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2019
Tom Hayden Obituary
Born: June 13, 1961; in Rochester, NY
Died: October 4, 2019; in Crystal Lake, IL
Tom will be forever remembered for his zest in life and kindness to everyone. Fascinated dismantling lamps at an early age, he was destined to be an electrician. He worked early on as an EMT and Fireman in Huntley and Harvard and then at Altoff Industries and Nestle.
He will be known for his trailblazing in his VW Bug, driving his beloved Delorean and pumped up trucks.
Although you were held from us for so long you were loved so much by your family and friends.
Survived by a son Lucus Hayden, his parents Carol and Bill Hayden, brother Dan, Sisters Deb (David) Kublank , Connie (Charles) Goodman and nieces and nephews. Sister-in-law Kitty (Colin) Comer.
A Celebration of his life will be Sunday, November 24 from 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. at Bull Dogs Ale House, 1501 State Rte. 31, McHenry, IL 60050.
Donations may be made to the family for a domestic violence shelter. To contact family call 847-658-7685.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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Terri
November 21, 2019
It is said that the eyes are the window to the soul. Tom had piercing blue eyes that truly reflected the man he was. His could be hard and flash daggers when angry, sparkle when happy. They also a reflected a distinct vulnerability. Those eyes also reflected the love he had for his family. That was always a constant. I hope for his family the mind numbing shock and pain will soften into an ache and longing for what might have been had his life not been cut short. He will always be alive in the hearts of those that love him.
So many good times
Connie Goodman
November 19, 2019
I am so lucky to have you as a brother! We shared so so many great times together. I always enjoyed your smile and silly ways! We had good rebellion times as well. We were always there for each other in good times and rough times. I love and miss you very much!!!!
November 17, 2019
This was a really great human. Thank you for being.
Carolyn Quinn
November 11, 2019
Tom lived in my old neighborhood when I was there. He was friendly, generous, and kind. He was dependable and always followed through on his promises. I'm glad I got to know him for that couple of years.
My condolences to the family and to the neighborhood.
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