate contributions be made to Hospice of Monroe County, RR5, Box 5169, Suite 1, East Stroudsburg, PA 18301 or the Special Childrens Fund, St. John's Knights of Columbus, Council 1345, 61 Armour Pl., Bergenfield, NJ 07621.

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Published by The Record/Herald News on Mar. 16, 2011.

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April 5, 2011

To the Gorman Family
I pray that you all will be encouraged knowing that he lived a long and very full life and he touched so many people along the way. He was always such a happy man and brought laughter everywhere he went. He left a lasting impression on me and I have thought of him often since meeting him back in NJ. Hold on to the memories of this precious man. He will be missed and thought of often. May God's peace be with you all.
Kevin and Benita West

March 18, 2011

To the Gorman Family
How sad; another part of the Dumont Dunne's childhood gone away.
He will be greatly missed. We will remember him and his family in our prayers.
The Dunne Family
Bob,Kevin,Sharon,Pat and Jeff Dunne

Karen Hanna

March 16, 2011

I am very sorry for your loss. He was a great guy and will be missed. He always made me smile when I waited on your table. Now he's at peace.

John Kuhn

March 16, 2011

I have fond memories of Tom as manager of Dumont Alumni football team, at the Post Office, and the National Guard. He lived a great life and left a great legacy to us all.

Ken & Marci Mast

March 16, 2011

I met Mr. Gorman at Ted's Retirement Ceremony at Charleston AFB. We instantly bonded and I did my best to visit with him when he stayed with Ted and Diane. Our most memorable moment was at Teddy's wedding reception. As I approached, Mr. Gorman was talking to my wife about the display of wedding photos. I jokingly asked him, "Are you getting fresh with my wife?" to which he quickly replied, "not yet!" We laughed so hard I still laugh out loud each time I recall that precious moment. My family extends our thoughts and prayers to everyone that Mr. Gorman touched. He was a father to all of us.

Len Loran

March 16, 2011

A great man & a good friend. May he rest in peace. My most sincere condolence John.

Jim & JoAnn Carney

March 16, 2011

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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