Search by Name

Search by Name

C. Robert Wray

C. Wray Obituary

WRAY--C. Robert (Bob) Wray, K.M., 78, passed away August 30, 2008 peacefully at home, in Mashpee, MA, after a long illness. Leaves wife Paula Roche Wray of 53 years, two daughters Kathanne W. Fowler and husband Robert Fowler, Maura W. Leddy and husband John W. Leddy. Four grandchildren. Predeceased by a son Christopher and a daughter, Sheila. Formerly associated with Canterbury School, Villa Duschene, Convent of Sacred Heart and Stoneleigh Burnham School for girls. Visiting hours are Tuesday, September 9, from 4-8pm in Chapman, Cole & Gleason Funeral Home, 548 Route 28A, West Falmouth, MA. A Funeral Mass will be held Wednesday at 11:00am in St. Elizabeth Seton Church, Quaker Rd, North Falmouth, MA. Interment will follow in North Falmouth Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Hospice & Palliative Care of Cape Cod, 765 Attucks Lane, Hyannis, MA 02601. For online, guestbook, directions and obituary visit www.ccgfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by New York Times on Sep. 5, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for C. Wray

Not sure what to say?





Tad Shay

September 9, 2008

Dear Paula, Kathanne and Maura:
My deepest sympathy to you and extended Wray family. Bob was a wonderful man and I know you will miss him so, however, his good life and daily example should sustain you all in the days and years ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Love,
Tad

kathy mulhern

September 8, 2008

Maura, Jack, Tierney & PJ,
Our thoughts are with you. Sorry for your loss.
The Mulhern family

Mike Casey

September 5, 2008

Mr. Wray,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served with the USN as a "Tin Can Sailor" aboard the destroyer USS O'Brien during the Cold War. Millions Of Americans slept safe at night because you and your fellow servicemen stood ready to defend our Country. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Fair Winds And Following Seas

Bob Trehearne

September 5, 2008

In loving memory of a special guy. Thanks for all the memories from ND basketball and the more recent conversations at the 50th and 55th reunion.
Bob Trehearne ND 1952

Charles and Mary Ann Falkenberg

September 5, 2008

We lose a good friend of many years and our prayers go to his loving family.

J S

September 5, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Bill/Vicki Holland

September 5, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Showing 1 - 7 of 7 results

Make a Donation
in C. Wray's name

Memorial Events
for C. Wray

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support C.'s loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor C. Wray's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more