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CARL FLEMISTER Obituary

FLEMISTER--Carl E. Rev. Dr. Carl E. Flemister, beloved to his wife, L. Faye Flemister, and six generations, died peacefully on January 30, 2020 in Boca Raton, FL at 91. He was predeceased by first wife, Graciela R. Flemister, brother, Charles, Jr., sister Elizabeth, mother, Beatrice Benjamin Flemister, and father, Charles Deward Flemister. Born in 1928, he holds a B.A. from NYU and honorary doctorates from Manhattanville College and Iloilo University. Ordained at Bethesda Baptist Church, New Rochelle, he was a social worker in Harlem and on the Upper West Side, served as Executive Director of Planned Parenthood of New York City, was Pastor of Mariner's Temple Baptist Church, worked for HIP, and retired as Executive Minister of American Baptist Churches of Metropolitan New York. He helped found the Manhattan Country School and served on many boards of trustees. His dedication to the underserved is embodied in Flemister House on West 22nd Street. A compass of love and justice to myriad, he leaves his sister, Barbara Flemister Mullen, his children, Grace Angela Henry, (Bryan; Thomas, Garrison), Jonathan Carl (the late Yolanda Sciorta-Flemister; Summer Grace), Lori Lynn, and David Lewis (Sara James; Jacob James, Maya Graciela), and step-children Michele Tyler (Lee; Mercedes) and Marc Ignatius (Antoinette; Heather, Charles, Dominic). He will be missed, but his legacy and love live on. A memorial will be held at a later date. Gifts in his name can be made to Manhattan Country School, Trustbridge Hospice Foundation, and American Baptist Churches of Metropolitan New York.

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Published by New York Times on Feb. 3, 2020.

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Patricia Reeberg

March 9, 2020

Rev. Dr. Carl Flemister was a friend to all and an advocate for equality. So many women in ministry owe a debt of gratitude to Rev. Flemister. I will always cherish his friendship.

Joy M Walton

February 6, 2020

JUST HEARD THE NEWS OF THE PASSING OF REV. CARL FLEMISTER. KEEPING HIS FAMI!Y IN OUR PRAYERS! HE MARRIED MY HUSBAND AND I 46 YEARS AGO!

Theresa Kerin

February 3, 2020

Dear Angela and Family. You have lost a father, grandfather, etc, who clearly was a man of remarkable accomplishment; a life well lived. I send my prayers for you all.
Sincerely,
Theresa (Tee) Kerin

Cheryl Dudley

February 3, 2020

Your legacy of service, justice and love remains. Go in peace to God's embrace With gratitude, Rev. Cheryl F. Dudley

Emmette Lyons

February 3, 2020

The Lyons and Touchstone Families send our condolences on the passing of our Uncle Buddy . He was so loved by his Ga. relatives. My comfort is I recently got to talk to him and I always loved to hear that New York accent.Aunt Faye and the entire family , we will continue to lift u all up in prayer.

mark b

February 3, 2020

uncle buddy love ever- mark

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