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Brian Ellis Delf

1961 - 2019

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1961

DIED

2019

Brian Delf Obituary

Brian Ellis Delf, aged 57, passed away at home in Mary Esther on May 2, 2019, after a lengthy battle with colon cancer for the third time. He was born on December 3, 1961 in Rome, Georgia to his parents, Robert C. and Virginia W. Delf. He graduated from Burnt Hills – Ballston Lake Senior High School in June 1980 with a Regents diploma. He completed a Bachelor's degree in Rhetoric and Communication from the State University of New York at Albany in August 1984. Further, he earned a Master's Degree of Business Administration with a concentration in Finance from the graduate school of Union College in Schenectady, New York in June 2000. Finally, he had almost completed a Master's of System Engineering from Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University in Huntsville, Alabama before his final round of cancer stopped him from finalizing his Capstone project.
His parents, Robert C. and Virginia W. Delf, preceded him in death, along with multiple grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. Brian is survived by his wife of eight years, Dr. Judy Manning, and their son, Andrew. He is also survived by his former spouse and mother of his adult children, Melanie P. Delf; his children, Mary, Catherine, and John; his grandchildren, Kenneth and Nathan Warwick; and his sister, Andrea Delf Richburg and her husband, Howard Richburg.
Brian pursued multiple careers including the restaurant business, procurement, and systems engineering. He worked in multiple restaurants with the last one being Union College. With procurement, he started with Bechtel Plant Machinery Incorporated and finished his career by moving from procurement to systems engineering with The Boeing Company. He had multiple interests including coins, gardening, home repair, and theatre arts. He was a member of Grace Lutheran Church in Destin though his illness kept him away from his family there far too often towards the end.
Brian donate his body to MedCure to help advance medical science. Once his cremains are returned to his family, his ashes will become a permanent living legacy through Eternal Reefs, which helps to preserve and protect the marine environment through environmentally-sound concrete reefs. The casting of the reef ball, along with the onboard memorial service, will be announced at a later date. Donations may be made in his name to Children in Crisis, Inc. in Fort Walton Beach or Grace Lutheran Church in Destin.

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Published by Northwest Florida Daily News on May 7, 2019.

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Marcia Cappuccilli

May 15, 2019

Brian was a co-worker at Bechtel Plant Machinery Inc., Schenectady, NY. He was well respected for his business acumen and total professionalism. He was a hard worker who embraced challenges. And of course, he was a great family man and a generous and caring individual. I will miss my very special and talented friend. RIP

Keating Johns

May 12, 2019

Condolences for your loss. I enjoyed working with Brian at Boeing.

Bob Dawsey

May 7, 2019

Brian was my first friend when I moved to Glenville in the 6th grade. He was a good friend and he helped me integrate into a new environment. He led his life in an admirable way, and he will be missed by the people that he touched along the way. Rest In Peace.

Jake & Liz Luvender

May 7, 2019

Judy & family, Liz and I are deeply saddened by the loss you and your family have encountered. I worked with Brian as part of the Missile Defense National Team. His contributions to the program were thoughtful and significant, not only ensuring the success of the program but enabling the defense of our nation. Our condolences to you and yours during these trying times.

Doris Esslinger

May 6, 2019

I worked with Brian at Boeing in Huntsville for several years. I am so sorry to hear this news Judy, Brian spoke of you often. May God Bless you all now. Rest in peace Brian.

Will Bradley

May 6, 2019

I worked with Brian for many years at Boeing. He was knowledgeable, hardworking, had a sense of humor and was a pleasure to be around. I wish him peace and rest to the family. God Bless

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