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Marla Fry Obituary
Marla Lynn Fry, age 43, of Valparaiso, formerly of Chicago, IL passed away Tuesday, April 10, 2012. Born March 24, 1969 in Chicago to Allan L. and Elinor R. (Eiben) Wolynec, Marla earned a master's degree in education and was passionate about the education of young children. She was active at her daughters' school where she engaged the students in art and music appreciation on "Fry Fridays." An accomplished artist, she was the owner of Marla Fry Windows. On October 18, 1997 at Lakeside Inn In Union Pier, MI she married David L. Fry, who survives, along with two daughters: Anna and Maisy. Also surviving are: her mother, Elinor Wolynec of Park Forest, IL; sister, Leslie (Sreeram) Nair and their children: Anya and Ravi of Chicago. Marla was preceded in death by her father. A gathering of family and friends will be held at The Venue, 74 W. Lincolnway in Valparaiso on Thursday, April 12, 2012 from 1:00 until 9:00 PM and on Friday, April 13, 2012 from 1:00 until 7:00 PM. Memorial contributions may be made to Union Center Elementary School. Moellerfuneralhome.com
Memories and Condolences
for Marla Fry
Carol Loewenstein
October 18, 2012
David Fry and your girls,
I just received an e-mail about the One of a Kind Art show in Chicago. I immediately went to see if Marla was going to be there. I purchased one of her large flower windows last year. Each and every time I look at it I do smile! I was so saddened to hear the horrible news about Marla. Always remember how much pleasure your wife and mother gave so many people. I will always think of her as I smile.
Molly Dashiell
September 10, 2012
Mr. Fry and family,
Nothing I can say will bring Mrs. Fry back, but I do give you my friendship through this painful time. She was, and always will be a light. We love you all!
Jill Hendrix Ganzenmueller
April 24, 2012
Dear Dave and family, was so shocked and sad to hear about your loss. Will always remember Marla smiling up at you on your wedding day. She looked beautiful. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your girls. Sincerely, Jill
Gail Atlas
April 23, 2012
Family:
I am so sad to hear about this tragic loss. Marla and I would visit at art shows and were recently discussing my upcoming summer purchase from her. Her work was so eye catching and from the heart. She was a huge heart and that showed through her passion, family and work. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and 2 precious children.
Jill Squire
April 22, 2012
Dear Dave, Anna and Maisy - Dan, Madeline, Aidan and I had the pleasure of spending the afternoon with all of you and Sharon & Patty at the Children's Museum over the Thanksgiving Holiday. You have been in our thoughts and prayers since we heard the news. I have always thought the world of you, Dave, and did so even more upon meeting your family. Marla has inspired so many people in so many ways through her art and her willingness to reach out at the elementary school, countless ways I am sure we are not even aware of.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you and will be so for years to come.
Barbara Vogel
April 20, 2012
I read about your loss in the Akiba Schechter weekly bulletin. My daughter attends pre-K there. My heartfelt condolences to family and friends.
Andy Bargeron
April 20, 2012
We are so, so saddened by the tragic news. We only knew her through visits to her booths at art shows and the three pieces we have of hers. Marla and David remembered us, and the stories we told about what we were going to do with the pieces we bought. She was a wonderful woman whom we both regret not knowing better in our lives.
Nieto
April 20, 2012
I appreciate & admire every day her talent in my daughters room. Im so sorry for your loss.
Linda Reyna
April 19, 2012
"Marly Fry. Why do I know that name?" It was my first thought. And then I knew. No. Not her. Not Marla. Such a fantastic woman and a beloved client of Dr. Gast and staff. Words cannot ever begin to describe what all her family must be feeling. I was (and still am) so haunted by such a tragedy. I've had the pleasure of mingling with Marla at least a time or two and am so glad I have. She provided her own little "window" into her wonderful world and I feel especially fortunate to have gotten a peek through it. It was always that smile. You have no choice but to smile along with her; it was so infectious. I pray for peace, strength, and comfort for the Fry family. Her love will always live on.
Laura Geller
April 18, 2012
My heart is heavy today since hearing of Marla's passing. I always admired her work when I saw it at art fairs. A few years ago, my husband bought one of her pieces and I still admire it each and every day. Since then, I have constantly thought about buying another piece as Marla's whimsical, positive personality was exuded through her art.
Her passion for art was obvious to anyone she met and her legacy will live on in the homes of her many fans. I feel blessed to have met her.
Kimberly Higgins
April 18, 2012
"That's a great shirt!" was the first thing a sweaty yet smiling Marla Fry ever said to me. "Future Cub Fan" said the six-month bump. So, like me, she clearly had no taste in baseball teams and I told her so. I knew two things that day: I was going to have one of her joyful pieces of art on our baby's unfinished nursery wall and that this girl, Marla, was the kind every person wants for a friend; a ball of energy and light. And sweetness. I kept her card on the dresser. We ended up having another girl. When we went to pick our piece, it was tough to choose. Marla said, "Why don't I do something that shows her with that dolly she obviously loves so much. I could make her blond and I could put her name on one of the big flowers!" It is perfect. Marla was so intuitive. I can say with honesty that every other day Finnleigh wakes up saying in her yawn, "That's me!" Yes, it is. You, hopeful and walking in sunshine. Thanks to Marla. Thank you, Marla, you are forever. And not just on the wall. Marla is the kind who stays in the heart.
Marla gave so much to us, I can only begin to imagine how much she gave to you, her family, by whom all of her work was inspired. May you feel her enduring love for you always.
Jamie Friedberg
April 18, 2012
I loved Marla's art, I always wanted to buy a piece for my daughter's room, but never had the chance. I am so sorry for your loss, she was an inspiring woman and her life was ended too soon.
Bridget Winders
April 16, 2012
David and Family - I want to express my sincere condolences. My prayers are with your family. This is a very difficult time. I hope that you find comfort in the compassion and support from your friends and family.
Ken Jones
April 16, 2012
I am sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to you David and your family in this time of need. With Deepest Sympathy
christy hernandez
April 15, 2012
My thoughts and prayers go out the family. I didn't know marla but read the tragic story in the paper. May the family find peace.
Candi Koonce
April 14, 2012
I am so sorry about your loss. I met Marla at an art fair in Chicago and she was such a nice person with beautiful art. My prayers are with your family. I know she will be looking down and protecting her loved ones.
Sue Kalter
April 14, 2012
I bought one of Marla's pieces at the One of a Kind Art Show 3 or 4 years ago. Since then I have seen her at many summer art fairs. Her warm smile and outgoing personality always made me look forward to seeing her. I will miss seeing her and think of her when I go to art fairs. My deepest condolences to her family and friends.
Rosanna Cavanaugh
April 14, 2012
I'm so sorry to hear about this, Ashley was one of Maisys good friends in pre school, I got to meet Marla on several occasions, she was a fantastic person and a wonderful mother our thoughts and prays are with your family.
April 14, 2012
I am deeply saddened by Marla's passing. Though only meeting her a couple times, she has touched my families' life through her art; encouraging my neices to not be afraid to try new things. Thanks to Marla, my neice entered the Porter County 4-H art exhibition two years in a row with a painted glass project. I too, am honored to have one of Marla's pieces hanging in my home.
My condolences to the family...I pray you can find comfort in knowing Marla's love and passion for art and children have made a remarkable impact on so many people.
Joy Lundstrom, Valparaiso Indiana
Laura Golembieski
April 14, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with Marla's family and friends. While I only met Marla once at an art show a few years ago, she and her work made a special impression on myself and my husband. Her passion for her talent was amazing. I am honored to have a one of her pieces hanging in my home. Please try to find comfort in that she will live on through her artwork.
Sarah Wermuth
April 14, 2012
Dave, Anna, and Maisy,
We are so sorry. Marla was a beautiful person. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sarah, Ted, Paloma and Ione
Ed Ujcich
April 13, 2012
Dave,
I am sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine how you must feel however I believe your loved ones will get you through this and better days will lie ahead.
You and your family will be in my prayers.
Jamie Brasseal
April 13, 2012
Dave, I am so sorry and wanted you to konw I have been thinking about you much over the last several days. I can't even imagine what you and your family are going through and how difficult this must be. I am sorry I was unable to attend the memorial services. Please accept my condolences and know that my prayers are with you and your family.
Sandi Gaffen
April 13, 2012
I am deeply saddened to hear about Marla. My sympathies to David, Anna, Maisy, Elinor and Leslie. The last time I saw Marla was at Leslie's Bat Mitzvah--she must have been seven then. I remember her mostly as a toddler with her big eyes and curly hair. I'm sorry I never got a chance to meet her as an adult because it sounds like she was a wonderful person.
May her memory be a blessing. Take care during this difficult time.
April 13, 2012
I knew marla from many summers spent at habonim camp tavor together and I will always remember her as a caring and sweet person.
-Abby Nimberg (Brooklyn, New York)
Parkers
April 13, 2012
I regret never meeting such an impactful woman. My son met her at school and spoke highly of her and your children. My family sends our prayers to you and your family!
Adam Maguire
April 13, 2012
David, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Simply tragic My sincerest condolences to you, your girls, and family. I am grieving with and praying for you.
The Surufka Family; Tom, Debbie, Colin & Jessica
April 13, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with your whole family during this very sad time. Marla was truly a wonderful person who loved to 'give' of herself and of her time in the classroom with 'Fry Fridays' which was truly enjoyed by all of the children in the class. Her memory will live on through all of the lives she has touched.
Shari Sher
April 13, 2012
I knew Marla in college from AEPhi. She was always a beautiful girl on the inside and out. Wishing the family prayers and peace. Marla will truly be missed.
Debby Cole
April 13, 2012
I am so sorry to hear about Marla, I have not seen her in probably 20 years, but I do remember her bubbly personality and her curls!!
I just looked at her website of her art and it is amazing - I will definitely be purchasing!!!
My thoughts and prayers go out to her family
Bryan Blood
April 13, 2012
Dave,
Kathy and I are so sorry for your loss. We wish you, Anna and Maisy nothing but the best during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bryan
April 13, 2012
I had never met Marla nor the Fry family but my heart has ached all week since this tragedy occurred. It is a tremendous loss of a mother, wife, daughter, sister and friend. You are in my prayers as I know the entire community is thinking of you as well.
TM and family
Jennie Reinish
April 13, 2012
My heart is so sad. Marla was a shining light and one of my best friends in college. Though we lost touch for a while, we reconnected recently and I was so looking forward to a visit this summer and giving my dear friend a big hug. My heart goes out to all her family. She really was a ray of sunshine, and we shared some truly memorable moments. I know her light will shine on in her daughters and everyone who loved her.
Abby Hirsh
April 13, 2012
David,My husband and I were deeply shocked and saddened to hear about the recent passing of Marla. We had the pleasure of meeting her last summer at an artfair in Buffalo Grove Ill.We were taken in by her warm personality, smile and her love for her art. At the time we were late for a family party and told her we would see her at another show and gave her our email. Marla invited us to her One of a kind show last Dec. We attended the show but when we got to her booth you had said we just missed her. I was dissapointed that we didn't get to talk to her but we got to meet you and had a lovely time talking with you and picking out the perfect painting for us. It was hard for me to make a decision because they were all so wonderful. You even went to the car to bring us a few more to look at. We were so excited about our art piece that you took a picture of us holding our painting,I noticed you put it on Marla's websight. That painting brings joy to my heart and a smile on my face everytime I look at it,and unfortunatley now it has even greater meaning to us. David We send you our deepiest and most sincere condolences to you and your girls and family. It's amazing that I only had 30 min.talking with Marla but she touch my heart forever. I can only imagine how much she meant to all of you. May her memory always be with you. You and your family are in our prayers.
Sincerly, Abby And Eric Hirsh,
Marcus Berardino
April 12, 2012
David, I am heartbroken to hear of your loss. Marla was a shining light in this world; from the brief time I spent with her, I could tell how amazing a person she was. A loving mother and wife, a gifted artist. I'm thankful we were able to share a lunch together in December in Pittsburgh. My love and support go out to you and Anna and Maisy during this difficult hour.
April 12, 2012
Elinor,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your
family.
Nancy and Joel Newman
Linda Gilman
April 12, 2012
Elinor, Dave, Anna, Maisy, Leslie, Sree, Anya and Ravi...there are no words to express the sadness I feel for you all right now. I read all the messages and I am sorry that I didn't know Marla as others have. I will always remember her gorgeous big blue eyes, her incredible smile and her wonderful sense of humor. I know that she will be missed. With love and prayers, cousin Linda Dubin-Gilman
Barbara McKown
April 12, 2012
My heart goes out to David, Anna, Maisy and Elinor, Leslie, Sreeram, Anya and Ravi. We are saddened to hear about Marla.
Barbara Gaffen McKown
Cousin
Jenny Dienstag Levine
April 12, 2012
I met Marla at U of I and roomed with her in the AEPhi house. Marla had such a warm personality and innate sense of joy. I was truly lucky to have had her as a friend. My heart grieves for her family, and I can only offer my sincere condolences. Marla's memory will surely be for a blessing.
April 12, 2012
Elinor, Leslie and David, we are shocked and deeply saddened to learn of this tragic loss. Our hearts go out to you.
Alice, Laura and David Adelman
April 12, 2012
This is Lori Wolynec the daughter of Roberta and Myron Wolynec my heart goes out to all...my deepest sympathy
April 12, 2012
We are very sadden to hear of the loss Of Marla. Be it of comfort to know that the entire Union Township community is saying prayers for your family.
Rik,Lisa, Ryan and Savanna Cannon
Becky Gitles
April 12, 2012
My sincerest sympathies go out to you and your family. Marla was a favorite sorority sister back at U of I with the warmest and happiest smile. She will be dearly missed.
Sue Schamber
April 12, 2012
Elinor and Family, I am so sorry for your loss of Marla. I enjoyed hearing about her art shows and all that her girls were involved with. Such a deep loss will be felt. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Sandy Freeman
April 12, 2012
Marla brought sunshine, happiness and kindness to the world and she will be missed by everyone who was blessed to know her. May your hearts be lifted by her love. Sandy Freeman
April 12, 2012
David, My prayers goes out to you and your family as I heard about your loss today.
Bob Schuler
Pgh, PA
Dana Diaz
April 12, 2012
Extending my heartfelt sympathy on the tragic loss of Marla. May your family find comfort in knowing that she will be fondly remembered by so many people in the Union Township Community.
Karen, Kadie and Garrett Spoor
April 12, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with Marla's family at this very difficult time. She was a joy for the kids on her "Fry Fridays," and will be greatly missed. With deepest sympathy-
Amie (Creinin) Williams
April 12, 2012
I knew Marla during my junior high years and was so saddened to hear about her passing. I remember her infectious laugh, huge smile and curly hair. She had a big heart and my heart and prayers are with Anna, Maisy, David and the rest of her family during this incredibly difficult time.
Matthew Thode
April 12, 2012
Dave, I wish you all the best in these trying times. May God bless you and your family.
Scott & Stacey Hardy
April 12, 2012
Dave, our hearts are broken for your loss. You and Marla were the perfect pair. Her smile and happy spirit, we will never forget. May you find comfort in your wonderful girls.
You will be in our thoughts always.
Gerard Archambault
April 12, 2012
David, Maisy and Anna you are in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathy to you all.
Molly Reisman
April 12, 2012
I went to Camp Tavor with Marla and have such fond memories of her humor and kindness. Somewhere I have a picture from 1984 of us on the last morning of camp. Somehow, even after staying up all night, we were fresh faced and beautiful (could it be have been youth and joy?). I always wondered what she went on to do and am so pleased to see that she went on to have a lovely family. I'm also so sorry to learn (on the same day) of her untimely death. She had a special spark andI think those of us who did know her were really lucky to have been touched by it. It's been well over 20 years since I've seen her and I can still feel some of that magic... My condolences go to her family and friends, especially her children. I am so sorry you had to lose her now. It really sucks.
Teresa Johnson Wright
April 12, 2012
Dave,
So sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family. Please know we are here for you if you need anything.
Spiro Papadopoulos
April 12, 2012
David - I am so sad to hear of your loss. I will light a candle for Marla this Sunday. Both of you welcomed me into your home and treated me like family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jamie Peyton
April 12, 2012
Our deepest sympathies to your family. Marla brought a lot of joy with her wonderful work and love for the children.- The Peyton Family
Laurie Goldberg
April 12, 2012
My heart breaks for your wonderful family. Marla was and remain what I strive to be, her glowing smile, innate kindness and warm heart will guide me all the days of my life. I am so thankful for the many years of friendship we shared and even though we saw each less in the past few years the memories will forever remain with me. May her memory also be a blessing to you all while you navigate through this difficult time. I am so sorry for the tremendous loss.
Nancy Pastroff
April 12, 2012
I am just in shock right now as I just heard this news. Marla and my sister were such good friends in college and now they will be joined together again in heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Nancy (Shapiro) Pastroff
Phillip, Julie, Samantha and Alex Henry
April 12, 2012
Dave, Anna, Maisy, Aunt Elinor, Leslie, Sree, Anya and Ravi - We are so, so sad to hear of the news of Marla. Words cannot express the pain we feel for the whole family. Marla's smile and happy personality will always be etched in our minds and we know that the girls will carry on their mother's warm, upbeat outlook on life . Lots of love from our family to yours! XOXO
Meg Sakka
April 12, 2012
Leslie my deepest sympathy to you and your mom and the rest of your family. My thoughts and prayers are out there.
Karen Walker
April 12, 2012
Dave,Anna,Maisy,Bubsy,Leslie....Thank you for sharing Marla to everyone she knew! The loss is a tragic one, and she will be missed greatly, but my family has been honored to have known her and all of you. My love,thoughts and prayers will continue for you. Hugs to all.
Laurie Goldberg
April 12, 2012
My heart breaks for your wonderful family. Marla was and remain what I strive to be, her glowing smile, innate kindness and warm heart will guide me all the days of my life. I am so thankful for the many years of friendship we shared and all she did to make my world a better place. May her memory be a blessing to you all while you navigate through this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
April 12, 2012
David- I have a very heavy heart hearing the loss of Marla. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family! Keri Vining -Canton, MA
Terri Duket
April 12, 2012
My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Although no words can really help to ease your loss may the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.
April 12, 2012
Dave, so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Bob Kenny and family.
Steve Baron
April 12, 2012
Along with my family, I pass along our sympathy and condolences to Elinor, David and your whole family. May Marla's memory always be blessing to you.
Lois Cole
April 12, 2012
Elinor and Family,
I was deeply saddened to hear about Marla. My thoughts are with you!!!
Rachelle, Regan and Tyler Cook
April 12, 2012
Our deepest sympathies to your family on your loss. Your family is in our prayers.
Peter Stone
April 12, 2012
David - The thoughts and prayers of all of us here at MSG are with you and your family ........
Peter Stone
Barbara Ann Holmes
April 12, 2012
I had the pleasure of working with Marla and her family to frame her amazing window art. Her cheerful art will forever be in my memory. I am deeply sorry that you have to go through this, your family is in my prayers.
Barbara Ann Holmes
Susan Ostrov
April 12, 2012
To Elynor and Family, I am deeply saddened to hear about your loss. May Marla's memory forever be a blessing to all who knew and loved her. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Susie Ostrov
Matt and Alexis Gage
April 12, 2012
Marla Fry is one of the most beautiful people the world has been blessed to know and experience. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of her family and friends.
tina catherman
April 12, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family! Our deepest sympathies! The Cathermans
ALLWays Learning Preschool
April 12, 2012
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
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