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CLARK--The Reverend Charles Halsey "Kelly." The Reverend Charles Halsey "Kelly" Clark, a kind and gentle man, respected leader, Episcopal priest, theological educator, beloved husband of Priscilla Hannah Clark, and father to five children, died in Exeter, NH, on March 11, 2019. He was 92. Born on December 2, 1926, in New York City, Kelly was the son of Martha Keck Clark and Alfred Marling Clark. He grew up in Coronado, CA., attending the Francis Parker School in San Diego and the Thacher School in Ojai. In 1944, Kelly enlisted in the United States Naval Reserve Officers Training Corps V12 program at UCLA, later graduating in 1948 from Yale. He earned his M.Div. from Virginia Theological Seminary in 1951 and was ordained a priest in the Diocese of New York in December of 1952. In 1953, Kelly married Priscilla, another native Californian and student at the Yale Divinity School. With Priscilla and her daughter, Pamela, the couple began a wonderful 66- year partnership. From 1953 to 1957, Kelly served as assistant chaplain at Yale, lecturer in Old and New Testaments, and director of Yale's International Student Center. During that time, he received an M.A. from Yale in Old Testament studies in 1956. For 20 years, from 1957 to 1977, Kelly worked for the Overseas Department of the Episcopal Church, living from 1957 to 1967 in Singapore, where he served as canon at St. Andrew's Anglican Cathedral, as a faculty member of Trinity Theological College, and as Warden of St. Peter's Hall. He spent an additional 10 years as the dean of St. Andrew's Theological Seminary and dean of Trinity College, Quezon City, Philippines, where he co-founded the South East Asia Institute of Music and Liturgy. Kelly returned to the U.S. in 1977 to become dean of Berkeley Divinity School and an associate dean of the Yale Divinity School. In 1982, Kelly and Priscilla moved to Concord, NH, where, as the Ninth Rector of St. Paul's School, Kelly led 10 happy, fulfilling years among the School's students, faculty, and families. Upon his "retirement," Kelly served as interim rector at St. Bartholomew's Episcopal Church, New York City, and then as vicar of St. John the Evangelist in Dunbarton, NH. In 2010, Kelly and Priscilla moved to the Riverwoods Retirement Community in Exeter, NH. Throughout his life, Kelly received several honorary degrees and served on the boards of schools and organizations, including the Thacher School, the White Mountain School, the Foundation for Theological Education in South East Asia, the Yale in China Program and as chairman of the New Hampshire Humanities Council. Kelly was a champion tennis player and a great horseman, including playing on the Singapore polo team. Kelly was a gentle, kind, and beloved human being, always gracious, a true teacher, an elegant athlete, a devoted priest, and missionary of the Gospel. He had a great sense of humor. He loved his family and friends, dogs, horses, tennis, poetry, music, acting, dancing, and the beach. He was devoted to following God's call wherever that led him, faithfully pastoring all the communities under his care. Kelly is survived by his wife, Priscilla; four children, Martha, Nathaniel, Mary, and Anne; 11 grandchildren; four great-grandchildren; and two great-great-grandchildren. He was predeceased by his daughter, Pamela. A Requiem Eucharist will be held on Friday, May 3, at 1:30pm in the Chapel of St. Peter and St. Paul, St. Paul's School, Concord, NH. A reception will follow. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to: Victory Programs (Boston, Mass.) and to the Advanced Studies Program at St. Paul's School.

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Published by New York Times on Mar. 24, 2019.

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Nicholas Thacher

April 21, 2019

Kelly was undoubtedly the most elegant man I ever met--brilliantly observant, staggeringly eloquent, warm-hearted and entertaining. He embodied the bromide of an educated person, who can entertain a friend, an idea, and himself. Rest in peace.

April 10, 2019

May your beloved R.I.P. and may God provide comfort and solace to mourning family and friends.

March 30, 2019

May the God of all comfort sustain your family during the days ahead Psalms 119:76

Marcy Chong

March 29, 2019

One of the greats. He transformed lives and lives on in the hearts of so many people. Most of all: he was kind.

March 28, 2019

Priscilla and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Kelly was a wonderful man and a true inspiration to me in my teaching and spiritual lives.

Johanna Young

March 26, 2019

We never met, but I remember Anne's fond stories about him from St. John's, Dunbarton
May he rest in peace with the saints in heaven.
May God's Love console Anne and the family in this grieving time.

Helen Zachos

March 26, 2019

Sending my Love and Blessings to all that Loved Kelly. Free from his earthly burdens and at home with God, whom he worked so faithfully.

March 24, 2019

To his family, my condolence. May our godly father bring much needed comfort and peace. Mathews 5:4

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