Charlie Joe Cole, Jr. was born November 17, 1931, in Pilot Point, TX. He passed away peacefully at his home in Denton, November 22, 2020. As he was “virtually” attending church service, with his Bible on his chest, wife and family at his side, Jesus took his hand and led him to heaven.
Charlie was born on the family farm, the 5th of 7 children, to Emma Pedigo and Charlie Cole, Sr. He graduated Pilot Point High in 1949, and headed to NTSC (now UNT), on a football scholarship. Soon, he joined the USAF and served 4 years as an aviation mechanic crew chief, on B-26 aircraft. Before he spent 11 months in Korea, Charlie met and married Fonzeal Young, “that pretty girl from Wise County.”
Still playing football, during some defining years for NT, Charlie played a key role in “the Fall of Major College Football Color Barrier in Texas” (see The Game Changers, by Jeff Miller). Charlie lettered 3 years on the varsity and was a loyal Geezle.
After earning a Bachelor’s degree in Physical Education, and a Master’s in Public School Administration, Charlie worked 10 years as Teacher/Coach, Principal, and Superintendent in Pilot Point, Forestburg, and Lake Dallas.
Then, in 1968, Charlie was hired by Denton County to establish and develop Adult Probation Services in Denton and Cooke Counties. Charlie was Chief Probation Officer and Director of Services for the next 23 years. He was richly blessed as he hired the perfect people who became an incredible and loyal team, like a very diverse family. The Juvenile Probation Services was established, and is now housed in the Charlie J. Cole Building in Denton. The Denton County Probation Department programs that this team developed earned Statewide and Federal Probation Services attention.
Charlie retired in 1991, and became involved with “Smart Start” as a lobbyist to write and promote legislation that would facilitate use of a Breathalyzer mechanism which assigned individuals would be required to use before starting their car could occur.
During his later years, Charlie increased his wood carving hobby. He really enjoyed making wooden crosses for earrings, pendants, and bolo tie clasps. He attended church at Denton Bible Church, and he sold his art and donated the proceeds to missions. He also enjoyed attending BSF and Prayer Breakfast weekly. Of course, Charlie never lost his enjoyment of social gatherings, the outdoors, and trips to the farm.
Charlie is survived by his loyal wife of 67 years; his brother, Glenn; his five children (spouses), Debra (Curtis Freeman, NC), Joe (Connie Orr, Denton), Julie (Fred Alcorn, TN), Clark (Jamie Bell, Weatherford), and Mark (Rene Breazeale, Fredericksburg); 17 grandchildren, and 7 greatgrandchildren.
Charlie’s family will host visitation on December 2, 2020, 3:00-7:00 pm, at DeBerry Funeral Home, 2025 W. University, Denton. Charlie will be buried at Greenwood Cemetery in Wise County, with military funeral honors.
For those who would like view the livestream of Mr. Coles Funeral please follow the link below at 11:00 AM, Thursday, December 3, 2020.
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Zane Fitch Sr
September 21, 2021
I worked with Mr.Cole in 1979,he was a very kind and humble man,I enjoyed his humor and belief in the Gospel.
Amanda Raymond
December 2, 2020
This man was such a blessing to us. We loved him dearly at the Denton VA Clinic.. my favorite veteran that’s for sure!!! I love you Mr. Cole. Rest in heaven. You will be missed sir. Condolences to your beautiful family.
Kay Adamson
December 2, 2020
We love Charlie and will miss him so much. We will always remember his tender heart, sweet smile and joyful spirit. We will think of him when we see his empty chair (front row, first seat) in Bible Class, but know he has his eternal chair in heaven. So thankful we will see him and celebrate with him again. Praying for Joe and family. Kay and Joe Adamson
Scot & Marilyn Miller
December 1, 2020
Charlie, a gentle giant of a man, was such a pleasure to be around. Our Cole-Miller family holiday gatherings were a favorite tradition for more than 40 years. If there were a Pictionary Hall of Fame, Charlie would certainly be a candidate for induction. Let’s say he might not have been technically the best player, but he was by far the funniest and most entertaining of the group in action. Marilyn and I send our prayers and best wishes to Fonzeal and the whole Cole family. We will always have smiles on our faces and the fondest memories when thinking of Charlie. RIP Charlie.
Lynn Leverton
November 30, 2020
To meet and visit with Charlie was to realize that you have met a great yet humble servant of the Lord. Denton Bible Church will miss Charlie.
Kim Pearson
November 30, 2020
On behalf of everyone at VNA Ann's Haven Hospice, it was an honor to be of service to Charlie and your family. We hold you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Jim Lott
November 30, 2020
Our deepest condolences to the Cole Family.
From Jimmy, Lori and John Lott.

Sympathy Gift courtesy of joan cole. Group of 10 Memorial Trees Planted In Loving Memory of Charlie Joe Cole Jr..
joan cole
November 30, 2020
Rachel Chan
November 29, 2020
Charlie welcomed me to the family with open arms and immediately allowed me to call him Gran. I fondly remember sitting on the couch with Charlie and Fonzeal telling stories from their life and being sweet to each other. I saw him as a grandfather-figure, as he would hold my hand while giving wisdom and insight. My condolences to the Cole family.
David Richey
November 29, 2020
Charlie invited me to sit with him and Joe in the front row of Wednesday morning Bible study several years ago. We have stayed in Bible study classes together ever since. Charlie showed the love of Christ to me anyone he interacted with. I'll miss him dearly but I'll see him soon.
RIK WILLIAMSON
November 29, 2020
Mr. Charlie Cole was and will always be an incredible human being. I'm privileged and honored to have known him. My deepest sympathies to the entire Cole Family.
Rich Meece
November 29, 2020
Good memories of Charlie at Bible Study. Love him.❤✝
Amanda Bean
November 29, 2020
A one-of-a-kind; very special guy! He will be missed by so many.
Amanda Bean
Brent and Maur Chow
November 29, 2020
Dear Cole Family  . We and countless others of our generation with be forever indebted to your father , but eternally richer for the earthly and heavenly wisdom your father was not afraid to share . A one of a kind treasure of a man we have lost indeed , but heaven just became even sweeter by his presence . We So look forward to seeing him again soon someday . ❤
A testimony of Charlie ....
Colossians 4:5-6 NKJV
5 Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the time. 6 Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.
With love 
Brent and Maur Chow
Rick & Connie Martino
November 28, 2020
Condolences to a wonderful family as well as honoring a great man!
Joyce Kenas
November 28, 2020
Charlie was a great friend to Billy and me for many years and helped me through the passing of Billy.
Kim Martin Long
November 28, 2020
May you find peace in the memory of a life well lived. Love to you all.
Keith Orsburn
November 28, 2020
Truly a great American who made this world a better place. I knew him professionally and personally and he was a man of dignity and integrity. I will always cherish how he helped me navigate my own father's personal battle with Parkinson's disease and subsequent death. I know that Jesus has told Charlie "well done faithful servant!"
Jacqui Kenas Garrison & Howard Garrison
November 28, 2020
One of my dads best friends and a co-member with me at Denton Bible, I have known Mr. Cole my whole lifey husband and I have always been in awe of his kind nature and charismatic personality. Our heartfelt sympathy to a lovely family who will miss him dearly. Prayers for comfort from God during your time of mourning.
Nancy McDonald
November 28, 2020
Charlie was my 3rd cousin. We shared 2nd great grandparents, George Cole and Martha Baker. When ever I had a genealogy question for Charlie, he would stop what he was doing and answer my e-mail. I will forever be grateful for his unconditional kindness. Rest in Peace Charlie. I'll meet you in Heaven some day. Much Love, Cousin Nancy
Bill DeBerry, Jr. & Andrew DeBerry
November 28, 2020
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
Robert Pruett
November 27, 2020
A better friend you could not find. Charlie Cole was my friend since his playing days at North Texas State University Now University Of North Texas. We had some good times together officiating football and visiting with other friends. I will miss Charlie and will see him again someday
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