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for Benjamin Wilcher
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Tamara Harrell
August 29, 2007
To Amre and the entire Wilcher Family:
We are the cousins of Benjamin and the grandchildren of Alyne Wilcher-Jones. We all send our thoughts and prayers your way. We know that God is very proud of Ben for serving his city in the way he has choosen. Please feel free to contact us for anything we may be able to assist you with. Know that God is ALWAYS in control and that he had something he wanted Ben to do in heaven. Love you!
Your cousins in Aurora & Denver Colorado, Emily Jones-Wilcher & children, Tamara, Stacey, Gerald and Latroy.
EMMETT D. WILLIS III
August 28, 2007
DEEPEST SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO BOTH SIDES OF THE FAMILY. BEN WAS AND STILL IS A GREAT PERSON BEFORE THE LORD . BEN IS KNOWN AS VERY DEDICATED AND DETERMINED BY FAITH TO TAKE ON WHATEVER LIFE THREW AT HIM . HIS MOTIVATION IN MY EYES WERE HIS TWO SONS .HE WOULD TURN THE WORLD UPSIDE DOWN FOR THEM. BEN ALWAYS SPOKE HIGHLY OF HIS NEW FAMILY AND TOOK CARE OF THEM BY ANY MEANS. ALL IN ALL BEN IS A GREAT PERSON AND WILL BE DEARLY MISSED . UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN . GOD BLESS.
Alyne Dawson-Washington
August 24, 2007
To the Wilcher Family:
We were truly saddened to hear of the loss of your loved one, Benjamin Jr. Our families grew up together at Bethel Church of God. Although years have lapsed since that time, our fellowship together is still remembered. May God richly bless and keep your families strong. Stay encouraged and walk by faith.
The Dawson's: the late Joe Nathan, Lannie (wife), Jeannette, Alyne, Carlis, Connie, Melonny, and Sandy
Karyn Broyles
August 24, 2007
To the family of Ben Wilcher:
Ben Jr. will be greatly missed. He was a very sweet and kind young man. May God comfort you in your time of sorrow
Gloria Jones
August 23, 2007
To: Amre, the Wilcher and Glover Family.
May the Lord continue to give you strength in your hour of berievement. Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal.
God Bless You
Denita Patton
August 22, 2007
To the Wilcher Family,
I am sorry for your loss. I met BJ through my brother Daniel Franklin. When BJ came to the house he always had a smile on his face and he was the type of person that if you needed help, he would help you. BJ will be miss by all. There are no words to say that will comfort you Amre, but remeber this, BJ is there with you through the boys and he is in your heart. As time goes by it will get better.
APRIL TUGGLES
August 21, 2007
I SEND MY BLESS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY,I AM SORRY ABOUT BEN.LOVE APRIL FROM ER/CAFETERIA
B Martin
August 21, 2007
Amre
We may not understand why things happen. Put your trust in God. Where there is no peace, He will give you peace. Where there is no strength, He will give you strength. Go to God and He will help ease your pain and give you strength.
Kandra Norris
August 21, 2007
I was shocked and saddened to hear about Ben's passing. May God bless the Wilcher family in their time of sorrow.
Pauletta Pitts-Anderson
August 20, 2007
Uncle Benji,Auntie Glo, Nicole, Allen, Amre and the boys,I know that it has been a long time since we have seen or talked to each other. But my prayers and thoughts are with you all. The thousands of miles between us cannot equal the amount of love I have for you all. I can only tell you that no farewell words were spoken, no time to say goodbye, he was gone before you knew it and only GOD knew why. If Love could have saved him, He would have lived forever. Keep his memory alive, and never let those boys forget him even in their young lives.
Love you all
Your niece and cousin
Chalonda Ferguson
August 20, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
Alicia Hood
August 20, 2007
As a former resident (born & raised), I send my deepest sympathies to the entire Wilcher family. To make a plan, dedicate your life to serve and protect your community, takes great pride and courage. To give your life speaks more than words could say. I pray for you all in this time of mourning. This life is never in vain. God Bless You!!
A Lifetime Gary Citizen, May Officer Wilchers Soul Rest In Peace May the Grace of God "SHINE" upon this bereaveing Family
August 20, 2007
To the Wilcher Family and Friends:
I never had the pleasure of meeting Officer Wilcher, but it seems that he was well loved and respected. To the family, hold on to your memories, for right now they may hurt, but later you will see that will make you smile. To family friends, don't forget that when everything for you returns to normal, this family will still need you. Healing is a process, and it doesnt happen overnight.
Rochelle Davis
August 20, 2007
To: Amre and the Wilcher Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories of BJ bring you comfort in the days ahead. You will always be reminded of God's love when you look into the bright eyes and beautiful faces of his sons. "No man is an island, no man stands alone". Allow friends and family to comfort you at this time. The days ahead will be difficult so know that God is here to comfort, protect, and keep you when friends and family are gone. Remember, "Earth has no sorrow that Heaven can not heal". Allow God to give you the comfort and peace that you need.
You will always be in my prayers.
I love you,
Rochelle and family
P.S."I have tried to make contact via phone but was not successful. Please call me".
Carol Fontleroy
August 20, 2007
To The Family of Benjamin Wilcher Jr.,
I was very sorry to hear of your loss. Truly a loss for our whole Gary community. My prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Carol Fontleroy
KENYATTA HILL
August 19, 2007
To the Wilcher Family,
I did not know Officer Wilcher but my prayers are with your family. I pray that God will comfort you at this time.
L Crews
August 18, 2007
Amre again I'm sorry for your loss for yours is greater than ours but God has gained a wonderful heart back in his presence. Please take comfort in knowing that BJ is with God and is looking over you and the lil men. Listen to your heart for he will always be there. Let the Holy Spirit and time heal your heart, soul and mind for in due season we shall see him again.
Rachel D. Johnson
August 18, 2007
I can't say I know what you're going through,
And I won't even try .
But I will say that God is there with you;
And on His shoulder you can always cry.
For He's the only that knows and feels your pain,
And His love is always near.
So cast your cares upon Him -receive His comfort;
And let Him wipe away all your tears.
Trust and believe that all He does has a reason,
Rejoice in knowing that Benjamin is in His care.
All His earthly work is done-his job's completed;
And now He's at rest with Jesus Christ in the air.
Be Blessed & Encouraged-God Loves You and so do I.
-Rachel D. Johnson class of '97
Zanoblia Brown-Jack
August 18, 2007
My family sends our prayers to the family of Ben. He was a great person who will be missed.
Lydia North
August 18, 2007
Benji & Glo another angel got his wings. I don't have words.... Jus know how much I love you and hold on to all the memories to share with your grandkids. I LOVE YOU
DEBRA LAWRENCE
August 18, 2007
AUNT GLO AND FAMILY,
I AM SO SORRY ABOUT BJ, I WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR US ALL DURING THIS HARD TIME.
Dion & Angelique Crawford
August 18, 2007
To Amre and the entire Wilcher family,
Although we have not seen you guys in a while, Dion and I were deeply saddened to hear about BJ. We want the family know that we are praying for you all in your time of need.
May God Continue to Bless you and keep you.
love always your cousin,
Angelique (Armour) Crawford/ Lew Wallace "c/of 98". Dion Crawford "c/of 97"
Barbara White
August 18, 2007
To Amre and the bereaved family,
I am so sorry for your loss! Although I did not know Ben long, it makes me feel good to hear of all the kudos and praises of such a fine man! You will miss him but just keep the faith and continue to be strong.
Love you,
"Aunt" Barbara
Exum family
August 18, 2007
We would like to extend our sympathy and sorrow over your loss. Please accept these verses, and prayers as consolation straight from the heart. May God comfort you in your terrible bereavement.
Ecclesiastes3:1-4 To every thing there is a season, a time to every purpose under the heaven: a time to be born,
a time to die, a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted; A time to kill, and a time to heal,
a time to break down, and a time to build up; A time to weep, and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance.
Matthew 5:4 Blessed are those that mourn, for they shall be comforted.
Rest in peace BJ
CHINA TALLEY
August 18, 2007
TO THE WILCHER
I WAS SHOCKED TO HEAR ABOUT BJ IT WAS JUST LAST THURSDAY WHEN I SEEN HIM AT LEW WALLACE I WOULD SIT AT THE FRONT DESK WITH HIM AND READ THE PAPER WHILE HE GREET THE PEOPLE THAT ENTER THE SCHOOL..I WILL NEVER FORGET THE RIDE HE GAVE ME CAUSE I DIDN'T WANT TO WALK HOME AND HE TOLD ME THAT MY HOUSE WAS BIG AND IT WAS NICE..AND HE WAS JUST TALKING ABOUT HOW HE CAN'T WAIT TO SCHOOL START TO SEE THE NEW FRESHMENS THAT WAS COMING TO THE DUBB.I AM REALLY GOING TO MISS HIM SITTING INFRONT OF THE DESK AS I WALK IN SCHOOL AND SAY HEY "BIG HEAD" AND HE WOULD SAY HEY "PUNK".ITS JUST HARD TO BELIEVE THAT WILCHER IS GONE,I AM GOING TO MISS HIM SO MUCH AND I REALLY GOING TO MISS HIM AT SCHOOL ITS NOT GOING TO BE THE SAME NOT SEENING WILCHER ON THE FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL..I REMEMBER THE FIRST DAY I MET WILCHER ALLEN TOLD HIM THAT I WAS THE GIRL WHO PLAYED HIM AND WILCHER ASKED ME WHY I PLAY HIS LIL BROTHER AND FROM THERE ON WILCHER AND I WAS COOL AND I WILL NEVER FORGET HIM..
MAY GOD BLESS THE WILCHER FAMILY AND KNOW THAT HE IS IN GODS HANDS NOW..REST IN PEACE BENJAMIN WILCHER JR. "BJ"
THE TALLEY FAMILY
August 18, 2007
TO THE WILCHER FAMILY
SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE LOST OF BEN HE WAS A KIND PERSON AND TO HEAR ABOUT HIM WAS A SAD LOST.MAY GOD BLESS THE FAMILY WITH OPEN HANDS...GOD BLESS
Monique Thomas
August 18, 2007
This is your loving first cousin in California. You will be missed and may god bless your/our entire family. We will see you soon.
Love Always ME-ME
mynika smith (cocoa)
August 18, 2007
Iam praying for you amre,Iam so sorry.
August 18, 2007
As your loved one is laid to rest today, know that someone from home(Gary)is whispering a prayer of strength during this hour. May GOD grant you peace to know that it was BJ's appointed time and hold great memories of the time he yet lived.
God Bless!
marcia thompson
August 18, 2007
god bless.
Philip Pratt
August 18, 2007
My Thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family.
Nora Glenn
August 18, 2007
Thank you for sharing Ben with us. His passing is a terrible loss for all of us. Please stay strong in the comfort of Ben's legacy of service and goodness.
Nekiah Fort (Student at Lew Wallace)
August 18, 2007
I am sure that I am not just speaking for myself when I say BJ will be missed. You all were blessed to have had him at all. He's resting now.I am expressing my most sincere sympathy to the Wilcher's (expecially Allen). Just Remember to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.
Terry Morrow/ Underwood
August 18, 2007
To Ben, Glo and family My God bless you and keep his loving arms around you in your time of sorrow.
CLIFTON AND CHARLOTTE GOODEN
August 17, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Yolanda D. Hughes (Williams)
August 17, 2007
To Glo, Benji, Nicole, Allen, Flo, Wayne, and Roy:
Its been quite some time since I've seen all of you. I just saw Benji, Glo and Amre at the Star in November but its been even longer since I saw BJ! But as always, BJ would greet me with a great smile, a hug and a "Hey Auntie Yo". From the time I read the shocking news of BJ's accident and death, I keep recalling one of the last times I saw him at the OMNI Fitness center. We talked for such a long time that night and we even took some pictures together! When you think of BJ and the type of man he was, you can't help but know that each time you were with him, it was a good time!
Growing up as an only child I would often complain that I'd never be an aunt! It was my grandmother who told me that I might marry a man that had sisters and brothers so there may be hope for me becoming someone's aunt or sister. So, even in times like these, I'm grateful to God for marrying Alex (Wayne) because it gave me the chance to have a family like yours and nephews and nieces. I thank God for all of you and I thank God for my nephew BJ! He was truly a blessing to all of us! I will always love you! Stay prayerful and mindful! Always in my thoughts and forever in my prayers! I love you Alouiscious (Alex DeWayne):)
Dranetta Tyler
August 17, 2007
I am sorry for the lose of your son but may God grant you the strenght to go on. He is going on to be with the lord but he is never forgotton. He was my big brother and friend. I LOVE YOU WILCHER!!!
Davida Clark
August 17, 2007
We,the Clark/Addison Family,would like to offer our sincere condolences in the passing of your loved one.Keep your trust and faith in God and know that he will make everything alright.Keep your head up Nicole.
Larry & Dee Ellison,1st
August 17, 2007
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Larry Ellison ll
August 17, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Mrs.Dee Ellison
August 17, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
sylvia edmond madison
August 17, 2007
to the wilcher family my prayers and thoughts goes out to your family at this time.
Tynetta Magee
August 17, 2007
I am sad to her about Ben's passing but he is in a better place watching over you and he left his beautiful children for you to cherish his memories.
GOD BLESS
Bonnie Sharp
August 17, 2007
To Amre
I was saddened to hear of the lost of your love one. I know u are strong because I can recall a time like this before. Remember God can heal every pain,and BJ gave u to beautiful children that will help u through the rough times. I love u and if u need anything a babysitter,someone to talk to, cry with, laugh with, ect. just give me a call.
Loving u like a sister
c/o "99"
MILLIE GLENN
August 17, 2007
MY PRAYERS AND BLESSING ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY, I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. LET GOD BE YOUR COMPFORTER
THE chandler's
August 17, 2007
TO LU AND JESSICA- WE FEEL YOUR PAIN AND YOUR SADNESS. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP.
MINNIE TAYLOR
August 17, 2007
MAY GOD GRANT YOU COMFORT AND PEACE IN YOUR TIME OF NEED. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. BEN, WILL BE MISSED!
Sgt Michael H. & Ermalene D. Gault Sr
August 17, 2007
Ben,
You're at peace. It was a pleasure knowing and working with you. To the family, think of the good times and smile. May GOD bless you and your family.
Evelyn Malave
August 17, 2007
My prayers are with the entire Wilcher family. May you find comfort in knowing that now he is in God's hand and he will be the Angel that looks over you always. May he rest in peace.
Ebony Jackson
August 17, 2007
To the Family of Ben Wilcher:
My heart goes out to all of you. I went to Lew Wallace with Ben and Amre and was shocked to hear about his untimely passing earlier this week. I will continue to lift you all up in prayer and you have my deepest sympathy.
ADRIENNE GLASS
August 17, 2007
TO WILCHER FAMILY ,GOD WILL COMFORT YOUR HEARTS THRU THE MIST OF THE STORM,MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO BEN FAMILY,CLASS OF 97
Nick Hylek
August 17, 2007
To the Wilcher Family:
I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to your family during this trying time. Ben passed doing what God put him on this earth to do...SERVE and PROTECT poeple. Remember, "Its not how this officer died that made him a hero...Its how he lived." May God bless you.
Marva Coleman
August 17, 2007
The world has lost a great young man. We are saddened by the unnecessary loss. God will bless and keep you and the babies.
Lonzo Buggs
August 17, 2007
To Benji and family: Benji we have not seen each other in over 20 yrs but we were good friends growing up in school and in the Delaney Projects and even after I moved. I am sorry to hear of the untimely death of your son. Just remember man "Earth has no sorrow that Heaven can not heal". Keep trusting in God with all your heart and he will direct your path. Benji man I will keep you and your family in my prayers as you go through these difficult times. Hope to see you soon. Your childhood friend.
Juan Marrero
August 17, 2007
To Amre. The Glover and Wilcher Families
I'm really really sad and hurt to hear this happen to you all. Honestly I know from experience that in times like this words of comfort helps but wont take the pain away because it runs so deep inside but I tell you this prayer helps all and I will be praying for all of you for the healing from the hurt of your lost.
May God Bless you Amre
Papi
D. Griffin-Crudup
August 17, 2007
To Nicole, Allen, Amre,
Mr. and Mrs. Wilcher,
I have walked in your shoes, I know how you feel. There are no words of comfort that will help you at this time. God heals all wounds. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember Ben, the student and Ben the officer at Lew Wallace.
Nicole, Allen, and Amre if there is anything I can do to help you call me. Mr and Mrs. Wilcher, please know that Ben is in God's hands now. Hold on to your memories. It does get better. Nicole call me when you are ready.
Deidre Griffin-Crudup
Teacher and friend,
Lew Wallace High School
Rick and Catrina Wilson
August 17, 2007
To The Wilcher Family we want to let you know that we are praying for you and that we love you. I can't imagine the pain but be strong God knows best. Of course growing up all my life around you I know that you and your family are good and loving people. You all have been there through our family's good times and bad and we are here to return the favor. God bless you and keep you.
The Fry and Wilson Family
Stephen Bishop
August 17, 2007
To Amre, Ben Sr, Gloria, Nicole , and Allen,
You just dont know how shocked i was to hear of BJ's passing as we all called him. its hard to beleive someone else that i grew up with is gone all too soon. We were neighbors for a long time. i might not be in Gary anymore but i think about all of you all daily. You all are in my prayers
Kim Williams
August 17, 2007
To the Wilcher Family:
No words cannot describe the hurt that was initially felt when I first learned of BJ’s death. I have known BJ since I was about 13 years old. I remember hanging out with him and his cousins. We had so much fun. And although I did not see or talk to him much during our adult lives, when I did see him, it was as if we talked yesterday. The last time I saw him, he just recently joined the police force. He also recently had his second son, which he showed me pictures on his cell phone. He was a proud father and excited about being with the Gary police department. Every time I heard about BJ, it was always good things. I just saw Nicole on Friday at the barbershop, right before the accident. I remember saying to her to send BJ a hello from me when she saw him. I hope that it made it to him…. Although his life ended so suddenly, of course his spirit lives on with his family and everyone who knew and loved him. It’s an honor to be one of those people and a blessing to have shared apart of my life with him. I will always cherish the memories…. To his wife & family: I pray to God to give you strength and peace in this time that’s needed.
From,
(daughter of Cantrell Williams, Sr.)
Lawrence Swader
August 17, 2007
Ben and Glo,
Although I have not seen you in a while, know that my thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. May the Lord bless and comfort you.
Donniel Leslie
August 17, 2007
My condolences go out to the entire Wilcher family. Your in my prayers.
God bless!
Anita Meadows
August 17, 2007
Amre and Family!
My heart is so full for you and yours! Only God knows why He allowed this to happen and we will pray that we can accept His will. I am so very proud of you Amre, you have been a valiant and strong person this week. In your weakest moments, just pray and remember all the good times you shared with Ben and take care of those fine boys! You know that I am sorry I could not stay for the funeral but know that I am with you in spirit and prayer!
Love you,
"Aunt" Nita
Shelly-Ann Harris
August 17, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Liz & Rick Garcia
August 17, 2007
To Amre. The Glover and Wilcher Families:
It saddens our hearts to hear of your loss. We have experienced the loss of loved ones, remember God is in control of all things. He will see us through it all. We are in prayer for YOU at this time....
May God Bless You All
Love and Prayers
Ravinia Baker
August 17, 2007
To Nicole and Family,
Just want to say I am very sorry your lost. I will be praying for you and your family. Please just remember God is not going to put no more on you than you can bare. I love you girl and may God comfort your heart in this time of loss.
Love you
Vina
Ruth C. Bonner
August 17, 2007
Dear Brenda, The Wilcher Family May the Lord comfort you now and always;until the great reunion with Benjamin someday. Ruth C. Bonner Class of 1966,Everett Bonner and Mom
Chief Angelo Machuca, Jr.
August 17, 2007
Dear Extended Family,
Please except our condolences to my extended family. We at the East Chicago Police Department are deeply sadden with your loss. Many times are job is never appreciated, I would like to thank you for Brother Wilcher's service to our community. May God rest his soul in eternal peace.
Everett Deloney
August 17, 2007
Ben, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Stay prayerful and keep the faith. GOD will see you through. Be blessed always.
Michelle McCarter
August 17, 2007
To The Wilcher's Family,
He will be sadly missed, but never forgotten for he was a man of honor. May God Bless you(Wilcher's family) & keep you together. You are in my prayers.
Love,
Michelle McCarter & Family
Friend
Ex Co-worker of B.J., Amre & Nikki
LaToya / Mar'Sena Hunter
August 17, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead to you and your family.
April Thomas
August 17, 2007
To the Wilcher Family:
I am deeply sadden by the lost of such a wonderful and kind hearted person. Ben was a pleasure to work with and will surely be missed. I give you my deepest sympathy but remember that you now have an angel looking down on you. Rest a sure he is still watching over you all. God bless you all.
Chancie Thompson
August 17, 2007
To Mr and Mrs. Wilcher:
I pray for you and your family in this time of need. I remember when BJ had his basketcourt in the back and we use to always come over. I will really miss him. Stay strong Nicole, I'm praying for you to. God Bless!
Rosemary White
August 16, 2007
Amre, my thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Regina Childress
August 16, 2007
Glo,
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
May God give comfort to you in your heart and mind.
Sharon, Gina, Charlotta & Bill
Dee
August 16, 2007
I worked with BJ at the casino and when I heard the news I was devastated. My most fond memory of him was when he received employee of the month at work. I wish to express my heartfelt and deepest condolences to the Wilcher family and may God grant him eternal rest.
Derrick Harris
August 16, 2007
I am saddened to hear about the untimely death of your family member. May god bless you and keep you during your time of sorrow. I pray that you find comfort in knowing that Benjamin didn't die in vain, but he gave the ultimate sacrifice while doing the job he loved to do.
SGT. John & Mrs. Breese, GPD
August 16, 2007
Our thoughts and Prayers are with you during these troubled times. If you need anything please don't hesitate to contact us.
Ray Jackson
August 16, 2007
Ben,
I just heard about your loss yesterday. I was away when it happened. I would like to offer my sincere condolences. I can't imagine what you and your family must be going through.
I hope that time itself will help you and your family through this tragic time in your lives.
The loss of a loved one is never easy. The unexpected loss of a loved one is even worse.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Rhonda Jones
August 16, 2007
First I would like to offer my sincere condolences to the Wilcher family on the loss of your loved one. I've met BJ on several occasions through the Franklin family with the most recent being a part of the Franklin wedding party this past June. I remember him speaking highly of his job and when asked what was his job, he proudly said Gary Police Officer. BJ seemed to be one of the good ones that served his purpose here on earth but was taken too soon. I know his passing was untimely but GOD had a plan for BJ. He will continue to live on in the hearts of those who've known him as well as those who've had the pleasure of meeting him. I will keep you all in my prayers.
August 16, 2007
To the Wilcher Family,
I was so shocked to hear of Officer Wilcher's passing because I just saw him at work (security officer at Lew Wallace High School) the Thursday before.
I know my words are not adequate enough, but please know that Ben Wilcher was a professional officer and a gentleman. He was well-respected by his peers and loved by the students. He always had a listening ear for students.
I looked at Officer Wilcher as a "Gentle Giant". We are truly missing him at Lew Wallace High School. As you entered the school this summer, he was always sitting there greeting me as I came through those doors.
Just now know that Ben Wilcher sits at the right hand of the throne of Grace, and he is our heavenly angel watching over us all.
May God's Divine and Saving Grace reign over you during these trying times.
My prayers to you and your family.
Aurelia A. Weaver
Assistant Principal
Lew Wallace High School
Quiana Felders
August 16, 2007
To the Wilcher family,
I am sorry for your lost and the depature of a real strong black man. I grew up watching B.J. turn from a quiet young boy into a prodominant young man. Always remember that he is gone only in body but his spirit will remain on this earth in his children. He is gone and will never be forgotten. Glo, he is your guardian angel now! Nicole keep your head up baby girl your brother needs you now more than ever! Much love, Ms. Quiana Felders(Ki-Wi),Anfernee(Twill),DaeShaun(ShaBang),Kameron(Dooda).
Paul&Donyale Jimerson
August 16, 2007
I would like to send my deepest sympathy to the family of BJ you are in our deepest prayers and thoughts may God be with you in your time of heartship stay prayful God Bless
Keiko Nevers
August 16, 2007
May God provide peace that surpasses all understanding to Ben's family and all the lives that he touched with his loving heart. John 14:27 I graduated with Ben from Lew Wallace as well and also attended school with Ben throughout grade school. I will continue to pray God's comfort and blessings. I am sure he is in a better place. Be encouraged. God bless and keep you.
JENNIFER RILEY
August 16, 2007
My heart goes out to your entire family. I've know Amre the majority of my life and to see something like that happen to her saddens me. I pray that God will keep you, help you, ease your pain through time and bless your family through this rough moment.
Gayle Baxter
August 16, 2007
Wilcher Family
We were so saddened to hear of your tradgedy, in your time of Great Loss it is our prayer that your family be comforted by the God of the Bible. May the strong bonds of friends and family comfort you at this time.
The Baxter Family - Detroit Michigan (Lula Belle & Walter Smith - parents)
Milton Thaxton Jr
August 16, 2007
I have lost a brother and my heart is in pain, through it all I know God is still in control. Love you BJ. Amre, stay strong sweetie.
Love,
Milt
Diane Cain
August 16, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Mark Edwin Scoggins Sr.
August 16, 2007
To Ben Wilcher (Big Ben) and Family,
Benji, our hearts are truly heavy with grief over the lose of your son; I've known you my entire life and I know your son was a great individual, with tremendous integrity, like his Dad. I haven't seen you in years but I truly feel your pain Benji like he was my nephew; I'll always consider you family and so do my brothers. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY during this solemn time.
Mark Sr., Johnnye (wife), Ariana, Alexandria,Montana, Mark Jr. & Jason
Brothers- William Jr. & Lance
LaDonna Porter
August 16, 2007
To: Mr.& Mrs. Ben & Gloria and family, I was cried to hear about the passing of your loved one. I know your pain. God Bless You All I love him!!! I really love y'all Ben & Gloria n Allen n Nicole (sobbing)
Keith Dix
August 16, 2007
My condolences go out to the family of Ben Wilcher. I graduated from Lew Wallace with Ben. I was looking forward to seeing him soon at our 10 year class reunion. Your family is in my prayers. Be blessed and keep the faith.
Pamela Harrell-Doleman
August 16, 2007
Benjie and Glo
May God strengthen you in your time of bereavement. Remember Earth has no sorrows that Heaven can't heal. I will keep you in my prayers..
Catherine, Robert, James, David, Robert J., John, Maisha, Jaleelah Campbell
August 16, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Marisa Pierson
August 16, 2007
I can't say that I know what you are going through... but I do know that God can heal all hurt and pain no matter how deep it runs. I graduated high school with Ben and know that he was a good person with an even greater soul. He will be remembered...
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Thomas' Love you
August 16, 2007
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Tiffany Cherry
August 16, 2007
Deepest smypathies.
Sincerely,
THE BERRY & HOWARD FAMILY
August 16, 2007
TO AMRE & SONS, THE WILCHER FAMILY, MRS. GLOVER:
WE ARE SO SORRY ABOUT BEN'S PASSING. WE ARE PRAYING FOR THE PEACE & COMFORT THAT ONLY THE LORD CAN GIVE YOU. WITH HEARTFELT SYMPATHY, GOD BLESS YOU NOW AND FOREVER.
MRS. CHRISTINE BERRY & FAMILY and
MISS SYRITA HOWARD
FELECIA WALKER
August 16, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
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