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HELEN MCCURDY
February 19, 2025
Always alive in my heart and mind.
Peter & Mary Salus
April 3, 2013
Dear Hope, We just heard. I knew Bernie even before you did. There are many things I recall. There are many things I could write. I will think of him throughout the sports seasons. Our love to you and Max.
Lynn and Elie Bryan
March 3, 2013
Dear Hope,
Elie and I are very sorry to hear that Bernie passed away. Please know that you and Max have our deepest sympathy and are in our prayers daily.
March 3, 2013
Dear Hope, I'm very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and Max. Warm regards - Iva Hrastinski
Mary Sue Reutebuch
March 3, 2013
Hope,
Tim, Jeremy and I just learned of Bernie's death. I have been reading about his life and see there are so many he has touched.
I cannot imagine what you and Max are going through along with Don, Ann and all your dear friends and family. Please know we are with you all in prayer; please trust a day will not go by without thoughts of all of you in it.
Lovingly, Mary Sue, Tim and Jeremy Reutebuch
March 3, 2013
Hope-
Please know our family is keeping you and Max in our thoughts and prayers. I will be in touch through Ann and each day you both will be in our thoughts.
lovingly, Tim, Mary Sue and Jeremy Reutebuch
Joyce Field
March 2, 2013
Really miss Bernie's kibitzing at Miracles Fitness. He brightened up the day
Bette & Joe Rubinstein
March 1, 2013
Hope and Max,
We were so sorry to hear of your great loss. Bernie made such a major contribution to our community, as have you.
A tremendous loss for all of us!
May you soon be comforted in knowing that so many of us have been touched by your lives in so many ways. You have been a great team. Our hearts and prayers go with you in this very difficult time.
March 1, 2013
I met up with Bernie on Facebook, only 50 years after we went to Ryan Junior High and Jamaica High together. I will truly miss him. John MacKenzie, AKA Johnny Mac.
March 1, 2013
Dear Hope: I was so shocked to hear the news about your husband. I want to extend my most sincere sympathies to you- What a difficult time for you- you are in my thoughts and prayers. Sharing in your deep sorrow and caring about your hurting heart- Warm regards, Kathi Lange- Families United, inc
Lucia Mendez
February 28, 2013
Dear Hope: I'm so sorry about your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and Max.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
David & Rebecca Colby
February 28, 2013
Hope and Max, we are very sorry for your loss. You will be in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
Lori and Hugh Fradkin
February 27, 2013
We were shocked and saddened to learn about Bernie. It is a huge loss. Our love and deepest sympathy to Hope, Max and Helen.
Kris & Don Lamb
February 27, 2013
We are stunned to learn of this sad news. We will keep Bernie in our hearts, and his family in our thoughts and prayers. Our sympathies to you at this difficult time.
February 27, 2013
Hope-So sorry for your loss. Wishing you comfort at this difficult time. In peace-Teresa Cecil. SLP
Sue & Dave Aufderheide
February 27, 2013
Our sincere condolences to family and friends. The last time we saw Bernie (December) he shared stories of his recent trip to see Max, the great food they shared and the awesome memories they had created. Bernie lies on in your memories.
Krista and Ivan Edwards
February 27, 2013
Goodbye to our dear friend, we are so sorry we aren't able to be there today to celebrate you with those who love you most. You were a positive presence in our lives, and we will miss you greatly. Hope and Max, are thoughts are with you today and in the days ahead.
Veronica Blann
February 26, 2013
Hope and all of Bernie's Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss and extend my sympathies to you.
Charlotte Scarcelli
February 26, 2013
What a shock to read this news! Bernie was too young to die. I have such great memories of Bernie's great love for and pride in Max, his love for Hope, and his genuine pleasure at seeing me and any of my kids. Cherish the memories, Hope and Max. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.
Gretchen Storm
February 26, 2013
My thoughts reach out to you. Hope you are one of the strongest, most amazing women I've ever met. Stay strong! Remember all the wonderful times you shared together and let those memories bring you comfort.
Marlene Mattox
February 26, 2013
Hope, you and Max have been in our constant thoughts and prayers since we heard this sad news. We all take comfort in the precious memories of Bernie. You two were his happiness in life, keep that as your strength now.
Glenda Robinette
February 26, 2013
Dear Hope and Max,
I will never forget meeting Bernie for the first time in August of 1987 when I was welcomed into the APC family. Bernie welcomed me with open arms and was always a great mentor and friend. One thing I loved about him was his talent for writing poetry. He would create our own special poem for our birthday. It was always funny and touching. I am deeply saddened by his loss. He will be greatly missed. Sincerely, Glenda
Mary Campbell
February 26, 2013
Dear Hope, We kind of lost being in touch for several years. One very happy memory I have of both you and Bernie was an amazing Seder -- with freely interpreted traditions and favorite foods regardless of the season! I hope you and Max have many such happy memories.
Mary Campbell
Mike Wilson
February 26, 2013
It was my joy to know Bernie and Hope. My heart goes out to the family at the loss of this very special man.
Tom Ohlgren
February 26, 2013
My wife and I had a very pleasant luncheon with Bernie and Hope not long ago, and we talked about Bernie's years on the APC. As a resident of the New Chauncey Neighborhood, I was impressed with Bernie's commitment to maintaining the stability of the neighborhoods near campus. Given recent changes taking place now, we needed Bernie's expertise to stop the encroachments on single-family residences. Thank you Bernie.
February 26, 2013
Hope and Max,
So sorry of Bernie's passing. May happy memories bring comfort.
Chris & Donna Larson
Claire Ball
February 26, 2013
I am thinking of you Hope and your family at this sad time. May all the happy times you had together bring you comfort.
Joan Banning
February 26, 2013
Hope, So sorry for your loss.
Daniel Pusey
February 26, 2013
It is always a new challange when we have to say goodbye for now to a friend or family member. As a local CE & PLS I got to know Bernie at APC. I always enjoyed his New England accent which he never lost to hoosier exposure.
Robert Kurtz
February 26, 2013
Dear Hope and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Bernie's passing. I wish you peace and strength as you say goodbye and hold his memory in your hearts.
Jill Lestina
February 26, 2013
I am sorry for your loss. May God's peace and comfort be with you during this sad time.
Marc Scarcelli
February 26, 2013
I will always remember Bernie as a joyful spirit, kind, friendly, and fun. My deepest sympathies to Hope and Max.
Ollie Wendt
February 25, 2013
Hope and family,
I am very sorry for your loss. Stay strong during these days.
Michael and Elizabeth LANA
February 25, 2013
Our sincerest condolences to Hope and Max. Peace.
Carol Karpick Howard
February 25, 2013
Saddened to see a longtime neighbor of my childhood home has left us. Hope, my warmest thoughts are with you and your son.
Michael and Elizabeth LANA
February 25, 2013
Our sincerest condolences to Hope and Max.Peace.
Sherry Smith
February 25, 2013
Hope, Furman and my thoughts and prayers are with you and Max.
Sydne Weiner
February 25, 2013
During the time prior to, during and after our 50th Jamaica High reunion, I was so fortunate to get to know Bernie who was my guide and help in writing a mini-yearbook. I only wish I had the time to know him better. To Hope and Max, I can only offer my condolences. We will all miss the wonderful and exceptional man.
Steve Holmes
February 25, 2013
Shocked and saddened to hear of Bernie's death. Peace and strength to you both Hope and Max.
mary geiger devault
February 25, 2013
so sorry to hear of Bernie's passing. I enjoyed working with Bernie and remember fondly the poems, the cat (diabetic),and the bagels after a NY trip home.
Heather Prough
February 25, 2013
I met Bernie in 1999 when I joined the APC. He was a wise man, a cool man, a smart man, someone you could always talk to about anything. Someone you could agree to disagree with. I am shocked and sadden by this sudden loss. My prayers go out to Hope and Max, two people he loved more than anything else. He always beamed when he spoke about Max. What a terrible loss for you.
Albert Levy
February 25, 2013
It is with much saddness that I learned of Bernies passing. He was my mentor at the Area Plan Commission. One of the most intelligent persons I have ever known. He had a kind, gentle demeanor and always had time for others.
Kris Hoggatt
February 25, 2013
Rest in peace, Bernie. You will be missed.
Linda LeMar
February 25, 2013
Bernie was such a compassionate gentle soul. I am so sad to see him go. Peace and caring for you Hope, Max and all who loved him.
Carrie Smith and family
February 25, 2013
Our deepest sympathies are with you, Hope and Max. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Claudia Mornout
February 25, 2013
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, Hope and Max. It is impossible to imagine life without Bernie. Cherish your good memories. We will all be here to support you, listen, cry, laugh.
Lafayette Urban Ministry
February 25, 2013
Please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of your dear loved one, Bernie. He made a big impact on this community and will be sorely missed. May he rest in peace and may God hold you in the palm of His hand.
The Board and Staff of Lafayette Urban Ministry
Roberta Schonemann
February 25, 2013
The Lafayette Independent has lost a joyous voice, a devoted supporter, a loyal staff member. My deepest sympathy goes to Hope and Max ("The economist").
February 25, 2013
What a legacy you have left. From my beginnings at APC, you were someone who I looked to. Your influence will be never ending. Much love to the family.
Margy Deverall
February 25, 2013
My mentor and BFF. The world is a less bright place. My heart goes out to you Hope, Max, family and all those who loved Bernie.
Kara Cheek
February 25, 2013
Hope and Max,
I have such fond memories of Bernie, you and Max when I was in W. Lafayette.
What difficult, sad news.
I am thinking of you both and of your extended family.
With love
Claudia and Chad Alenduff
February 25, 2013
Hope, we extend our deepest sympathy to you and your son. May all the memories you have of Bernie get you both thru the future days. You both will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Janet Bolan
February 24, 2013
Our deepest sympathy to you, Hope and Max. May your memories bring you comfort!
Kevin Ludwig
February 24, 2013
Hope and Max, You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Patricia Mason
February 24, 2013
I was sorry to learn of Bernie's passing. He was a great guy to work with when he was at the APC and I was Wabash Trustee. He was always a professional. Condolences to the family.
Linda Godfrey
February 24, 2013
Hope and Max you are in my thoughts. Stay strong in the days to come!
Linda, Lavonia GA
Lillian
February 24, 2013
Hope, I am overwhelmed with sadness since Johanna called with the tragic news.
February 24, 2013
our thoughts are with you
Martha (Baumstein) Landaw
Mike and Carolyn Gery
February 24, 2013
Mike and I were saddened to learn of Bernie's death. Our son, Michael called today after talking to Paul Mitchell. Our sincerest condolences to the family.
February 24, 2013
For my baby brother with more love and understanding than probably anyone should have,and again with more love for Hope and Max than which anyone could possibly have. Helen.
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