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AARON SCHECHTER Obituary

SCHECHTER--Aaron,

Born on March 19, 1926 in Brooklyn, NY passed away peacefully in New York on December 22nd. Aaron had a wonderful life with no regrets; to quote Frank Sinatra, "I did it my way". An entertainment CPA, "hand holder" and most importantly a genuinely nice man for his career of sixty-five plus years. His wife, Elaine, served as his right hand through it all. They had an unshakeable bond that later generations hope to emulate. He leaves his wife, Elaine Abrams and three wonderful daughters --Annie Kasper (Tom), Sarah Gill (Tony) and Betsy Waters (Andrew) along with the great joys of his life --Rebecca, Caroline and Priscilla Kasper, Maxwell and Sammy Waters and Oliver Gill. He often quipped; "We should have had the grandchildren first". Also survived by his sailing buddies Ellen and Marty Abrams, brother Mike Shepherd, Alex Rooks and Jules Alexander and their families. In 2000, after enjoying Compo Beach in Westport, CT for thirty-seven years, Aaron and Elaine returned to Manhattan where he enjoyed his backyard, Central Park, as a visitor and volunteer. Donations in his honor may be made to the Aaron Schechter Baruch College Scholarship Fund, c/o Baruch College Fund, One Bernard Baruch Way, Box A-1063, NY NY 10010. A memorial celebration will be held on Friday January 30, 2015 at 6pm at the Baruch Performing Arts Center Nagelberg Theater. Entrance on south side East 25th Street between Third and Lex. Bowtie Optional.

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Published by New York Times on Dec. 24, 2014.

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Mary Bao

December 18, 2024

The nicest Father figure that ever could be... before he passed, Aaron told me he had a "no cry" rule... but I think of Aaron often as inspiration making our world a better place...

Harvey Kurtz

January 31, 2015

Elaine and family. I am saddened to learn of Aaron's passing. I remember him with respect and fondness. It has been many years but I still recall his warm smile, and also his Ford Woody station wagon.

January 28, 2015

Dear Eliane,
I have sad to miss Aaron's Memorial but I
want to send you my fondest memories for
a caring loving man to both friends and
clients.
Love,
Janice (ex-Rooks)

January 28, 2015

Dear Eliane,
I am so sorry to miss Aaron's Memorial but I
send you and the girls all my fondest thoughts
for a super kind caring man. A great help and
inspiration to all his friends and clients.
Love,
Janice (ex-Rooks)

January 19, 2015

The previous remembrance without a name attached was from Diane Hayes, Nashville, TN

January 8, 2015

It was an honor for me to know Aaron for 46 years! His love of life was infectious and his love for Elaine, his girls, his grandchildren and his friends was inspiring. I know he will be so greatly missed!

Lauren Carson

January 5, 2015

It was wonderful spending last summer with the Schechters in the Callander School in Newport. Saddened by the news of the passing of this wonderful fellow.

Suzanne Varisco

January 1, 2015

Dear Elaine, May you be strong now, without your loving Aaron by your side. Fondly, Suzanne

December 26, 2014

Aaron - Mensch
All our love,
Patti and Donald

December 26, 2014

Annie and family, all our love to you.
Deborah and Thomas
Tee, Eugenie and Eliza

Abigail, Michael, and Julia Cook

December 25, 2014

A fine man, and a model of patience, grace, and good humor. We'll cherish his memory.

Ron Weiss

December 25, 2014

A great friend who kept me company at the 92ndst. Y. Always had a kind word for everyone.
Ron Weiss

john morris

December 25, 2014

Captain Aaron, It will be hard sailing without your friendship,companionship and your amazing wit.Thank you for being the captain,on board and on land. John

Mary Bao

December 25, 2014

Aaron inspired my life! His big smile and bigger heart was the guiding light in my life. Thank you and I love you!!
Mary

Mary Bao

December 25, 2014

Aaron inspired my life. His big smile and big heart guided me into my life. Thank you and I love you! Mary

Mary Bao

December 25, 2014

Aaron was inspired a life of creativity and we always knew he was right because he had the biggest smile anyone could have. Mentor and guide... Thank you for showing us the way!

December 24, 2014

Aaron will be missed but we will always have fond memories. Our hearts go out to you and your entire family at this time.
Love
Judi, Randy, Matt and Lauren

December 24, 2014

Beautiful Couple

Stacey Morton

December 24, 2014

Aaron's joy filled face lit up a room and the hearts of all that knew him. Peace & Comfort to his beautiful family.
Thank you Aaron for being such a good friend to my Dad, Shadow Morton. I will miss you,your love, and your sound advise. I'm sure you have left one great party to join another.
Love & All Good Thoughts, Stacey

Richard Handelsman

December 24, 2014

I am glad I got to see Aaron and Elaine in August, at Newport. I remember meeting them at Green's Deli in Palm Beach many years ago. His reminiscences about his rock star clients, his insights in general, were enthralling.

Margie

December 24, 2014

He did lead a great life!

Summer 2013, Westport

December 24, 2014

Aaron is already missed!

Love,
Hollis (#4)

Gus Stevens

December 24, 2014

A beautiful obituary for a beautiful man. That smile is what will always be remembered.

Tony and Sarah Gill

December 24, 2014

ROCK ON AARON !

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