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Mary Carter Obituary
April 15, 1945 - Sept. 10, 2023
VALPARAISO, IN - Dr. Mary Ann Carmody Carter, age 78, went to be with our Lord on September 10, 2023 after suffering a heart attack at her home.
Mary Ann was born in Gary, IN to Raymond Carmody Sr., MD and Marianne Carmody. She was preceded in death by her parents, brother Timothy Carmody, MD, and sister Kathleen Miller of Chesterton, IN. Mary Ann was a widow, but is survived by one daughter, Shelly Brower of Stevenson Ranch, CA, brother Raymond Carmody, MD, (Carol) of Tucson, AZ, sisters Maureen Carmody (Danny) of Seminole, FL, Nancy Carmody of Valparaiso, IN, and Theresa Carmody (Don) of Valparaiso, IN. She was a cherished mother-in-law to Vance Brower and loving grandmother to Ian & Cade Brower of Stevenson Ranch, CA. Mary Ann was so proud of her daughter and grandchildren.
Mary Ann attended Chesterton High School and St. Joseph's College. She was widowed at a young age, but went on to receive her teaching degree and master's degree after attending Valparaiso University. Mary Ann taught briefly but felt her true calling was becoming a therapist. She proudly earned her PhD from the Union Institute and University in 1995 and fulfilled her dream of becoming a Christian Counselor. She was an extremely compassionate therapist. Her main goal was to provide quality care and an understanding and caring space for others. She enjoyed reading the Bible and praying alone and with others.
Mary Ann loved nature and walked every day in either Dunes State Park or Lakewood Park. Communing with nature was Mary Ann's own form of therapy. She loved all animals and was known for her fondness of birds, especially cardinals. She owned many dogs, cats, and horses throughout her life. Horseback riding was a passion of her early years. She was also known for feeding strays that wandered into her yard.
She will be greatly missed by her family, friends, and clients.
Per Mary Ann's wishes, there will not be a funeral, but instead a mass will be held in her honor.
Arrangements by Dykes Funeral Home, Inc. (219-462-3125)
Memories and Condolences
for Mary Carter
Elizabeth Claus
September 9, 2025
MaryAnn will always miss you till we see each other.Steve was so happy to make your plaque I never forgot what you taught me . That I could control what I allowed in my life . I love you and will always .
Cindi Bledsoe
September 9, 2024
Mary Ann was my therapist, mentor, and prayer partner for almost 25 years. She was so filled with the Holy Spirit. She loved unconditionally, prayed ferociously and was ever faithful. She lead me in my journey through many dark times and I am so grateful that God brought us together.
It gives me peace knowing that she is now with so many of the ones she loves the most I am looking forward to seeing her again.
Cindi Bledsoe
Dr Bill zato
February 11, 2024
Dear Dr Mary Ann in heaven, thank you so much for your friendship over the many years we've known one another. And a special thanks for your prayers for healing for me - Jesus heard them and answered them and I was cured. I feel blessed to have known your dad and you and your sisters Nancy and birdie and brother tim
Jo Walker
October 7, 2023
I am very sad to learn the passing of my friend and counselor I'd known for 30 years. Mary Ann was very dedicated to helping her clients. I miss her.
Pamela Staub
October 4, 2023
I am so saddened to hear this. She helped our family in so many ways. I regularly would see her at Roger's Lakewood Park and she always greeted me with fondness, love and prayers. What a beautiful soul. She will be missed in so many ways but her faith in God has her in a better place.
Theresa Carmody
September 26, 2023
My fondest memorys of Maryann were see you every day and sharing prayers with you
Elizabeth Schaefer
September 23, 2023
I am so sorry to hear about Mary Ann. She was a great friend to my mom. I always remember Mary Ann´s wonderful, gregarious laugh and how much fun she was. She is home now and thank God for that. Such a sweet soul.
Sandra Williams
September 21, 2023
I am saddened and shocked to find this out. Mary Ann is a dear friend. We have talked and prayed on the phone together about every two weeks for years. I know that she is at peace and rejoicing with her Lord. My condolences to her family. Sandra Williams
Amy Carmody
September 19, 2023
I have many fond memories of working with Mary Ann in the office. She was always pleasant and good natured, including when our "behind the scenes" office routine included caring for two young rascals, her nephews Timmy and Danny. She was a devoted friend to Annie and John, and to Ruth, with whom she enjoyed Porter Beach every Wednesday afternoon. She was able to turn her own grief into compassion and caring for others. My condolences to all in the family. Rest in peace, Mary Ann.
Kathy Coffman Reiter
September 18, 2023
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Nancy Carmody
September 18, 2023
Mary Ann, thank you for all our wonderful memories . Horseback riding together was truly an adventure. Our Chicago times were also memorable.
Love you sister.
Donna Hale
September 17, 2023
Mary Ann was a beautiful, wise, loving, Godly counselor and friend to me. I will always remember her words of encouragement and wisdom and our times of praying together. She truly shined the light of Jesus onto those around her. Prayers and condolences to her family. She will be greatly missed.
Harry Frank
September 17, 2023
Dear Nancy,
I am so sorry to hear about Mary´s passing. My sincerest condolences.
Harry Frank
Judy Weidman Bishop
September 17, 2023
I am so sorry to read of the loss of Mary Ann. She was a lovely warm woman. I remember her enthusiastic smile when I knew her in high school. My heart felt sympathy. Judy Weidman Bishop
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