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William Hardy Heaney

1945 - 2020

William Hardy Heaney obituary, 1945-2020, Oshkosh, WI

William Heaney Obituary

William Hardy Heaney

An anthropologist, fisherman, and photographer who always wanted "just one more" photo of his family, "just one more" book, "just one more" cast in a river's fading light—died Wednesday, November 25th, in Billings, Montana. Bill, as family and friends knew him, bravely fought COVID-19 for four weeks before he succumbed. He was 75.

A former resident of Ridgewood, New Jersey, Bill was born on April 10th, 1945 in Washington, D.C. and grew up in Oshkosh, Wisconsin. He will be interred there, joining his parents Samuel and Susan Heaney, and brother Curtis Heaney, who all preceded him in death. He is survived by Vivian Gallagher Heaney, his wife of twenty-seven years, and their son Douglas; his son Christopher Heaney, daughter-in-law Hannah Carney, and grandchildren Curtis and Jack; his daughter Jessica Heaney; and his former spouse Brigid O'Brien, mother of Christopher, Jessica, and Nicholas, Bill's second son, who also preceded him in death.

Bill's friends remember him as a man with "insatiable curiosity and a boundless heart," who was interested in everything and talked to everyone—at length. His family remembers him as a caring husband, loving father, and delighted grandfather, who took them on the outdoor adventures he loved so much.

Bill spent his life in motion, but his wide-ranging mind was never far from the Wisconsin of his childhood. He cherished memories of time spent on its water with family and friends. He supported Oshkosh's institutions, facilitating a 2003 illustrated history of the city, on the occasion of its 150th anniversary.

His travels began early. Bill graduated from the Hotchkiss School in Lakeville, Connecticut and continued his studies at Amherst College, from which he graduated in 1968. After college, Bill taught reading in New York City schools, driving a taxi on the weekends. He earned a PhD in anthropology from Columbia University's Teacher's College, which took him to the South West Pacific. Between researching migration and economic opportunity in the Wahgi Valley of Papua New Guinea, he made himself useful. When one of his Omngar hosts was killed in a road accident, Bill assisted in the rescue of his minman, his soul, so that it would not wander aimlessly.

He made a family of his own. In 1981, after teaching at the University of Papua New Guinea in Port Moresby, Bill returned to the United States. He worked in finance and non-profit administration, earning an MBA from Yale University's School of Management. After several years as the administrator of Columbia's Lamont-Doherty Earth Observatory, he taught classes in anthropology at Columbia and the University of Wisconsin in Oshkosh. In Ridgewood, New Jersey he raised Christopher, Jessica, and Douglas, and was a member of Christ Church. When he lost his brother to HIV/AIDS in 1991, he established a fund at Yale in Curt's name, to support research into the global treatment of that pandemic.

With Vivian, his explorations never ceased. Together, after Ridgewood, they have lived in Oshkosh; Big Timber, Montana; and Waimea, Hawaii. He and Vivian traveled widely, with Bill trying to flyfish in whatever state or country they were in. A true Renaissance man, Bill patented a device to stop wind from carrying away his fishing line.

Bill's sudden loss leaves a hole in the lives of his family, who looked forward to many more meals, holidays, and adventures together. If they could, they would laugh with him just one more time.

No funeral service has been planned at this time. Condolences, and inquiries regarding contributions in his memory, may be sent to [email protected]. His family will have a party to celebrate him when it is safe.

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Published by The Ridgewood News from Dec. 8 to Dec. 18, 2020.

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justin grimes

May 6, 2021

i played rugby with bill at amherst. a great adventurer.

Karl Rambo

December 24, 2020

I didn’t know Bill really well, but we shared similar interests in anthropology and, before I went to study rural migrants in the highlands of Papua New Guinea, I read his dissertation. We later connected at meetings and he was always generous with his knowledge and encouraging about my work. I was particularly interested in migration between rural areas and Bill was able to tell me a lot about the migration history of the people with whom he worked. In the 1990s, as a newly graduated PhD, when I had few connections to the more senior people in the field, he was very helpful and went out of his way at several academic conferences to talk over ideas with me.
What a delightful and nice man he was! An on-line conversation occurred on the Association of Social Anthropology in Oceania discussion list over the last few weeks and everyone remarked on how he was a long-term and enthusiastic participant in the annual meetings. I would like his family to know that he was a respected and valued member of our group of New Guinea specialists and will sorely miss him.

Barbara Riefler Hammond

December 18, 2020

Bill was a kind, gentle soul
With an easy smile for all. My memories were not only at Yale, but also at Boyd’s Fishing Camp in Wisconsin where my husband’s family has enjoyed generations of fishing and family fun. It’s been 10 years since we saw Bill at Boyd’s, but so enjoyed catching up. I extend a warm embrace to all his family and know they were graced by a loving spirit which we were all blessed to know.

Charles Williams

December 18, 2020

For some reason this message from Bill in July 2019 appeared as I was scrolling thru my text messages today. I hope he would not mind if I shared it but it gives insight into the person he was and his relationship with my aunt Charlotte aka Bunks:
“Chuck, hello and a Happy July 4th to you and yours!

By any chance did I miss the materials you sent re Charlotte’s passing. I often think of her, the last of my parents generation I knew well and enjoyed her company immensely. A psychologist once mentioned to me that there are some people you meetand maybe only spend a few hours with but you come away from them feeling they have enhanced your life two fold or ten fold. They are unusual and very precious and certainly not a dime a dozen in my life of late.“Bunks” was one of them from the very first time I met her and her husband in their apartment on Claremont when I was a Ist year graduate student to the last meal that Charlotte, Vivian, and I shared at Evergreen manor.

I will search my emails and let you know what I come up with. If I can’t find your email with Charlotte’s info and obit (not unlikely given the state of my email collection!), I’ll let you know and request that you please email them again if possible. I would still like to send my condolences, and share a few of my/our memories of our delightful encounters with Charlotte (perhaps adventures is a better description) with her daughter and son.

Thank you for your assistance with this, Chuck. To me Charlotte was a wonder, one of the first persons in her generation or before to venture forth to NYC and Columbia; but she also gave me a rich insight into the world my mom, Susan Hardy, and her sister, my aunt Dory, grew up in that I would have never learned otherwise. They had both passed more than 40 years before Charlotte’s death in ‘17. That is also something also precious to me, some of which I have tried to pass on to my children who knew my hometown only from summer visits to their Grandad over 20 years ago. Now, Iwish I had asked her a 100 more questions!

My best wishes to you and your family for a lovely, old time, long July 4th weekend. Looking forward to hearing from you. Cheers, Bill

my mail address is still the same ol’
< [email protected] >>

Richard Hoffmaster

December 17, 2020

Bill was always there for me, he was a brother. Early in our youth we leaned on each other, shared thoughts, frustrations and visions. Yes, we lived in Oshkosh and had many mutual friends, but we both loved to travel, this separated us from our community. It was there that I learned to lean on and trust Bill. He always understood.

My Mother saw the many fine points of this sartorial thinker. Together they shared many dinners and discussions. I never figured out how he knew when we were having lamb croquettes. He loved them -- or maybe it was the mint sauce.

Kudos to the writer(s) of his obituary. Bill’s character and wisdom was captured, though understated. I have thought often of Bill, have a photo of him with the natives of New Guinea, taken during his first visit there – he is smiling and what a smile it was.

I will remember him with a smile and miss him with a tear.


Richard Hoffmaster

Frankie Pang

December 15, 2020

Bill was a member of St James Episcopal Parish on the Big Island. I met him while volunteering at the church's weekly Community Meal. Bill was a humble and gentle man, always wanting to help, and always with a camera close by. I remember him one time following a feral hen and a dozen chicks around the church grounds, taking pictures and marveling how she could care for so many little ones. Rest in peace my friend, you entered into glory way too soon for us in Waimea.

Laura Zimmer-Tamakoshi

December 14, 2020

Like me and a number of other anthropologists, Bill Heaney did fieldwork in Papua New Guinea. Several years ago he came up with the idea to organize a session on First Fieldwork in the Pacific between the years 1960-1985. He invited me to be his co-organizer. After a number of sessions at the Association for Social Anthropology in Oceania, he and I and other participants produced a collection, which I edited and which the University of Hawai'i Press published in 2018. Bill wrote about his first fieldwork in PNG and used this photo to illustrate his chapter. The photo was taken in 1975. Bill was full of ideas and knowledge and reining that in so that his paper would fit the word limits set by the press was challenging but ended very well.

Ken Gaherty

December 14, 2020

Bill, Ken and Pete taking a Haagen Dazs break at the Slide Inn on the Madison River during one of our many fishing trips to Montana from NY.
Bill was a true friend, always fun to be with and a truly great fly fisherman. I will always remember those trips and Bill’s socks dry out of the car windows as we motored around the west.

Charles Williams

December 14, 2020

So sad to hear this. I enjoyed getting to know Bill thru my aunt Charlotte Mundy who lived in Columbia faculty housing, and I believe his mom was a Ponkapoag Campfire Girl with my aunt in Oshkosh. Bill is at the top of the page of Acknowledgements of those supporting the 2003 book “Oshkosh at 150” where the author Michael Goc wrote in the introduction: “The support, patience, and editorial input of William Heaney is much appreciated. Part of a three-generation Oshkosh newspaper family, Dr. Heaney has never lost his affection for his old hometown.”

Steve Spicer

December 14, 2020

R.I.P. Bill. A classmate at Campus School in Oshkosh, class of 1959, Bill was often up to hijinks and fun. I wish we'd kept in touch.

Simone Taylor

December 13, 2020

No one can prepare you for a loss; it comes like a swift wind. However, take comfort in knowing God is with you and your family lean on him in your time of need. Please accept my most heartfelt condolences.

Joe Burgert

December 12, 2020

Bill was the “real deal!” His quest for knowledge was unbridled. I am saddened to have missed commiserating with Bill in our 2nd Half of life.

To his loving family, I add - Bill was unique! All should be proud to have labeled him as friend.

Joe Burgert

David Vander Linden (Schwalm House)

December 12, 2020

The Oshkosh Area Humane Society would like to express its condolences to Vivian, and Bill's entire family. We are sorry for your loss.

We are also very grateful to Bill and Vivian for all the kindness and donations given to the Humane Society through the years.

Our sympathy to each of you at this very difficult time.

Tom Grogan

December 12, 2020

He walked - he talked - he knew many things and enriched the lives of many people. He was a genuine original.

Jack Kelly and Family

December 11, 2020

Bill Heaney was a good and loyal friend. I enjoyed his unique perspective on countless topics even when we disagreed on some. He was generous and thoughtful, two qualities sadly missing these days. Shortly before his death he was discussing a new philanthropic venture. His was a life well lived, as they say. May he rest in peace.

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