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Shirley Fatone Obituary

Shirley J. Fatone July 18, 1935 - July 11, 2010 Preston - Shirley Jane (Beetham/Taggart) Fatone, 74, of 71 Middle Rd, Preston, wife of Gaetano George Fatone, died Sunday morning at home surrounded by her family after a long struggle with Corticobasal Degeneration, a rare progressive degenerative neurological disorder. Born in Norwich on July 18, 1935 she was the daughter of the late Howard Russell and Mary (West) Beetham, Sr. She attended the Uncasville School in Montville where she excelled academically. She graduated 3rd in her class from Norwich Free Academy Class of 1953. While attending NFA, she worked at the Lincoln Department Store in Norwich and after graduation she accepted a job at the American Thermos Company as a secretary stenographer for the comptroller where she worked for many years. On September 19, 1964 in St. Patrick Cathedral she was united in marriage to Gaetano George Fatone. Shirley was a past member of the Norwich Italian Women's Social Club. Surviving is her husband of 45 years, Gaetano George Fatone of Preston; three sons Thomas Taggart and his wife Linda of Kansas, Randall Taggart of Norwich, and George Fatone and his wife Michele of North Stonington, and a daughter Melanie Fatone and her husband David Vane of Salem; a brother Howard Russell Beetham, Jr. of Montville and a sister Minnie Manuzzi of Preston; six grandchildren Michael, Joel, Kyle, Dylan, Morgan, and Samuel, four great grandchildren, and several nieces, nephews, and cousins. Visitation Tuesday 5 to 7 p.m. at the Labenski Funeral Home, 107 Boswell Ave., Norwich, where the funeral will gather on Wednesday at 10 a.m. followed by a funeral home service at 11 a.m. Burial to follow in Maplewood Cemetery. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to the Foundation for PSP/CBD and Related Brain Diseases either online at www.give.psp.org or by mail to CurePSP, Executive Plaza III, 11350 McCormick Rd., Suite 906, Hunt Valley, MD 21031, please make checks payable to CurePSP.

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Published by Norwich Bulletin on Jul. 12, 2010.

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Linda Urbinati

July 24, 2010

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Herb, Tim & Josh Pray

July 14, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Missy Jenkins

July 13, 2010

My heart breaks for all of you, however it smiles with you with the memories you have. Your wife and mother was so lucky to have the love given to her during her last few moments with you. Mel,I watched you handle yourself with great poise and strength. Mr. Fatone you reminded me what it means to love till death do you part. It was my honor to be allowed to share a few moments together with you and Shirley. You all can rest now because she is. My sincerest sympathy to you all.
Mrs Fatone you did a great job, peace with you now. Love Missy

Cindy wilson

July 13, 2010

To Dr. Fatone and Family,
I am sorry for your loss of your mom. May your thoughts and memories of your mom be instilled into your heart and in some way give you comfort and peace.

Bob Aldi

July 13, 2010

My deepest sympathy on your loss. She was a wonderful wife, great mom and a dear friend and I will always cherish the memories I have of her.

Mindy Gates

July 13, 2010

7/13/10

To the Fatone family;

I am very sorry to hear about your recent loss.

I will not be able to attend: but my condolences are with you and your family.

Mindy Gates

Suzy Sholly

July 13, 2010

Dr. Fatone & Family,
I'm sorry to hear about your mom. My thoughts are with you.

Lisa Nigrelli Daley

July 13, 2010

George and the Fatone family,

Sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

I lost my Dad last summer, so I understand how hard it is for you all right now. She is with God and being well taken care of.

Life is very short here on Earth and you will be reunited with her sooner than you think. She is waiting in Heaven for your arrival.

K St Hilaire

July 13, 2010

Thoughts and Prayers are with you all.
Live in the memories. God Bless.

Jeanne Moorton

July 12, 2010

Dear George and family,
I am so sorry about your loss. Your Mom is in my prayers, as are you in your time of sorrow.
With deepest sympathy,

Barbara (LaBounty), Schuler

July 12, 2010

George, Russ and family:
My deepest sympathy to you and your families at this very sad time.

July 12, 2010

Dear Uncle George, Cousins George, Melanie and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Aunt Shirley was so good to us all. Always a kind welcome, a wonderful smile and laugh. We will miss her very much. Lu Fatone Mulla, Jim and Brittany

Gina Lamperelli

July 12, 2010

George, Michele and Sammy,
So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Just remember, our lives are not on this earth forever but our memories last eternally

Jim and Annemarie Sheehan

July 12, 2010

Dear George, Randy and family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of great sorrow. With deepest sympathy,

chris synott

July 12, 2010

Melanie, I am really sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers, God bless.

Christine (Johnson) Synott

Bob Durbois

July 12, 2010

Dear Melanie and Family,
May you find comfort in knowing that Shirley is experiencing the eternal promise given to us when Jesus said, "I am the Resurection and the life. He who believes in Me shall live; even if he dies." John 11:25
Your friends at The Master's Construction Corp.

Dawn Nieto

July 12, 2010

Melanie and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Sincerely,
Dawn Nieto

(-=< Ray 'n' Mindy Hamilton >=-)

July 12, 2010

Dear Gaetano, George, Michele, and the entire Fatone/Taggart Family,

Understanding the hole left behind, regardless the inevitability or forewarning, pray this helps some wee bit...to allow...enable…the grief! So truly sorry to hear about your wife...mom...grandmother...friend. Shirley’s now at peace with our Lord…but definitely keepin’ y’all in our prayers!

When my mother died, even after a years-long battle with cancer, I was shattered by the loss…inconsolable…she was my mentor! I like to think that I got my character from my father, but my mind and its capacity from m’dear sainted mother!!! BUT, "If your faith assures you she's in heaven, then what are the tears all about?!?" I hold eternity with my God dearly close...a cherished, hard-won prize...but, in the interim, that answer lies below.

SELFISH TEARS
(I Eulogize My Beloved Mother - March, 1989)

Today we cry...must admit they're selfish tears.
You see...our faith assures your journey's done.
But it's not for you we mourn, at all, my dear;
It's for those of us you've left behind...alone!!!

We share your joy...share your happiness at rest,
Your painful fears now for forever stilled.
You've fought the good fight, passed the final test,
But you've left behind a hole that can't be filled!!!

So, until we each rejoin you some someday,
And, while your memory buoys us through those years,
We'll miss you...but continue on our way,
And, from time to time, we'll cry our selfish tears!!!

Ray Hamilton (c) March 19, 1989

Our fond, sincerest condolences and prayers,

William Norton

July 12, 2010

George, Michele, and Sammy:
Very sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. I know she meant alot to you. I never met your Mom, but she seemed like a remarkable lady and you will always carry a piece of her around. Please accept my sincere condolences.

Marilyn Gmyr

July 12, 2010

Dear Michele and family,
I am so sorry to read about your mother-in-law. My prayer and thoughts are with you and the family. Marilyn Gmyr Fl.

Michelle Herter

July 12, 2010

To The Fatone Family,

May the memories of your Mom bring comfort to you. We are so sorry for your loss.

Sincerely,

July 12, 2010

Shirley and I tried our best to bowl the best at the Norwich Ten Pin, but we sure did have a great time and her friendship will forever be stored in my memory bank as she was a superb friend. Thank you George for loving her as she so deserved. God Bless the family. Anna Erdmann, Port Charlotte Florida

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