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Robert E. Schroer VALPARAISO, IN - Robert E. Schroer, 82, of Valparaiso passed away Sunday, April 8, 2018. He was born March 20, 1936 in Rochester, IN to Rev. William and Regina (Scheidt) Schroer and named a child of God at St. John's Lutheran Church by his father. He is survived by his wife of 59 years, Marilyn A. (Schultz) Schroer; a daughter, Stacey L. (Kevin) Wilson; son, Scott R. (Julie) Schroer; three grandchildren: Nichol Wilson, Alexander and Noah Schroer; brothers and sisters-in-law; Charlene Schroer, Gerry Schroer, Emilie Meiners, Rosalie Hett, Dave and Kathy Schultz, Jon and Liz Schultz and many loving nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents and brothers, William and Louis Schroer. Following graduation from Valparaiso University in 1958, he began teaching at Luther High School South in Chicago. After receiving a M.Ed. degree from Loyola University, he held positions as Director of Guidance and as Dean of Students. In 1964, he completed the Colloquy in Theology program at Concordia University and in 1968 entered into Student Personnel work at Concordia as Director of Counseling and as Dean of Students. In 1974, he returned to Valparaiso University where he served as Dean of Men for 21 years. He was honored by the University as a recipient of the O.P. Kretzmann Award for distinguished contributions and longtime exemplary service. He was an active member of Immanuel Lutheran Church where he held many leadership positions and was privileged to be Chairman of the Congregation during the construction of the present facility. He was a member of the Church Choir for many years and was a Stephen Ministry leader. He served on District Boards for Christian Education and the Commission on Ministerial Health. A memorial visitation will be held Friday from 12 noon - 2:00 p.m. at Immanuel Lutheran Church, 1700 Monticello Park Dr., Valparaiso with memorial service beginning at 2:00 p.m. Memorial donations may be made to Immanuel Lutheran Church or Valparaiso University.

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Published by The Times from Apr. 10 to Apr. 11, 2018.

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Stacey Wilson

April 8, 2019

April 1, 2019

Oh how the YEAR went by, which happened to be Easter week end, when we celebrated the joy of the resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ. During that week end, Dad rambled about different stories, but being a graduated with a Master Degree from Loyola Chicago what more should you expect from a Loyola Rambler .

Ecclesiastes 3: 1
There is a time for everything

Stacey

April 8, 2019

March 20, 2019

Today we celebrate your Birthday! The day that God brought you into this world. Today you are resting in his arms. We will have a cake in honor of you tonight.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD!!!!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!

I thought of you today
but that is nothing new.
I thought of you yesterday]
and the days before that too. I often
think of you in silence, I often speak
your name. All I have are memories
and your pictures in a frame. Your memory
is a keepsake from which I'll never
part. God has him in your
arms, We have YOU in our
HEARTS.

Happy Birthday in Heaven in Dad!!!!

Stacey

April 8, 2019

September 30, 2018

It was homecoming week-end at Valparaiso University. Mom would of loved to have you at the Breakfast and the Gammi Phi 100th Birthday celebration yesterday! Dad you were remembered by many. I am sure that Mom had to share the news that you had passed. I proudly wear your Valparaiso sweatshirt's this week end in memory of you.

Mom, Stacey, Scott

April 8, 2019

May 8, 2018

Mom and Scott- even though u came AFTER Me refer his remembrance speech- I will always love and cherish u forever!!!! To my own family Kevin and Nichol I love you to the Moon and Back even u Bear!! Julie, Alex and Noah proud to call u my Sister in law and Alexander and Noah Hugs to Infinity and beyond. I am blessed with wonderful Aunts, Uncles, Cousins and their families. The LOVE in our FAMILY flows strong and deep, leaving us MEMORIES to treasure and keep. All the friends that have shared love and prayers this past month has helped us walk through this journey. A GOOD Friend cant fix all your worries but they can be there when you need a shoulder to lean on, just need to talk, or let you know that you are not alone. Dad will be missed each day, but we know that God and You are on are side

Stacey

April 8, 2019

June 14, 2018

Today Mom received a single red rose in remembrance of your 59th Anniversary. It was beautiful. That rose stayed alive longer than normal. It stayed alive because of your love for each other. The love you shared for your family and the examples you shared. You showed love to others where ever you went. We all know that when you took your vows 59 years ago that you loved each other with all your heart and your marriage was blessed with the love of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen!

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.


And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13:13

Granddaughter, Nichol Wilson, graduating from Valparaiso University. Grandpa and Grandmom Schroer and Granddaughter Nichol WIlson

July 1, 2018

Dad, Scott, Julie, Aster and Prairie at Avalon. Last visit for Scott and family

Stacey Wilson

June 30, 2018

Dad and Mom having breakfast at Reese's in Fort Myers Beach following church - St. Peter's Lutheran Church

June 30, 2018

Carol and Don Koetke

June 29, 2018

Our memories of Bob span many years and different places where we have both lived and worked. We met when Bob and Don were both at Concordia College in River Forest, IL. Bob was always cheerful, good humored, supportive and enjoyable to talk with. His smile was welcoming and genuine. Despite the fact that we rooted for competing baseball teams (St. Louis Cardinals and Chicago Cubs - and you can guess who supported which team) Bob was always fun to be with. Later, we both lived in Valparaiso, worked at the University and attended Immanuel Lutheran Church where both Bob and Don were congregation officers. We cheered the VU basketball team at the home games, attended concerts and theater plays and enjoyed each others company when for years we dined together once each month with the Immanuel dinner group. We miss Bob but we cherish the many good memories we are blessed to have. Our love goes out to you Micky and to Stacey and Scott.

Elizabeth Schultz

June 19, 2018

Bob was a member of this family long before I came into the picture. He and Roger welcomed me as an "Out-law" and we always had a special bond. He enjoyed revisiting fond memories and celebrating traditions.

Bob had many atributes, but one that stood out for me was the way he made a person feel confident and successful. From small every day tasks to major mile stones, he was genuinely complimentary. He spoke his mind, but always from his heart. In my mind I often pictured Bob as the "wise old owl"of the family, always kind and gentle but able and willing to provide and protect.

Bob love the Lord! He enjoyed music and singing God's praises. We will sing in the courts of the Lord's house together some day.

Judy Miller

June 16, 2018

Remembering Bob Schroer - a man of faithfulness:
- as a productive man (ILC church president, tenor in the choir), lover of sports, history teacher at Luther South, finally Dean of Men at Valparaiso University, pursuer of family history and genealogy, etc.
-as a dad and granddad - lots of love and guidance, supportive of activities and dreams. He always loved to watch the activities of any children within viewing range.
-as a husband of Micky for nearly 60 years starting right after college at VU. Lots of routines were built on memories like picnic trips to the Indiana Dunes after church on Sundays. He was a promoter of Micky's music. A real traveler and "Scamper" and faithful attender of family summer reunions at Camp Okojobi and after-Christmas retreats to Fort Myers Beach.
-as a member of the community, supporting the Kiwanis Pancake Day held at Valpo High School, supporter of plays at the Goodman Theater in Chicago, big supporter of the arts, music and plays at VU and their basketball team as alumni, and enjoyer of meals out (i.e. birthday dinners at The China House).
We'll miss his gentle spirit, sense of humor, twinkle-eyed grin and willing, supportive participation in all aspects of life.
( Mert says, "I couldn't say it any better.")

Phil and Karen Bickel

June 14, 2018

Like salt&pepper or bread&butter, there was always Bob&Micky, or was it Micky&Bob? Somethings missingthat gentle giant of a quiet man, with a super sweet smile and twinkle of eye, sitting patiently on the choir side of church, four rows from the back, especially on the Sundays that Micky would accompany a choir or play a duet with Carey (both of which always blessed our worship). We miss seeing Bob and greeting him with a pat on the back. We miss his kind smile, sweet demeanor and subtle sense of humor. But he lives on in our hearts and memories and in the very music that flows from Mickys own hands and smile and in her display of faith moving forward. You are greatly loved, dear friend.
A particular memory from Phil: Almost meeting the River Forest Dean of Men...
seems Phils roommate returned from a weekend at home with a suitcase full of beer!

Linda Lundgren

June 12, 2018

Bob was such a kind, gentle soul with a remarkably witty side. He made me laugh numerous times in choir! I will miss his humor, smile, and gentle ways. His kindness touched all who knew him.

Lynn Jankowske

June 11, 2018

Although I have spent much more time with Mickey in service to ILS and its music program, I have enjoyed knowing Bob, her husband, as a "gentle giant" with a wonderful sense of humor. Being seated in front of him in Senior Choir made me the recipient of infrequent shoulder rubs and all too frequent witty quips! Bob was such a kind Christian man with a sparkle in his eyes even when the spring in his step began to fade. As a couple, Mickey and Bob were complete! I know he will be missed by many, especially by Mickey and family. May you find peace as you continue to remember the love and joy shared during his lifetime and recognize the influence he still maintains in your lives.

Scott Schroer

June 8, 2018

Dad's Funeral Reflection spoken by son at Dad's Funeral April 13, 2018.

I've heard several comments this week describing Dad as being wise and having a good sense of humor, both of which helped him in his roles of Dean of Students, husband, and father.

One of my favorite bits of advice I received from Dad deals with times when life gets challenging. He would say you can choose to either laugh or cry when life gets tough. While we've been running bout 50/50 on laughing and crying this past week, that tide will soon turn to where we will have more smiles on our faces than not.

And as many of you know, Dad was a loving man.

Dad loved is Savior and he loved Immanuel, specifically the people of Immanuel. I know Dad was frustrated the last couple of months when he couldn't get to church. So, thank you to those of you who visited him at Avalon and at the hospital.

Dad also loved Valparaiso University. Even though he retired in 1995, Julie, Alexander, Noah, and I swore he was still on their payroll, especially with the recruiting office. Because every time we got together, he would tell Alexander and Noah how Valpo has a fine Engineering program and that they have a pretty good soccer team, too. In the later years, as Dad's memory started to fade, this conversation took place multiple times during each visit, and more recently, multiple times, each day, during each visit.

Lastly, Dad loved his family. Some of our best memories of him come from our vacations, including camping, Okoboji, and seeing our extended family.

We will miss Dad greatly, but these fun memories will allow us to turn our tears into laughter in the days to come.

June 6, 2018

Robert, Bob, Dean, Big Bob, Uncle Bob, Brother-in-law. Bob has been so many names to our family. I'll never forget our sharing times at Okoboji and Florida - watching the sunsets as we tried to solve the problems of life:)
I will miss your hugs and smiles. Rosalie

Marv & Judy Bartell

June 5, 2018

Dear Micky,

How blessed we have been to have you and Bob as friends for all these years. There are so many memories of good times that come to mind especially since we saw you at Bob's beautiful memorial service. When Bob took his position at Concordia and a mutual friend suggested that we get together, we started decades of fun experiences. Remember the many plays we attended, concerts at Millennium Park, and restaurant meals we shared. We especially recall the time Judy wore knee high white disco boots to a Korean restaurant and had to struggle to get them off when the waiter announced that it was a shoe-less restaurant and gave us special slippers to wear. Bob teased her about that for many years. His sense of humor was always present along with his kindness, thoughtfulness and interest in those around him.

You both have been precious godparents to our daughter, and our children remember your entire family coming to a lot of annual birthday parties for her. We feel especially happy that we got to spend a wonderful day with you this past winter at Nervous Nellies on the water in Ft. Myers Beach. Bob looked good, enjoyed his meal, and we treasure the hours spent reminiscing with both of you.

As your anniversary date approaches, we thank the Lord that two very special people named Bob and Micky were brought together at Valpo, enjoyed many happy years of marriage, and became dear friends of ours.

God bless you and your family.

All our love,

Marv and Judy Bartell

Tim Schroer

May 22, 2018

When I was growing up it was always great to get together with Uncle Bob and Aunt Micky and their kids. No one was a more appreciative audience for me to try my jokes out on than Uncle Bob. It felt good to belong to a kind, fun extended family. I remember my Uncle Bob fondly.

With love,
Tim Schroer

May 22, 2018

My love to you all - It was so very good to be with you at Bob's memorial service. As I wrote, he was a good man and I loved him, as I do you. So many memories flooded back and seemed to embrace us all. I pray those memories and all those of your years together will become sources of love and support in the days to come. Emmy

Carey Morrisson

May 21, 2018

To my dear friend Micky, my most amusing AND touching memory of Bob is the ever faithful & patient loving husband of a church musician sitting in a pew EARLY, a sign of a spouse of a church musician getting to church early while rehearsals & warmups are held in the choir room or piano/organ duets are practiced. How well we 4 get that! God bless you. Love, Carey & Alan ( the other patient waiter!).

Sharon Hersemann

May 17, 2018

Greetings to Micky - if these greetings reach you on your wedding anniversary --- that will be so appropriate coming from me. How many anniversary dinners did the four of us share??? Lots!! Those were just a few of the good times Daryll and I shared with you and Bob. The men shared their work, and our families shared church and being neighbors and friends for many years!! I was so appreciative of Susan's willingness to travel with me, so that we could attend Bob's funeral. Your family is and has always been special to my family. I do like to think of Bob and Daryll having a heavenly conversation!! Love to all of you!

Stacey Wilson

May 15, 2018

Dad's Funeral Reflection spoken by daughter at Dad's Funeral April 13, 2018
April 8, 2018
Ecclesiastes 3:1 There is a time for everything

Oh how the years go by, when Scott and I completed their family.
On how the years go by, when Dad would put me up on the kitchen counter and I would give him the sport recap from night before. He especially liked to hear about those: Chicago White Sox, Chicago Bears and the Chicago Bull scores.
Oh how the years go by, when we would go to Concordia River Forest Football games and Dad would boldly sing,
Oh, when the saints,
Oh, when the saints,
Oh when the saint go marching in
Oh, Lord , I want to be in that number
When the saints go marching in.
Oh how the years go by, when the Schroer family left Palos Heights and moved to Valparaiso. Dad would share how he felt like how he was going home.
Oh how the years go by, when Dad helped students at the University. He believed in them, gave them advice, and even gave them time to think for instance when some of the SigEps decided to sit on the porch roof on a Saturday morning during spring week end.
Oh how the years go by, that Dad inspired me to become a teacher.
Oh how the years go by, when Dad came to visit me at college and those letters of love and encouragement he sent me. I am so glad that I still have those today.
Oh how the years go by, when Dad and I had many long talks about how we could support Mom during her struggle with the effect with chemotherapy.
Oh how the years go by, when he walked me down the aisle with tears in his eyes. It continued when his grandchild entered his world.
Oh how the years go by, when Nichol decided to go to Valparaiso University.
Oh how the years go by, when Dad had colon cancer. Right before his surgery I read him the words to the Hymn Fight the Good Fight.
Oh how the year went by, as we had a Schroer reunion in Rochester Indiana. Dad told stories from his past and about his family.
Oh how the months went by as we celebrated Christmas together, visited Fort Myers Beach together and saw Nichol for the last time.
Oh how the month went by, when Kevin and I came to Avalon and I surprised him as he was eating breakfast.
Oh how the very last time went by, which happened to be Easter week end, we celebrated the joy of the resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ. During that week end, Dad rambled about different stories, but being a graduated with a Master Degree from Loyola Chicago what more should you expect from a Loyola Rambler.
Oh how the day came, that our friend, Great Uncle, Uncle, Sister-in Law, Brother-in-Law, Grandpa, Dad and Husband took his last breath. Oh how this brings tears to our eyes but He IS with our RISEN Lord.
Our time is now to understand there is time for everything. CELEBRATE LIFE!!!

May 14, 2018

The best to his family.

Bob & Nadine Schmitt

George Oberg

May 12, 2018

One of the best teachers I ever had. Enjoyed and learned from his class at Luther South. My sympathy to his family.

The Rev. Charley Lopez

May 12, 2018

One of my history teachers at Luther South, Chicago. I also ran cross country when he was coaching. Rest in God's eternal peace.

The Rev. Charley Lopez, Jr +

William Grube

May 12, 2018

One of the really good ones at Luther South.

May 11, 2018

He was my sophomore baseball coach at Luther South High School in Chicago and I really liked him. He also had an impressive career in education.

Jack Vogel, Class of 1961

May 11, 2018

I wish to extend my deepest sympathy to the entire Schroer family. Mr. Schroer was a beloved teacher at Luther High School South. My life long love of History began in his class. He was a great friend to all the students and his guidance was invaluable. God bless you all.
Jackie Brown Class of 63

Claudia Van Housen

May 11, 2018

Great history teacher at Luther South. His assignment in U.S History class to have us write our family history led me to eventually do Ancestry DNA. Without his inspiration, I would never have found how rich and rewarding history is. My favorite instuctor.

May 11, 2018

Mr. Schroer was a great history teacher and cross-country coach. He made running a passion for me all these years. He will be greatly missed.
Richard Johnson Class of 63.

Kay Trusheim

April 17, 2018

Dear Micky and family - Bob was a beautiful and faithful child of God and a good friend. May God wrap you and your family in His loving arms and guide and bless you in these coming days. Remembering all the laughter and fun we had together. Sending Love and Prayers.

Dale & Norma Becker

April 17, 2018

What a wonderful and kind man! We went to school together from 1st grade to H.S. graduation. Sincere sympathy to all his family. Dale and Norma Becker

Ron and Sharon Eickhoff

April 14, 2018

Dear Micky and family,
We are so saddened to hear of Bob's death. Our prayers are for your family as you adjust to his loss, but what a comfort to know he has gone to his Lord where thee is no more suffering.
We are so grateful for the cousin gatherings we had together in Florida, getting to know each other better. Loved talking genealogy with Bob! He was always so interesting and interested!
Our deepest sympathy,
Ron and Sharon

Joe and Julie Pedroza

April 13, 2018

Oh Micky and family, we are so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. He was a great neighbor and would always wave to us and have a smile for everyone. We will miss him.

Bob Dame

April 13, 2018

Dear Schroer Family,

I had the pleasure of working for Bob at Concordia University, River Forest, and his wit, quick smile and counsel were positive influences to me. My thoughts and prayers are with you and may God's peace be with you.

Dan, Barb, Lucas, Lauren, Ethan and Evan Unruh

April 13, 2018

Hi Micky,

We were sad to hear about Bob's passing. Our prayer is that God will surround you and your family with His love during this time of grieving. We have very good memories of the years you both looked out for us when we attended Valparaiso University. More recently it was great to see you when you visited us at Cedar Lake. We're sorry we were not able to attend Bob's funeral today.

May the Peace of Jesus be with you and your family,

April 12, 2018

Dear Micky and family,
We were so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. What a flood of memories come back. From being with him in the preschool Sunday class at his father's church in Rochester, IN, to confirmation class, days at Valparaiso U and beyond. Bob was my brother Bob's best man at his wedding. He was like a brother to me growing up and will always be in my fondest memories. May God be with you and give you peace.
Affectionately, Ruth (Beall) and Ed Heinig, Kalamazoo, MI

Alan Echtenkamp

April 12, 2018

Dear Mickey, So sorry to hear about Bob. You have my deepest sympathy. I always considered Bob a great friend and an outstanding individual during our days at Valpo. God bless you.

Joe and Julie Pedroza

April 11, 2018

Oh Micky and family, we are so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. He was a great neighbor and would always wave to us and have a smile for everyone. We will miss him.

April 11, 2018

Mr Schroef taught me History at Luther South. He had a gift from God on how to reach students with his teaching. May the God of comfort be with his family and friends.

Karen Mutka Kaukol

April 11, 2018

I will always remember Mr. Schroer as such a kind person and neighbor. He always had a smile on his face and projected a sense of warmth that put people at ease around him. Prayers for you all.

April 10, 2018

I will remember all the good times we had over the years. Thanks for being a friend.
Tom Winks

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Marilyn Hormann

April 10, 2018

Condolences and prayers for strength and consolation.

Ellen Clark

April 10, 2018

Prayers to your family at this difficult time. You will be truly missed by both friends and family. May God look over your family during this difficult time.

Phil McCarter

April 10, 2018

What a good life Robert has lived...upholding the reputation of the Schroer family. We send our sympathy to all his family, and pray for God's blessing of comfort and strength for you. Sincerely, Phil and Katie McCarter

Stacey Wilson

April 10, 2018

Dad my memories will last forever but missing you will never go away❤❤❤❤ I love you forever Dad!! Your daughter forever

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