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Lorraine Polik Obituary

LORRAINE K. POLIK (nee URBAN) DANA POINT, CA/HAMMOND Lorraine K. Polik, age 74 of Dana Point, CA passed away at home on February 20, 2017 after a lengthy illness. She is survived by son Andrew (Jana) Polik and daughter Lisa (Sukh) Oberoi who lovingly cared for her during this trying time; grandchildren: Erik and Katie Polik and Nate Oberoi; siblings: Patricia Urban, Eileen Simko and Jim Urban who was the third caregiver; nephew, Michael (Carol) Simko; niece, Cindy (Chris) Martin; great nephew, Mitchell Martin and many cousins. She was preceded in death by her husband, Robert; son, Tim; and parents Louis and Julia Urban. After her husband's debilitating stroke which changed the lives of the entire family, Lorraine accepted her new challenging role with strength, love, courage and creativity. She attended Edison Grade School and graduated from Hammond High School. She received a B.A. in English from Indiana University, Bloomington where she was a member of Chi Omega Sorority. She was a Realtor in Orange County. Lorraine loved to celebrate with food, friends and family. She was a fabulous hostess and cook. Thanksgiving was her favorite holiday which she made special for all. She loved the challenge of Jeopardy and watching her I.U. and UCLA basketball teams. Daily gardening was a special joyful activity. Her smart, fun-loving, and witty ways will be greatly missed and fondly remembered. Funeral services were private.

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Published by The Times on Feb. 26, 2017.

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Susan Harsch

December 23, 2017

I just found out today that Lorraine had passed away and I am crushed. We were sorority sisters, roommates, and she was matron of honor in my wedding. Our last long conversation was in September, 2016. I have been trying to call her ( phone disconnected), send her texts, and today got her Christmas card back. I finally thought about looking for an obituary and today I found it.
I can't say enough wonderful things about Lorraine- she was smart, funny, creative, and always willing to help with anything. She and Bob were the happiest couple and were soulmates. After his stroke, life was an upward challenge which she faced with grace. I know she is truly being missed. Love you, girl.

Richard Barnes, Ph.D.

February 28, 2017

Lorraine Urban was my very first "date" when we were students at Edison Jr High in Hammond. She was kind and graceful to the awkward teen who knocked on her door, carrying the first corsage purchased with the help of my mother.

Lorraine was a graceful young lady with a gentle walk and pretty smile. It was a lovely evening in which I think I even got to hold her hand. It was a romance (on my part) that carried me through my fumbling years with females and I will always be thankful to her for her acceptance and kindness.

I hope she had a good life. She deserved it. She came from a strong and respected family in south Hammond.

Thank you, Lorraine, for your kindness and acceptance from a very awkward teenager.

February 28, 2017

Simply, the very loveliest of persons. I keep you in my prayers. I'm glad Jimmy was there. God bless you. Love, Fr. David Wilke

Debra Ellison

February 27, 2017

Pat and Elaine,

Heartfelt sympathy and loving wishes as you celebrate Lorraine's life. A sister is a forever friend whether here or in heaven...God bless you all

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