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Jerome U. Ethier

1944 - 2021

Jerome U. Ethier obituary, 1944-2021, Pomfret, CT

BORN

1944

DIED

2021

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Putnam, Connecticut

Jerome Ethier Obituary

Jerome U. Ethier 1944 - 2021
Pomfret - Jerome (Jerry) U. Ethier, 76, died Wednesday evening, January 27, 2021 at Westview Healthcare Center following a ten-year battle with Parkinson's Disease. He was the loving husband of Diane (Morrissette) Ethier for 47 years. Born in Putnam, he was the son of the late Urbain and Lucille (Bouthillier) Ethier.
Jerry grew up in Putnam and graduated from St. Mary's School and Marianapolis Preparatory School. He served as a Personnel Services technician in the U.S. Air Force from 1965 to 1971, earning the rank of Staff Sergeant.
Jerry's childhood interest in aviation and construction shaped his life's work and experiences. In the 70's and early 80's he worked at Metal Mast Marine in Putnam as a ship's carpenter and maintenance mechanic and at J. Gibson McIlvain Lumber in Danielson as a millwork foreman and operations mechanic.
Jerry then worked as a self-employed tradesman in residential construction and design. His biggest project was designing and building his dream house for his family. Years of research, planning, hard work and creativity led to an earth-sheltered, passive solar, post and beam masterpiece.
When he was fifty, Jerry started taking flying lessons to fulfill a life-long dream of becoming a private pilot. He earned his pilot's license, bought a 1946 Taylorcraft airplane, and decided to go back to school. He enrolled in The School of Aircraft Maintenance at Harvard H. Ellis Regional Vocational Technical School. Jerry received his certification in the Airframe and Power Plant Course in 2001.
Jerry was a loving husband, father and grandfather who will be sadly missed. He was a true jack-of-all-trades, always willing to help family and friends with all types of projects. Left to cherish his memory are his wife, Diane; his sons, Neal Ethier and his wife Amy of Woodstock and Daniel Ethier and his wife Heather of Plainfield; and grandchildren Emma, Ava, Caroline and Samuel. Jerry was predeceased by his granddaughter Ella Mae Ethier.
The family would like to thank the nurses and staff at Westview for their compassionate and loving care over the last two years.
A celebration of life will be held at a later time. Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to the Gilman Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Church St., Putnam. For memorial guestbook please visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.

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Published by Norwich Bulletin from Jan. 29 to Jan. 31, 2021.

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Don and Peggy Burton

January 31, 2021

I was surprised to read about Jerry's passing. Please accept our sincerest condolences at this time of such loss. I always enjoyed chatting with Jerry at my dad's house. He will be sorely missed. God bless Jerry and your entire family.

Christina Tomeo

January 30, 2021

So very sorry to hear this! Jerry was a very kind man with a smile that lit up the room!

Christina Tomeo

January 30, 2021

I am so very sorry to hear of Jerry’s passing, he was a very kind man with a smile that would light up a room! Thinking of you all!

Christina Tomeo

January 30, 2021

I am so very sorry to hear of Jerry’s passing, he was a very kind man with a smile that would light up a room! Thinking of you all!

CHRISTINE BOUCHARD

January 30, 2021

Diane,
I'm so sorry to hear of Jerry's passing.
Jerry was such an amazing man. I loved working rehab when he was there. He was the best parts of my day. You and him were such a great match. I hope you find comfort.

Gloria DuBois Plante

January 30, 2021

Jerome was my classmate at St. Mary's School from 1949 - 1958. I remember liking him very much and missed him after graduation when we went to different schools. He was a nice boy. He must have been a very nice man. My condolences to his family.

Robin Carpenter

January 30, 2021

I am so sorry to hear of Jerome’s passing. He was such a nice man and always a pleasure to talk to. He was especially kind to our family. Prayers for peace.

Alana Krasley

January 29, 2021

One of my favorite parts of my day was seeing your contagious smile and reading airplane books with you. I know you’re eating lots of Oreo cookies and smart food up in heaven. Fly high my sweet Jerry❤

Michelle Daniels

January 29, 2021

Diane and family...I am so sorry for your loss. Jerry was a special part of my day. Will never forget our days together. Hugs and prayers to all of you. RIP JERRY...

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