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GERARD--Barbara DeBernarda. Barbara DeBernarda Gerard, a vibrant and accomplished woman, passed away peacefully on February 3, 2025, in Fort Lauderdale, FL at the age of 81. Born in the Bronx, Barbara lived a life filled with creativity, dedication, and love. Barbara pursued her passion for education and the arts with remarkable determination. She earned an art degree from New York University and later achieved a Ph.D. in education from Nova Southwestern Univer-sity in Florida. Her aca- demic achievements reflected her lifelong commitment to learning and teaching. Barbara dedicated much of her professional career to the New York City Board of Education, where she worked tirelessly to inspire and educate countless students. Beyond her professional accomplishments, Barbara was deeply involved in cultural and community endeavors. She served as president of the National Organization of Italian American Women, a role that allowed her to celebrate her heritage while empowering others. Her leadership and charisma left an indelible mark on those who had the privilege of working alongside her. Barbara was also a talented artist whose creativity extended beyond her professional life. She found joy in painting and other artistic pursuits, which she shared with those around her. A passionate traveler, she explored the world with curiosity and enthusiasm, always seeking new experiences and inspiration. Her love for the arts was evident not only in her own creations but also in her unwavering support for artistic communities. Barbara's personal life was equally rich and fulfilling. She was a devoted mother to her son David and daughter-in- law Maria, as well as a loving and proud grandmother to Ada Mae. Known affectionately as "Nanny," she brought warmth and joy to her family's life through her generosity and outgoing spirit. Barbara's parents, Arthur and Edith, as well as her husband Marvin Hartenstein, predeceased her but undoubtedly influenced the com- passionate and charismatic woman she became. Splitting her time between New York City, East Hampton, NY and Fort Lauderdale, FL, Barbara embraced life fully wherever she went. Her magnetic personality made her beloved by all who had the pleasure of knowing her. Friends and family alike will sorely miss her presence but will forever treasure the memories they shared with such an extraordinary woman. May Barbara Gerard's legacy of artistry, generosity and love continue to inspire all who knew her. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Guild Hall in East Hampton, NY. www.guildhall.org/

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Published by New York Times on Feb. 16, 2025.

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Nancy Macina

February 24, 2025

An absolute joy to work with. A loving and accepting human being. You will be missed.
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Suzanne Sylvor

February 22, 2025

Please let me know to whom I can send a sympathy card. Thank you.

Aileen R Sirey

February 18, 2025

Barbara was a bright light in all our lives...always with a smile and a happy disposition. She was a conscientious and dedicated President of the National Organization of Italian Women who brought her talents to NOIAW with Art Shows, her kindness, and her love and interest in people. She leaves many dear friends who will miss her.

Rosa Casiello O'Day

February 17, 2025

I have known Barbara for almost a lifetime, and I cherish fond memories of our time together. My dear, beloved friend and colleague, Barbara, was an extraordinary human being who possessed countless virtues and exemplary qualities. She was kind, loving and supportive to family, friends and colleagues. She was a great mind, a formidable artist, and a model educator who relentlessly worked for the community and the good of humanity. Barbara touched many lives and will always hold a special place in my thoughts and in my heart and in the hearts and minds of all who knew her. Heartfelt condolences to family and friends. Rest in eternal peace, dear Barbara.
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Josephine (Josie) Belli

February 16, 2025

A dear friend and mentor, Barbara was an inspiration to all who had the privilege of knowing and spending time with her. A caring empath and creative soul, Barbara had a contagious positive and cheery disposition. Barbara's devotion to her family (whether by blood or association) was remarkable.
Barbara never complained. Her glass (chardonnay preferred) was always half full-even during difficult times.
Barbara, known as "Aunt Barbara" to my children, was fun, creative, supportive and thoughtful.
A great loss....
Pace all'anima sua.

Joseph Sciame

February 16, 2025

Barbara Gerard was a true professional. A Board member of the Italian Heritage and Culture Committee-NY, Inc., she devoted more than 40 years in attending meetings and participating on committees. Most noteworthy for her artistic talent and flair, she was a consummate consensus builder and will be sorely missed.

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